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AlwaysDripping -> Anyone looking to control a female's orgasms? (10/8/2007 3:22:32 PM)

I know there's a lot of control that people like to have over guy's orgasms, but how many people are into controlling a girl's? I have a really high sex drive and I feel like someone controlling my orgasms would be just as effective as someone controlling a guy's. I would go just as insane from teasing and controlling and forced orgasms as a guy would, and probably just as submissive about it. Anyone into controlling a girl's orgasms?




Sexynmentalinkc -> RE: Anyone looking to control a female's orgasms? (10/8/2007 3:24:53 PM)

Been there, done that, bought the t-shirt.

It's great fun and can lead to many MANY good things.


*thumbs up, tipping his hat*

- Mr. S




KiandPhoenix -> RE: Anyone looking to control a female's orgasms? (10/8/2007 3:31:13 PM)

Sure, I think there are a lot of us who enjoy that. I had to get used to Phoenix wanting that. I mean I always loved to tease, and work a woman up, but we go further than that a lot of times. I know several woman who only want to have an orgasm half or less of the time. Takes some getting used to if you are like me, and enjoy making a woman cum, or are used to having multiple orgasmic partners. It also takes a lot of practice and work to get a woman just to the edge and not let her go over. It takes practice.
~Ki




Owner4SexSlave -> RE: Anyone looking to control a female's orgasms? (10/8/2007 3:36:38 PM)

Are you kidding, it's a bit like BDSM 101. Teasing and Controlling.  It's a bit like how Peanut Butter and Jelly go good together in a sandwich.

Confession time!  I'm the type of guy that might get somebody hooked on doing a lot of masterbating for awhile or excessive amounts of stimulation, then shut them down for a couple of days.  Watch them spin crazy.  Cruel you say?  Fun part is tapping into it after a few days when they are so sexually frustrated they are ready to loose their friggen mind.    OH yeah, I also enjoy prolonging orgasms, enjoy hearing somebody to beg me to stop, and how dizzy it makes them.   Leg shaking, Head spinning, Mind ready to jump out of the skull type of play.






breatheasone -> RE: Anyone looking to control a female's orgasms? (10/8/2007 3:58:46 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Owner4SexSlave

Are you kidding, it's a bit like BDSM 101. Teasing and Controlling.  It's a bit like how Peanut Butter and Jelly go good together in a sandwich.

Confession time!  I'm the type of guy that might get somebody hooked on doing a lot of masterbating for awhile or excessive amounts of stimulation, then shut them down for a couple of days.  Watch them spin crazy.  Cruel you say?  Fun part is tapping into it after a few days when they are so sexually frustrated they are ready to loose their friggen mind.    OH yeah, I also enjoy prolonging orgasms, enjoy hearing somebody to beg me to stop, and how dizzy it makes them.   Leg shaking, Head spinning, Mind ready to jump out of the skull type of play.




HOLY SHIT.....




Torc42 -> RE: Anyone looking to control a female's orgasms? (10/8/2007 4:01:56 PM)

That could be a lot of fun.  A nice steel chastity belt is what you're looking for.  And of course some kinky twisted person to hold the keys for you.

Just think what you might be willing to do just to get belt unlocked for a few minutes.  The mind boggles.  :-)




chellekitty -> RE: Anyone looking to control a female's orgasms? (10/8/2007 4:06:58 PM)

you need a steel chastisty belt to control a female's orgasms?

if i am in a M/s relationship and they turn that key on, i can't have an orgasm for the life of me without permission, damn him for programming my brain to do that....




AlwaysDripping -> RE: Anyone looking to control a female's orgasms? (10/8/2007 5:16:59 PM)

are you that person torc? lol




Tristan -> RE: Anyone looking to control a female's orgasms? (10/8/2007 5:19:27 PM)

I've had a submissive g/f who was into orgasm control.  It turned out to be an incredibly intense experience.  I would keep her on the very edge of orgasm for an unspecified amount of time, and then see how hard I could make her cum.  She would never know when I would allow her to orgasm.  I think orgasm control made her feel intensely submissive.  I always knew when I was pushing her to her limits, and when she could not take any more.  It was incredibly fun.  I have even had vanilla g/fs who were into orgasm control.  It's probably more common than you think.

Tristan




chellekitty -> RE: Anyone looking to control a female's orgasms? (10/8/2007 5:20:34 PM)

umm no




TotalState -> RE: Anyone looking to control a female's orgasms? (10/8/2007 5:26:29 PM)

Oh yes.  Being in control of when my submissive gets an orgasm is probably one of my favorite things in the world.

It doesn't matter whether it is denial or forced multiple orgasms (in fact, I like to do a little of both), I love it all!




LP -> RE: Anyone looking to control a female's orgasms? (10/8/2007 5:49:18 PM)

is true training a submissive so that I can control her orgasiums is a D/s 101 task and I been succussful at it and has brought us both great pleasure




laurell3 -> RE: Anyone looking to control a female's orgasms? (10/8/2007 5:50:51 PM)

yeah, my own and I guarantee you a steel chastity belt would do nothing to stop it.
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snowboardinpa -> RE: Anyone looking to control a female's orgasms? (10/8/2007 7:39:04 PM)

you don't live too far from me when i'm in college. I'm in Poultney Vermont. I would love to be a key holder for you if you need it.....




laurell3 -> RE: Anyone looking to control a female's orgasms? (10/8/2007 7:42:24 PM)

lol thanks for the offer but it was tongue in cheek.
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snowboardinpa -> RE: Anyone looking to control a female's orgasms? (10/8/2007 8:53:32 PM)

it was more for always dripping but hey its all good right?




Darke -> RE: Anyone looking to control a female's orgasms? (10/8/2007 10:51:37 PM)

dripping--

this type of conditioning is almost terrifyingly simple to accomplish for anyone with even the most rudimentary knowledge of conditioning techniques.

Much like a dog with a barking problem, the trick is to teach it to bark on command.

Step 1--Notice and treat WHEN your dog barks:
1A--Fuck your slave a lot.
1B--Be awake and notice when s/he comes.
1C--Consistently over time "anchor" her orgasm to either a verbal or tactile stimulus.  IE, either say the same thing or touch her in the same place every time s/he comes.  "Just like that, girl"; lick her neck, "Shatter.", pinch a nip.  Every time.  Consistently.  Over time.   Every Time.

Step 2--treat SO THAT your dog barks
2A--Talk about Skinner.  How funny it is that all meat from rodent to person responds to operant conditioning, free will or no.
2B--With your talk still fresh in her mind, give the anchor.  "The mojito is fat free.  Do it JUST LIKE THAT, GIRL." Watch her struggle to maintain composure.  The hotness of your waitress at Chili's is completely immaterial to this step, other than your amusement.
2C--Try not to come in your pants as her eyes widen in surprise and fear at your Godly Domliness.  Repeat steps 2B-2C as often as is amusing.  Think upon the poor dog trainers who must rely on operant conditioning alone, without the benefit of the mind-fuckee knowing and craving full well what is happening.

Step 3--Treat ONLY when your dog barks on command.
3A--Continue to fuck your slave a lot, as in 1A.
3B--Be awake, and notice when s/he is about to come.  Withdraw your Cock/fingers/tongue at the opportune time.
3C--In the state of discomfiture 3B should leave him/her in, exhibit your anchor/trigger.  Watch as hilarity ensues. Timing this to your orgasm is not essential, but can have salubrious effects.

Remember--success is confidence plus repetition.




RRafe -> RE: Anyone looking to control a female's orgasms? (10/8/2007 11:07:13 PM)

Sure. It's a very fun way to get the upper hand. Most men are too horny to do it.




Lordandmaster -> RE: Anyone looking to control a female's orgasms? (10/8/2007 11:17:14 PM)

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Owner4SexSlave -> RE: Anyone looking to control a female's orgasms? (10/8/2007 11:25:27 PM)

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ORIGINAL: breatheasone
HOLY SHIT.....

LOL... I've heard that before.  Oh come on, I can't be only one who's twisted and sadistic in this way?   I've even pulled this with my vanilla girl friends in the past.  A little more subtle but still the same thing.  You know having crazy non-stop sex and getting them to masterbate for me for a couple of weeks.  Then without warning shut them off from having sex for 3 days, and ask them not to masterbate for a few days.  That I have a special night I'm planning and it will be intense sex if they wait, amazing all one has to do is just sell somebody on the idea.  Don't need no steel chastity belts save for all the Bad Girls out there that can't control themselves. hahaha..  Seriously though done with with Vanillas and BDSMer Girls.   I'm evil when it comes to this, I've been called evil.   I've heard HOLY SHIT after three days before... Even have heard other words such as "Asshole" slip out while prolonging an orgasm.  Hehehe.. I'm loving every minute of it.  

Feel a bit like a sexual drug dealer.. getting them all hooked on a lot of frequent sex and sexual stimulation, then shut 'em down... watch 'em go with cold turkey withdrawls.   A Vanilla girl you just gotta sell them on the idea of doing it, with a sub/slave in the lifestyle.. just gotta tell them not to do it.   Ask or Tell, either way it turns out with the same results.  

Somehow controling an un elevated Sex Drive is not the same, as controlling an elevated one for awhile.  I'd rather have a Sex Addict on my hands and shut them down from time to time... instead of making somebody go for weeks and weeks on end without it.   Just ain't the same.   So I'm a bit like the anti-christ when it comes to Chastity.   I'll make one do it over and over again.   Then shut them off.   Just think in terms of how people practice Chasity and do everthing completely opposite.  Down to instead of having somebody Beg me to cum, they find themselves begging me to stop.

Is there a Label for this form of "Reverse Chasity"?   If not there should be, cause I Love doing this immensely. 




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