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How Extreme - 7/28/2005 9:18:02 AM   
Superman42280


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How extreme are your sessions? Is it full on leather, whips and chains or just more subtle service?

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RE: How Extreme - 7/28/2005 9:23:46 AM   
EmeraldSlave2


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Status: offline 		Uhhhhh well it's hard to say. Compared to EXTREMISTS, I'm on the medium side. Compared to the grand majority of play, I'm fairly extreme.

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RE: How Extreme - 7/28/2005 9:32:18 AM   
plantlady64


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Status: offline 		Hello There,
Man Mr Superman all the sudden your the question man. How many have you posted inthe past two days???
I don't mind, but I wonder what's prompted all the questions. Were you getting bored?

My answer is sometimes I'm very extreme in one persons eyes, and a lightweight in another persons while in the same one scene.
I also think I fluctuate like a roller coaster. It depends on my mood, my Master's or the Dom I'm playing with's mood, the place we play, what scenes I've done reciently before the one I'm in & how we feel that day.

I usually can only take one very intense on a scale of 1-10, 10 session a week. I also seem to have at least a 1 session a week too. For me at least, it constantly fluctuates due to many variables.
Sincerely,
sub suzanne

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RE: How Extreme - 7/28/2005 10:49:56 AM   
zuchtstute1969


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Status: offline 		i am a 24/7 slave so my day varies goes from vanilla housewife, to the extreme. my Master has tried to instill a no limits slave mentalitly in me. So i have been trained on more the extreme arts of bdsm. i am not in to leather/chains/hitting but more into sexual torture, humilation, lots of touching/kissing/ loving, we also are very affectionate in public and enjoy being in public and whipsering our dark bdsm secrets. i wear a padlocked chain dog collar 24/7, i am to be pierced, branded, and tattoo after this pregnancy. i am due with our 2nd child. and yes we do scene heavily when i am pregnant to. But on the flipside my Master enjoy vanilla sex, and making love and showing love, but for us that includes breath play, biting, and some face smacking, but this is how we are, not everyone is cut from the same mold

zuchtstute

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RE: How Extreme - 7/28/2005 4:57:47 PM   
sabis


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Status: offline 		i don't have a yardstick of what 'extreme' is, just yet. Some of the 'play' we do squicks others in our local group, others demand to be let in behind the closed door... so I don't know what to tell you.... We engage in fire play, toilet slavery, needle play... His regular targets for flogging are purely the erogenous zones: tits, pussy and ass. Sex of one flavor or another is usually involved in our play.

The moments in which I'm embracing the pain He gives me aren't any more or less vital to our relationship and our dynamic as those in which I am serving Him coffee... or any other act of servitude less painful than that one. Service and servitude can be whispered in the smallest of things: laying out His clothes, making sure we have plenty of stock of His favorite beverage, emptying His balls, etc.

Your mileage may vary...

~ sabis


PS: zuchtstute, i like your name! ;-) especially when Sir translated it for me...

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RE: How Extreme - 7/28/2005 5:22:29 PM   
Tusker


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Status: offline 		As an owned sub, we do not have "sessions". I do what I am told, when I am told. The Woman who owns me does not perform to any rehearsed scenario.

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RE: How Extreme - 7/28/2005 5:30:11 PM   
fastlane


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Status: offline 		My sessions are so extreme ESPN asked if the could put me on X-games.
Wanna play SuperBoy?

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RE: How Extreme - 7/28/2005 5:33:03 PM   
ItzKat


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Status: offline 		Depends on how we are both feeling on that day. Him being a Sadistic Dominate, and me being a masochistic submissive we can get extreme. But we both have to have high energy levels for that kind of play. It is not every session. Some times, we do straight Master / sub play with no pain… well, not very much pain anyway.

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RE: How Extreme - 7/28/2005 9:57:54 PM   
itzelwing


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Status: offline 		Superman, let's turn this around and make it a question for you.

What do YOU consider "extreme".

As you've seen, some folks have different definitions of that one... and if that's their definition and they do it, then they're being extreme.

Itzkat and I have walked out there on the edge a few times, but I've also seen stuff that made my toes curl up.

So what is "extreme"?

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RE: How Extreme - 7/29/2005 10:29:11 AM   
perverseangelic


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Status: offline 		Define extreem as you're using it in this context.

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RE: How Extreme - 7/29/2005 11:03:25 AM   
zaynab


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Status: offline 		suggestion for Superman... would it help if each person responding would compare their recent and current activities with what their average ones had been overall?

after all, everyone is so different, their perspectives are different and everything is relevant to something else..... ?

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RE: How Extreme - 7/29/2005 12:48:36 PM   
Jennylu48


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Status: offline 		I am not sure about what you might call extreme. However our sessions do vary a lot depending on Masters mood, how tired He is, what kind of day He has had. Just as in the nilla life, many things determine how much play or of any play is done. As for me, over the years I have become good at reading my Masters moods and desires and prepare myself accordingly.

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RE: How Extreme - 7/29/2005 3:07:08 PM   
Superman42280


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For me, "light" is dressing up, tying someone up with stockings and a little light spanking or something....

"Heavy" is where pain is involved, maybe bruising, a little bleeding (from anal activity perhaps) -- heavy flogging, full leather costumes, use of a dungeon, or more than the couple present..


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RE: How Extreme - 7/29/2005 3:14:03 PM   
Jennylu48


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Status: offline 		Nice to hear from You. I pretty well agree with the way you have defined the intensity of play. Having said that, my previous post is then very accurate to what You have said.

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RE: How Extreme - 7/29/2005 6:07:44 PM   
wednesday


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Status: offline 		Does anyone else have the recovery time as a factor?

I like a heavy day as often as possible. But that "possible" varies depending on how much damage needs to heal up. If I'm bruised to black/blue, I'm not getting beaten again until they go green/yellow at least, if not completely gone. If I had my skin broken it has to completely heal, scabs gone, before he'll mess with it.


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RE: How Extreme - 7/29/2005 7:01:37 PM   
sjacket


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Status: offline 		I serve Her all the time. Our "sessions" are usually at one of various local group play parties and are, on any given night, often the most intense of the evening. Mistress absolutely enjoys giving those watching something to remember, and I love the way She thinks. And I love it as She carves Her name into my back. So I guess one could say we are pretty extreme

But even this painslut has a couple of others locally that I have to admire how much they can take. So it's all relative.

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