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Did a mate make your realize? - 7/28/2005 9:41:34 AM

Superman42280

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Any of you not realize you were sub until you met a Dom who took control of you and collared you, bringing out the inner sub within?

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RE: Did a mate make your realize? - 7/28/2005 10:06:46 AM

perfection20005

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That is exactly the way that it happened to me. I always wanted to please everyone I was with, but until I met my Master, I didn't know what being submissive truly meant. I am more happy now than I have ever been in my life, and I think that because I can be who I am without someone questioning me.

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RE: Did a mate make your realize? - 7/28/2005 10:27:21 AM

plantlady64

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Hello There,
Yes it was a man who opened the sub door inside me that had been locked shut my whole life.
I wrote a stroy about it so I'll just cheat and copy/paste it here for you to see how it happened. It's funny but my Sister had been telling me about her adventures for years and kept trying to get me to come to a society meeting with her just to check it out. I of course thought her brain had a short circut in it. I listened to her stories, hung up the phone, and prayed my head off for her to get well till the day I found myself. Now we meet at our local dungeon and play next to each other from time to time.

Copy of my first encounter...............
In my first encounter I met a man who wanted to explore the
dominant side of his sexuality.
He had said he'd always had these kind of fantasy's,
but never had a woman willing to give being his Sub a try.
After two really hot vanilla encounters I decided on our
third attempt at intimacy to allow him free reign.
It was the most awesome thing I'd ever done.
We went to a restaurant with me in a sheer shirt and no bra.
We had a nice stimulating dinner.
Seeing the faces of Men as they saw through my shirt made
me wet.
Then we went to a lingerie shop that sells toys.
I was not allow to talk to the clerk.
We strolled around for a while looking at things.
The clerk ask if there was anything she could help us with.
He proceeded to tell her I was mostly an anal virgin and he
needed to find the right kind of butt plug to start my training
with.
I just about died, but I thought it was hot.
After they made their selections we went to the lingerie
section and picked out two outfits to try on.
The dressing rooms permitted your partner to come in the
room with you.
I took off my clothes to try on the outfits.
He said he wanted me to kneel in front of him and give him head
instead.
We then kissed while he fingered me for a few moments.
The clerk knocked on the door in less than 5 min. to see if
everything was OK.
We said yes and I got dressed.
We came out and paid for our purchases and left.
We went back to his place, and had an incredible time.
I so enjoyed being tied up, the dialogue between us as servant
and master, and all the manipulations we went through.
To be totally aroused, and not know what's going to
happen next really turned me on in a big way.
To be able to do things I wouldn't have done on my own
is so sexy and hot.
After that I've decided I just can't go back to
vanilla sex.
Being submissive naturally fits in my life like a well fitting
kid glove.

Sincerely,
sub suzanne

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RE: Did a mate make your realize? - 7/28/2005 3:06:36 PM

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A friend of mine told me about collarme because he thought I would like it. He was into BDSM and he told me he thought i would be a switch. I listed myself as such and got so many replies. Daddy messaged me and W/we hit it off. He then informed me at our first scene that there was "no way I was a switch" I agree with Him, but then again, am i really allowed to disagree? I think Not!!!!!! Yes Daddy, whatever You say Daddy, i am here for Your pleasure.

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RE: Did a mate make your realize? - 7/28/2005 3:11:30 PM

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ORIGINAL: perfection20005

That is exactly the way that it happened to me. I always wanted to please everyone I was with, but until I met my Master, I didn't know what being submissive truly meant. I am more happy now than I have ever been in my life, and I think that because I can be who I am without someone questioning me.

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RE: Did a mate make your realize? - 7/28/2005 4:35:05 PM

ItzKat

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Interesting to read these responses. This was something I know I have had in me for a very long time. I use to tie myself up with my blankets in preschool. The babysitter thought I just wiggled around so much that I ended up like that, but I knew even then, that I did it on purpose. I was the prisoner of some evil person waiting for the good guy to come save me. As puberty hit, those fantasies of being the helpless captive that is saved by the good guy turned into being the helpless captive used in deliously ways by the bad guy. (To hell with the good guy, he was boring!)

In high school when I was 16, I talked a boyfriend into tying me up one night before we did it. It was great, I loved it, but it freaked him out. (I guess I should also mention that my boyfriend was 22 years old and my youth leader from church.

I am a very bad girl.

But since it bothered him so much it confused me. I started thinking of myself as a freak and buried it as deeply as I could. I grew older and joined the normal people, got married but that didn't work. I still had more to do with my life than play house, so I divorced. When I did, I got onto AOL. You still had to pay by the hour then, but I found some chat rooms for BDSM. It was like one of those moments the alcoholics talk about, everything became so clear. I found a group of great folks and got involved in some of the local groups. There I found some dominant men more than willing to accept my urges as normal and help me explore many different avenues.

So in answer to the question, no, it was not a mate that uncovered my desires. I think these are hard wired in me and it was only a matter of me finding the people that understood them.

Kat

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