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wanting to learn how to become a domme - 10/10/2007 7:30:34 AM

tizzme

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I am tring to learn how to be a domme mistress for my slave boy ( boyfriend )& any adivce would be usefull.
I am new to his lifestyle, fairly controlling around the house so i here :) lol, but as of the week just past I wasn't aware of the lifestyle he much needed in his life ( found collerme on the computer ). And tring to bring it into daily life is different without knowing where to start, say, do ect. I am looking 4 online friends & advice ect.
thank you

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RE: wanting to learn how to become a domme - 10/10/2007 7:39:20 AM

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You really need a Mentor. There is a lot to learn. Safety is a responsibility that we all have to our sub/slaves. You need to be skilled in technique so you can provide a safe environment for your subs.
You need to learn all the lifestyle kinks and quirks.
I would look around the site and speak to people in regards to Mentoring. That is how I started.

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RE: wanting to learn how to become a domme - 10/10/2007 7:48:12 AM

tizzme

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Thank you

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RE: wanting to learn how to become a domme - 10/10/2007 7:57:04 AM

tizzme

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hello tim Thank you :)
Basicly to start, I think i need to learn how to divide how to satisfy my man & how to treat my slave boy & how to comunicate that without saying " how was that " lol.

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RE: wanting to learn how to become a domme - 10/10/2007 8:01:42 AM

IamJustMe2C

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Read your return posts for this thread in ask a Master you posted this same question there and you still have plenty of them There as well. You are going good to ask here as well but dont forget to finish reading them as well.

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RE: wanting to learn how to become a domme - 10/10/2007 3:28:39 PM

onlineuseme

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i agree with the mentor thing..make sure your safe with it though and your mentor is genuine..so many fakes on here

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