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Overseas Slaves and transition - 7/28/2005 12:55:00 PM

Slavelover83

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Alright, its like this:

Myself and my fiancee have been talking to a slave wishing to be owned in Monocco and are seriously considering collaring her. But I'm concerned about her and how easily she will transition from over in Monocco to here. She speaks some english and not badly either, but its pretty broken and sometimes hard to understand. I was wondering from all of the slaves out there who might have done similar relocations from far countries over to the US or equal distances, how hard or easy was your transitions? Is there anything I should keep in mind when and if she arrives to help her make things all the easier?

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RE: Overseas Slaves and transition - 7/28/2005 1:15:41 PM

plantlady64

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Hello There,
I haven't had any dealings with overseas subs comming to the USA but I have had dealings with vanilla people comming here. I use to be a Landscape Foreman. I ran a crew of 7 men. We had a man who'd just come from Haiti & one who'd come from Bosnia I helped through immigration & to get their life together here in the states. I also use to work with Catholic Charities and would go with newly relocated people to immigration, with applications for apartments, and to Dr Appointments with the to help them understand.
I've noticed they are very overwhelmed by our freedoms and the avialability of anything and everything you'd ever want here. During their first year here they go through a serious metamorphasis of their identity. While it's 80% good the 20% of their selfish sided things seem to come out in force during this time too.
My big concern is for you would be once she's here and settled into being in America will she still want to be your sub/slave? You may make all these painstaking efforts only to have her move on once all the hard work is completed and she gets citizenship.
Living in our free society may go to her head enough she'll crave her freedom and want to take back control.
I'm not saying she will, just you have to remember this will be a window of opportunity that may be left unlocked.

I'd also warn you that I've personally talked to many people on the web. Once we met face to face I knew there were issues that would prevent me from either being attracted to the as a person or that their personality in person was not what I'd gathered from all the writing back and forth had done.

I'd recommend her comming for a two week visit first to be sure her life will meld with yours before I'd want to do something as permanent as having her relocate.

Sincerely,
sub suzanne

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RE: Overseas Slaves and transition - 7/29/2005 12:19:07 AM

totallycontrol

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I was talking to one who I decided was a scam, posted a model's picture, sent me a supposed scan of her passport. I talked to her on the phone too, thought the voice didn't match the picture. She professed to want to be my slave for life. And so quickly wanted to come here. Some of her glicthes I couldn't quite catch her on because of the language issue and not being sure she understood. But then there was the sending money to her part and things not adding up. She was pretty good at what she was doing though. It was interesting how I could get kind of caught up in believing it. I wonder if there are books on the psychology involved in scams. This might not be relevant in your case, but I think for anyone making contact over the internet verifying is an issue.

Of course I also had the same concerns you do about her needing to learn English better, how I care for her, how it all would be for her, how she would react (homesickness?, culture shock?)and what problems I might have on my hands if she turned out to be uncontrollable or a bad person.

Anyway checking out her stories I looked a little at the immigration laws and that seems to be quite a challenge. Short of marrying within 90 days on a fiance visa which requires you've already met, there are visitor visas, student visas, and work visas. For a student visa, there needs to be an approved school and course of study or goal I think. For a work visa there needs to be an employer. If I employed her in any way, I can just imagine the possibilities of sexual harrassment and slavery alegations I might be at risk for. I think it would be a nice to have a wider range of possibilities by including overseas persons, but it seems really complicated to actually have them stay here long term, other than marrying them. And I personally would want to know someone a while before I considered that, not 90 days.

I'm no expert. I would be curious to know how one would bring someone over here in that kind of situation, so I could consider overseas persons. Maybe you could share your situation in regard to that, since obviously marrying her was not on your agenda. Also maybe how you handled verification if you don't have mutual friends, and how you assess compatibility and test her sincerity and submissiveness to you? Maybe it would be easier if an overseas slave could just be locked in a cage for the first few months, as I've seen posted some slaves have experienced.

I appreciated plantlady64's comments. My only experiences were knowing a Burmese girl friend's friends here from Burma, who were hard to converse with at all except basic things, because they just were not familiar with this culture. It would be nice to hear what happens and good luck.

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