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RE: Help from real Mistress - 10/10/2007 2:23:23 AM   
MsLilac


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ORIGINAL: Oh2PleaseHer

It seems to me most on here are fake not to mention men or boys pretending to be Domme. Is there a better way?


Yes, there is.

How interested are you in actually hearing it?

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RE: Help from real Mistress - 10/10/2007 2:30:25 AM   
MissMagnolia


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Status: offline 		It's true. I am a fake. I am actually a submissive male librarian from Woolongong, slightly balding, with a beer belly, false teeth and bad breath.

Most of us are, if only we'd get real about it.

Most of the subs on here are fake, too. Damned dominant politicians with hairy backs and the great unwritten novel in their heads.

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RE: Help from real Mistress - 10/10/2007 2:50:57 AM   
chathamvahere


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Status: offline 		Personally, we have had no luck on CM, lots of promises, many wannabees, but nothing, I personally hate to cyber, and that seems to be all the potential slave females want to do, gotta love that famous question "whatcha going to do to me"??? heaven forbid if you don't write a 3 or 3 page introduction, so the potential slave or sub can either read it and not respond, delete it unread, or ignore it alltogether, so if you write a couple of lines thats just wrong (that means you didn't want them anyway) and please don't ask them to look at your profile, thats rude, oh and if they invite you to chat do not even think they have read your profile first, that would take the surprise out of that next question "what are you looking for"??? now be careful with this one, if you answer with anything that your profile stated, they are offended or" I don't like that" or they are gone not even goodbye, I could go on, but these are a few of my adventures on CM.

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RE: Help from real Mistress - 10/10/2007 2:52:26 AM   
bottomboy81


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ORIGINAL: DianeB269

Lots of fake subs here just looking for kinky sex. Are you one of them?


Diane


Well I am proud to be a bottom, I am not going to bullshit and say I am some thing who I am not. I am not looking for kinky sex. I am looking for sexual gratification. Is that still forbidden for most dommes?

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RE: Help from real Mistress - 10/10/2007 3:26:12 AM   
HottLicks


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quote:

ORIGINAL: bottomboy81

quote:

ORIGINAL: DianeB269

Lots of fake subs here just looking for kinky sex. Are you one of them?


Diane


Well I am proud to be a bottom, I am not going to bullshit and say I am some thing who I am not. I am not looking for kinky sex. I am looking for sexual gratification. Is that still forbidden for most dommes?


It's not forbidden. lol Hey you can do what you want.  But it's all about how you go about doing it.  Call us fakes... just want us to provide your gratification and such... some have a problem with that.  If you are honest about what you want, no big deal.  Some might play your way.  We don't make your rules.  But we do make our rules and most of us don't like dealing with men who wish to treat us like thier personal lil gratification toy.

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RE: Help from real Mistress - 10/10/2007 3:38:27 AM   
slavebrandyj


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Status: offline 		Gee, this gives me an idea! I am a male sub. (for real...but maybe you would not believe that either)
But if I want more attention, more mail, I think I'm gonna make a new profile as a Domme! Steal some hot, sexy leather clad, whip yielding, Domme's picture put it up and start getting as much mail as the real Domme's here get from new, fake, wanna-be, wankers, fake Doms,  that want to change them etc.
 Yep that will fill my mailbox for sure!
And if I am real lucky, maybe some fake male will write to me and later find out that he is a she, and is in fact the Domme of my dreams!  LMAO

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RE: Help from real Mistress - 10/10/2007 3:41:24 AM   
orfunboi


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Status: offline 		While i don't believe most on here are fakes, i am sure there is a fair number. This is after all the internet. Maybe you should check out the real world, it's lots of fun.

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RE: Help from real Mistress - 10/10/2007 3:55:34 AM   
laurell3


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quote:

ORIGINAL: slavebrandyj

Gee, this gives me an idea! I am a male sub. (for real...but maybe you would not believe that either)
But if I want more attention, more mail, I think I'm gonna make a new profile as a Domme! Steal some hot, sexy leather clad, whip yielding, Domme's picture put it up and start getting as much mail as the real Domme's here get from new, fake, wanna-be, wankers, fake Doms,  that want to change them etc.
 Yep that will fill my mailbox for sure!
And if I am real lucky, maybe some fake male will write to me and later find out that he is a she, and is in fact the Domme of my dreams!  LMAO


LOL that was actually hilarious, thanks.
l

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RE: Help from real Mistress - 10/10/2007 5:41:35 AM   
Oumae


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Status: offline 		I feel real... just be careful of the valve in my neck, open it and I fly around the room making rude noises!

There is a better way...people tend to respond/react better to positive people.

Oumae

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RE: Help from real Mistress - 10/10/2007 7:10:38 AM   
LadyPact


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ORIGINAL: iammachine

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I'm made entirely of plastic.


Suddenly I have Aqua's "Barbie Girl" in my head....



Now, for that one, I can truthfully say that I am sorry.

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RE: Help from real Mistress - 10/10/2007 10:59:04 AM   
beeble


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MissMagnolia wrote: It's true. I am a fake. I am actually a submissive male librarian from Woolongong, slightly balding, with a beer belly, false teeth and bad breath.

I'm also a fake.  In reality, I'm a stunningly beautiful, lesbian Domme living in Mayfair, with a toned body and breasts that burst out of my rubber dresses.  I have a passion for guys who send me one-line, one-handed, txt-spoken E-mails and a secret need to find the Dom who will break me and have me kneel before him while submissive men worship my boots and body.

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RE: Help from real Mistress - 10/10/2007 11:10:01 AM   
DiurnalVampire


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ORIGINAL: Zarine

I get so freaking annoyed at people calling me a fake simply because I'm not going to show them my webcam.  I mean honestly! 

Or call their cells and talk to them. Or flash them a nude pic, or one of you dominating someone else.

If you are tired of the fakes online, then get off line and look around.
I have had great luck meeting my playmates and partners on CM. I have met a few fakes, sure, but I have met enough real people to make the experience worthwhile.

If ALL you are finding is fakes, however, you might want to reconsider what your looking for. If you are looking for fantasy perfection your going to get those playing at it. Reality gets a bit rougher aroundthe edges.

But, you cant take my word for it. Everyone knows Angel and I are both fakes, because I dont beat the hell out of Angel for my amusement and he doesnt serve other men at my whim.

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RE: Help from real Mistress - 10/10/2007 12:33:34 PM   
GoddessDustyGold


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quote:

ORIGINAL: laurell3


I guess I can understand someone wanting to see if the person is really a female, but come on be realistic, it's a personals site about sex. 



This is where we have to part company.  I do not use this site as a personals site about sex.  I use it as a personals site about an alternative relationship.  That relationship does include kink, but I figure I am just ahead of the game by posting a profile here as opposed to going through a vanilla dating site.  After all, most vanilla relationships involve sex these days.  Yet you do not often hear of men immediately approaching a woman's vanilla profile with the questions of "Do you like to be on top?"  or "Will you give me a blow job?"  I want something very specific and it would be a lot of trouble to introduce that to someone who is not familiar with the concept of FemDom and M/s. 
It's only introductory for Me anyway, and one way to network and exchange ideas (i.e., these boards).
That said, I do get annoyed when I am called a fake because I am not willing as others have already pointed out, to send the nudie pics and chat with webcam.  I don't mind the boys who are here looking for that, as long as they are honest.  I can respect that and know that we will not be getting together in that way.  When they resent or think I am not a Domina because I do not instantly want to have phone kink or web kink, then I get to feeling objectified. 
I don't want to say there is misuse of the site, for each person needs to approach it as it fits with his/her goals, but I would say that there are many assumptions made while ignoring profile information and that causes a lot of angry miscommunications and resentment.

< Message edited by GoddessDustyGold -- 10/10/2007 1:09:26 PM >

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RE: Help from real Mistress - 10/10/2007 12:42:55 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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quote:

ORIGINAL: bottomboy81

quote:

ORIGINAL: DianeB269

Lots of fake subs here just looking for kinky sex. Are you one of them?


Diane


Well I am proud to be a bottom, I am not going to bullshit and say I am some thing who I am not. I am not looking for kinky sex. I am looking for sexual gratification. Is that still forbidden for most dommes?


I am glad to hear you describe yourself as a bottom, that is something that so many never do up front.  And sure, sexual gratification is a fine thing.  However, femdoms are WOMEN, and expect to be treated as such.  I am not going to have a s/m scene with  a person that I do not like on some level.  They do not need to be my best friend, or have a blessed thing in common with me, but they DO need to acknowledge that I am not a living breathing sex toy only here to provide for HIS (or her) needs and "gratification". 


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RE: Help from real Mistress - 10/10/2007 2:10:28 PM   
LadyEllen


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Oh2PleaseHer

It seems to me most on here are fake not to mention men or boys pretending to be Domme. Is there a better way?


Hmmm. Lots of others have "confessed" to being fake already.

Given I like to be original, this leaves me in a spot really, all things considered.

E

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RE: Help from real Mistress - 10/11/2007 12:18:36 PM   
kc692


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Status: offline 		Yep yep, nothing to add....was going say meet someone in person, offline, community or otherwise, that way you see if they are real...course, doesn't mean they are telling the truth, but most times you can at least verify gender.

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RE: Help from real Mistress - 10/11/2007 5:15:00 PM   
GoddessQetesh


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Status: offline 		Greetings Everyone!
    I received a message from some guy the other day (mind you, his profile said dominant), and he asked me to consider him as a live in slave. I also told him he obviously didn't read my e-mail, as it is in my profile that one liner e-mail annoy me. He wrote me back with a very rude message. At that point, I let him have a really big piece of my mind and unleashed my inner bitch on him. He returned another one line e-mail stating that he enjoyed messaging with me. Weird. Like he was trying to get me pissed off at him.
    I'm not saying everyone on this site is fake, but there are a good amount of fake people. Usually, you do not see them posting much on here, though. I cannot tell you how many people have e-mailed me without obviously reading my profile. Most of them get deleted. I don't want toput mail filters on, as I do not want to miss meeting some "gems" in this community, or making like minded friends.
    So, I can sort of sympathize with the OP.

Goddess Qetesh

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RE: Help from real Mistress - 10/11/2007 6:25:44 PM   
MasterFireMaam


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Status: offline 		Yes. Get out into your local community. Get out into your national community. Meet people face to face.

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