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If you were the Dominant... - 10/9/2007 6:20:52 AM   
petdave


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If you were the Dominant partner in your relationship, what ONE rule would you make/change in your household?




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RE: If you were the Dominant... - 10/9/2007 6:22:50 AM   
chiaThePet


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chia* (the pet)

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RE: If you were the Dominant... - 10/9/2007 6:38:55 AM   
chellekitty


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be honest, even when it hurts...but that rigorus honesty, not rediculous honesty....


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RE: If you were the Dominant... - 10/9/2007 9:33:14 AM   
worththeeffort


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*seconds Chia's rule*

~kitty

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RE: If you were the Dominant... - 10/9/2007 9:37:38 AM   
chellekitty


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Status: offline 		for the record....chia's rule is completely backwards in my household

ok so its not, but i am feeling contrary


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RE: If you were the Dominant... - 10/9/2007 10:06:03 AM   
YourhandMyAss


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RE: If you were the Dominant... - 10/9/2007 10:29:57 AM   
Twicehappy2x


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RE: If you were the Dominant... - 10/9/2007 11:49:37 AM   
salilus


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RE: If you were the Dominant... - 10/9/2007 12:55:49 PM   
onmykneesb4Him


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RE: If you were the Dominant... - 10/9/2007 1:22:25 PM   
agirl


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agirl

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RE: If you were the Dominant... - 10/9/2007 1:40:05 PM   
murmur


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RE: If you were the Dominant... - 10/9/2007 2:07:21 PM   
AquaticSub


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ORIGINAL: petdave

If you were the Dominant partner in your relationship, what ONE rule would you make/change in your household?



A daily half hour of tummy tubs...

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RE: If you were the Dominant... - 10/9/2007 2:31:43 PM   
michelleryder


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RE: If you were the Dominant... - 10/9/2007 4:12:40 PM   
YourhandMyAss


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Status: offline 		I agree with whomever said rub downs. I can be petted for hours if they do it right.

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RE: If you were the Dominant... - 10/9/2007 4:34:30 PM   
Aneirin


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Status: offline 		The most important rule to me,would be absolute honesty,If I were not performing as a submissive requires,their expectations,I would desire their honesty,how they would like,as I see the dominant/submissive thing as a two way street,we are a kinky pair there for each other, to suffice our needs.This of course could be described as topping from the bottom, but to me,a relationship whatever it may be is about satisfying each other and I would like to be what that other requires,as I request the other to be what I require.

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RE: If you were the Dominant... - 10/9/2007 5:21:17 PM   
IrishMist


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ORIGINAL: petdave

Kind of a silly post for the long term/live-in subs/slaves...

If you were the Dominant partner in your relationship, what ONE rule would you make/change in your household?






I would adopt the one rule that was in place for myself

my way or the highway

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RE: If you were the Dominant... - 10/9/2007 5:52:54 PM   
gypsygrl


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If you were the Dominant partner in your relationship, what ONE rule would you make/change in your household?



All the adults would have to sit down together for a certain amount of time everyday to talk about household matters.


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RE: If you were the Dominant... - 10/9/2007 6:00:25 PM   
kyraofMists


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Status: offline 		Can't think of any that I would change, but I would add one.

The toilet seat must go down before going to bed.  It really sucks to get up in the middle of the night and fall in...

On the other hand, a cat falling in is hysterical.

Knight's Kyra

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RE: If you were the Dominant... - 10/9/2007 6:05:19 PM   
chellekitty


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ORIGINAL: kyraofMists

On the other hand, a cat falling in is hysterical.



i hope you are referring to a feline cat and not a human cat.....


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RE: If you were the Dominant... - 10/9/2007 6:11:47 PM   
kyraofMists


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ORIGINAL: chellekitty
i hope you are referring to a feline cat and not a human cat.....



Yep; my black cat when she was little didn't realize that the toilet did not always have a lid, so jumped on top and fell in.  She was so small she couldn't get out by herself and I was laughing hysterically.  She looked liked a rat.

This is also the same cat that a year later walked across a candle and singed her fur on her tail...

Now, the toilet lid stays down and I don't burn candles.

Knight's Kyra



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