musikman1
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i had the extreme pleasure to be introduced to CruelMistrezz from collarme.com. She is an absolute delight as a Domme/Mistress, and has a wonderful insight and intelligence in Her dealings that i have experienced.
i'm certainly not the most experienced sub in the room. At 50 yo, i happen to live in an area (KY) where finding fellow kinksters is all but impossible. However, being a "student of the lifestyle," as well as a voracious reader, i've formed some definate ideas of positive traits in a D/s relationship.
CruelMistrezz embodies all of those, at least for my experiences.
Of course, it helps that we definately have compatible interests, so what makes me whine, cry and beg are the same activities that make Her all tingly inside. This compatibility (although i am decidedly less experienced, and requiring extensive training!) has made for a wonderful beginning of a relationship.
We kind of went down what i consider a "standard path," although from reading others experiences, it may be a happy anomaly:
Initial "hello" email: i tend to be a big communications hound, so perhaps my 28K "hello" message was a welcome respite to some of the experiences many Dom/mes tend to endure, considering there seems to be one of You for every 25 of us.
She requested further information with more fully described interests and limits.
i provided a huge BDSM checklist with activity ratings, hard/soft limits, and "added notes."
(Example: Category-Forced bisexual activities, Rating-5 [absolutely love it], Experience level: 3 [i live in KY, after all], NOTES: Make me, i DARE you!)
i also asked permission to provide a "sample scene," to incorporate a lot of my interests.
She gave me permission to send the scene.
Six hours later, i had the third draft of the scene and sent it off to Her.
She loved it. Ordinarily, role-play isn't high on Her list, but i tend to be extremely graphic and all-encompassing in my diatribes, and She found it an interesting idea.
After exchanging a few more emails, CruelMistrezz gave me permission to come visit her for an initial "once-over."
Upon our meeting, CruelMistrezz instantly recognized that i have the unfortunate trait of a lot of subs.. The scenes that i imagine in my "warped little mind" (apologies to South Park) tend to be a little bit above and beyond what i'm actually able to take on at the moment. Recognizing this, She shifted from "mega-cruel" mode to "moderate-cruel" mode, in order to allow me an experience that my body could tolerate rather than the "ultimate-sub-hell" scene that i had scripted (although She's certainly training me up to it!).
She has a wonderful location, a VERY well furnished dungeon, and is obviously extremely experienced in handling "overzealous" subs, and can create an atmosphere and experience that is positive all-around!
Fortunately for me (as i said earlier), our interests are very compatible (although She has MANY interests that far exceed my grasp!), so that it's "worth Her time" to work with me, as our activities both fulfill my submission and humiliation expectations (She's even started stretching those..), as well as providing Her with "entertainment" at my obvious "discomfort" in activities that She enjoys inflicting upon me.
So all the way around, i have found it an extremely fulfilling experience, and really have to admire and respect CruelMistrezz for Her knowledge, experience, and ability to handle people.
(The Russian judge gives her a "10")
gabrielle
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