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Are munches the best place to meet a Dom? - 7/26/2005 8:13:35 PM

fastlane

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Since I quit smoking, my munchies are really at a minimum. Am I missing out?
I would really love to meet a true submissive, but keep getting hammered here for soliciting. What's a Dom to do?
How can we stand out and have you all take notice, to the point of inquiring?
Inquiring Doms want to know?

Thank you all for legitimate answers and Fuck all you smart asses......whew, glad I got that off of my chest!

See, I'm not as Domb.....I mean Dumb...as I look

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RE: Are munches the best place to meet a Dom? - 7/26/2005 10:07:22 PM

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LOL I have to say Fastlane that I love reading your posts and replies.

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RE: Are munches the best place to meet a Dom? - 7/27/2005 12:02:35 AM

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I thought we've already had this topic with you?

Yes, go to munches and go to parties.

Yes you certainly can find someone who doesn't go to any of those and start online and go from there.

Just be yourself.

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RE: Are munches the best place to meet a Dom? - 7/27/2005 12:03:45 AM

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Munches are a good way to get to know people. Once you get known and develop a good reputation, it is a short step to finding someone. I met my husband via a munch group's play party and know several others, both Dom/me and sub, who have met partners after attending a munch for a while.

If you've never been to a munch before, read http://www.soj.org/articles/A%20Beginners%20Guide%20to%20BDSM%20Munches.htm

I didn't find a lot of listings for Maryland, but will give you what I found.
http://www.bess-md.org/
http://www.br.org/
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/DCMDNoVA-MulticultralMunchGroup/
http://www.thesacredgarden.org/

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RE: Are munches the best place to meet a Dom? - 7/27/2005 6:19:43 AM

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Hello There,
I see you're local to my area. One of the cool places around MD to meet people in a smoke free environment is The Crucible Dungeon in DC. They have one smoking room and the rest of the place is completely smoke free. I'd even be willing to introduce you around to some very lovely sub friends of mine that have good manners. To see more about them go to the-crucible.com. If you come Saturday night I'll be there with my Master.
We could meet you there.
SIncerely,
sub suzanne

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RE: Are munches the best place to meet a Dom? - 7/27/2005 7:35:57 AM

fastlane

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Hey Greenie, thank you for the compliment. I try to add humor and wit to my post, but often times I think I'm the only one that finds it funny and it is so emabarrasing to be the only one in the room laughing.
Emerald...yes, we have had this discussion before and it may come up again, now if I could only make other parts of my anatomy come up again and again.
Beach Mystress...thanks for the links, I will check them out.
Suzanne, that is a most gracious invitation and I should probably know if I can make it or not by Friday. Thank you and I'll keep you posted.

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RE: Are munches the best place to meet a Dom? - 7/27/2005 8:06:33 AM

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I think they are great things.

When I first entered the life-style (a million years ago) there were none and i lived in a closet that very rarely let me meet anyone.

A munch allows a submissive to meet a Dom in an atmosphere where she can feel safe and it gives a Dom a chance to meet without having to perform .

I think that learning to know people and establish trust is a great beginning for a true relationship.

My Master and I met on-line and we have been together r/l for 7 years.

I wish you well and hope that you might find that certain someone that makes your life shine.

arry
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