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ORIGINAL: DefiantDiala

Thank you for everyone in the community for offering their advice. He has read this thread and it seems the posts asking questions have really opened his mind about what is going on with him. I want to especially thank Breatheasone, as your comment about possible guilt lead to a few confessions from him that I hadn't known, much less thought of. I think the long term effects of giving our first child up for adoption has had a far greater impact on him then it has on me. So thank you, to everyone for opening up our minds to questions we would probably never have thought about. He has agreed to seek counseling and to sit down with me in a serious manor and discuss both of our needs and/or possible solutions if one of us is not able to meet the others. For those interested, I'll keep updating as time goes by and how things turn out.

Sincerely,
DefiantDiala