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How often do you? - 7/28/2005 11:39:21 AM   
fastlane


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Status: offline 		enjoy being spanked, punnished, and gratified? Spanked one day and gratified the next? Punnished one day and spanked on another? Gratified daily? All of the above daily?
Does humiliation play into all of these things as well?
In other words,
What do you like and expect from your Dominat that is physical?
We'll get around to emotional needs on another thread.

I personally like to cover a sub in icecream and turn her into a Sundae before devouring her.....U scream I scream We all scream for icecream....especially when your covered in it!

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RE: How often do you? - 7/28/2005 12:04:31 PM   
softandshy


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Status: offline 		Hello fastlane,

i like your posts, usually they'll make me chuckle.

Spanking and rough play will happen when the Mistress desires. Any humiliation would fall into this category too. i will not request play of Her, preferring to wait for when She's ready. Hmmm. Well, i may hint or tease, but waiting does keep the anticipation high.

Punishment i work actively to avoid. Punishment means being ignored or told that i have let Her down, and it isn't fun in any sense.

What do you mean exactly by gratification? If you mean sexual release or orgasm, then it would fall into the same arena as play. i may beg or whine during play, but outside of that i won't. That became Her call when i committed to Her. On the other hand, i find service, knowing that i've made Her smile or brought Her comfort, extremely gratifying too. It's like a spiritual release and just eases the tightness that sometimes happens inside. If i am in a position where i cannot or may not help, i will go a bit stir crazy so i will look for something unrelated to do that will help someone. i'm also learning to tell Her when i feel that way because i have way too hyper of a personality for the average person to enjoy it when i go stir crazy!

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RE: How often do you? - 7/28/2005 12:52:58 PM   
fastlane


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Status: offline 		Thank you softandshy, perhaps you should ask her if she would enjoy a sundae with either her or you, wearing the cherry?

I know what you mean about being ingnored....it really sucks!
Which is why we all aim to please and not be ignored.

Gratification is always best when it's mutual. A Mistress may allow her pet to J.O. to his own gratification, but it's true gratification when M/s are reaching heights together, don't you aree?

Anyway, my best to you, I'm off to get an icecream cone



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RE: How often do you? - 7/28/2005 4:16:07 PM   
punnishme


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I love being humiliated unless the verbal humiliation endured is a comment about me supposedly being overweight when i'm not.

Being spanked, whipped, flogged is great as long as it's not a crop

That's the only time I find myself truely horny anymore. Nothing else really works so when someone fucks me just to fuck me, it's not pleasant and it feels like work to actually get into it. So my answer is I like a mixture humiliation or spanking, and then grattitude or pleasure immediately following.

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RE: How often do you? - 7/28/2005 4:20:50 PM   
fastlane


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Status: offline 		works for me too

I like to spank, tease, not really humiliate, but use some foul and vulgar language, tie up and then fuck like a Donkey in Heat on cool summer's night....Heee Haaaw
But I hate Dog and Pony shows!

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RE: How often do you? - 7/28/2005 6:03:08 PM   
Mylee


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Status: offline 		If I could start each day with a spanking and recaive one before bed each night...ooooh what a happy chickie I would be!! Really that's all I crave, all the time, everything else is just the topping on my umm...waffle cone?

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RE: How often do you? - 7/28/2005 6:19:25 PM   
EmeraldSlave2


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Status: offline 		I fantasize about it a few times a day. Actual scenes and such take more time and energy than fantasies though and realistically would drain me if it happened more than a few times a week.

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RE: How often do you? - 7/28/2005 9:36:53 PM   
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quote:

enjoy being spanked, punnished, and gratified? Spanked one day and gratified the next? Punnished one day and spanked on another? Gratified daily? All of the above daily?


We play about once a week. Spanking is part of gratification for me. I am seldom punished.

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RE: How often do you? - 7/29/2005 1:00:44 PM   
Jennylu48


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Status: offline 		I am not sure about others, but I love OTK spankings and those spankings are definately part of the gradification that I give and personally receive. However if I am being punished I am usually bent over something or forced to bend over with my hands upon my knees. Those swats seem harder and more direct. They do not give me the sence of fulfillment. All they do is hurt!! Master never plays for fun or gradification when I am being pinished. So not only do I have to endure the punishment, I am also forbidden to play. So for me spankings and punishments are seperate things and never mixed

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RE: How often do you? - 8/11/2005 11:03:03 AM   
moonbounce


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Status: offline 		I'm looking for one who is like you. I do, however, require a mild progressive spanking of you over my knees or a restrained bed scene. That is only fair. I will send a picture and a voice message if you are interested. Pardons, this message is sent by a 6ft 7in 280 pound happy Caucasian Man.

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RE: How often do you? - 8/11/2005 11:34:49 AM   
fastlane


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Status: offline 		Sorry, but I'm not soliciting at this point in time, but I'll keep you in mind if I'm in need of a bodygaurd?

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RE: How often do you? - 8/11/2005 2:20:57 PM   
subversiveone


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Status: offline 		hi fastlane ;) im just learning my Dom's needs for attention so i can only say that if left up to me, solely, we'd play a little every day or so... our play encompasses the punishment and gratification aspects as He sees fit. if im craving a spanking, i offer His crop. that happens once a week or so thus far. i enjoy begging for the pleasures of His mouth every few days when i feel a little needy! humiliation isn't a big thing for us right now, unless you count putting my ass up in the air and proclaiming my lust ;)

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RE: How often do you? - 8/11/2005 3:59:24 PM   
fastlane


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Status: offline 		LOL...naahhh, I wouldn't consider that humiliation...I'd consider that purdy!

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RE: How often do you? - 8/11/2005 5:09:50 PM   
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Status: offline 		Well..I love to be spanked...with the Riding Crop. For Gradtification.....I really love, when MADAM use to Tie me Spread Eagle to the Bed, Blindfolded and Gagged, while she Torments my Nipples...Rubbing them...either through a Leotard or Bra...it feels so much better to me, than being naked..sometimes.

I also love you posts, you are a Wild and Crazy Guy....thanks for making my day more Cheerful.

As Is, with No Warrenty, BalletBob

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RE: How often do you? - 8/11/2005 10:32:23 PM   
slavedesires


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Status: offline 		maybe i am just too fucking tired....but Fastlane your posts truly crack me up!!

thank you

edited to say..... i forgot to answer.....

Whenever He says its time for whatever He wants.

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RE: How often do you? - 8/11/2005 10:36:17 PM   
moonbounce


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RE: How often do you? - 8/11/2005 10:44:15 PM   
moonbounce


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Status: offline 		My popup blocker removed you. What do you like? I'm IN if you are a woman who likes a sensual OTK spank. Reply now please.

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RE: How often do you? - 8/11/2005 10:47:26 PM   
slavedesires


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quote:

ORIGINAL: moonbounce

My popup blocker removed you. What do you like? I'm IN if you are a woman who likes a sensual OTK spank. Reply now please.



could someone jump on moonbounce for soliciting so profoundly stupidly?

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RE: How often do you? - 8/11/2005 11:19:36 PM   
moonbounce


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RE: How often do you? - 8/12/2005 2:00:26 AM   
nella


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Status: offline 		Smal spankings, quite often, once a day perhaps, bigger things, rather rearly, i have things to do.

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