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Owner4SexSlave -> RE: What experiences has anyone had with free rides, hidden agendas (10/8/2007 5:16:05 PM)
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What's the fun and point in keeping one's Agendas a secret any ways. I think everybody has an Agenda, a Goal, a Mission or Direction they want out in life. I don't have an issue with anybody with an Agenda.
Secret or hidden Agendas are a bitch to deal with, because it misleads and keeps the other person guessing. If your agenda is hidden, you'll never really get what you want. It's pretty self defeating in the long run.
If it's somebody agenda to own a slave and have her do all the housework, let it be known. You just might find what you are looking for. If you just want to use somebody for XYZ, you might find somebody who will give you XYZ if you can give them ABC. Even more so, considering the BDSM lifestyle itself. Where people are seeking out one another to consentually use and abuse each other.
Some people might enjoy paying all the bills and taking care of somebody, you might bring or give them a sense of purpose in life. Some people might enjoy cleaning house and domestic service, it gives them a sense of purpose in life. Somebody might enjoy being controlled and micromanaged in life, It brings them a sense of purpose in life.
Why bother hidding Agendas, when you can get them out in the open and find what you really are looking for.
Some people baulk when topics such as Financial Slavery come up. However, for somebody out there, it would give them a sense of purpose in life. A reason to actually hold down a job and work. What brings or gives one person a sense of purpose in life is different for another.
Even me, while I don't understand why a person would want to become an "one type" of Slave 24/7 somewhat baffles me, I still have to accept the fact, that it gives them a sense of purpose in life.
For some people, a little girl to nuture protect and guide, gives them a sense of purpose. Just as much as it for some to seek out a caring Daddy Dom.
Hidden Agenda fall apart in time. It's a lot of wheel spinning and self defeating. Personally the Truth can be more shocking, blunt and fun to share. There's always the mind puke factor when you bluntly share what's on your mind.
This is why people that only want sex, get laid. Because they simply say.. "Hey, you wanna fuck to complete strangers at a bar?" personally, I find these type of people very honest. Much better human beings compared to those that lead somebody on and trick them into believing there could be something more.
People that bluntly hit on each other at the bars or this manner, often get a bad rap for being a Game player. However, they are pretty upfront and honest. The True Game players are the ones with Hidden Agenda or selling others on a pack full of lies. Generally, not easy to spot because they are good at the Game.
As LA said in her response. "Time reveals All Agendas". The Truth Always comes out sooner or later.
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