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Couple Subs (sub/sub) - 10/10/2007 8:37:01 PM

puppy22DBQ

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I believe now that we may be a rarity. A sub/sub couple that is looking for a female to 'worship'. My question is in regards to- would anyone actually like this (to rule over two people at once)? I hear of people getting over 2,000 emails-- we have gotten about 20... and many seem to be from fakes0-- or men.
We're quite new to the site, but we're college students and we're pretty bright. If a 'woman' doesn't have a webcam, is it too much to ask them to send a picture of themselves holding a sign up of our screenname before we link our webcam? It seems that anyone we've contacted has always asked for webcam shows from us (which really wouldn't bother us) except for they offer nothing in return-- not even varification that they're real.
Ugh... I guess this site just gets on my nerves sometimes but there also don't seem to be too many college age people as open to BDSM as one might think so I just leave our profile up for now. Alright, this turned in to more of a rant, but if you have any suggestions or opinions on this topic, we'd really like to know! Thanks in advance!

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RE: Couple Subs (sub/sub) - 10/10/2007 9:03:15 PM

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I see your problem. You are upset that people want you to cavort on cam for them but ... you are looking for online domination: "We're always willing to try new things and we'll try what you might like to see" You are getting what you are asking for. Also realize that online can be fine, but there are a lot of wankers who just want a free, easy show.

If you want something different, something more substantive, then I would gently suggest detailing that in your profile. Do you want a relationship with this person? Tell us about that. Because if you primarily focus on how delicious your bodies are and that you want to perform online ... (shrugging) ... you're going to get those kind of responses.

Refine your message.

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RE: Couple Subs (sub/sub) - 10/10/2007 9:11:30 PM

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Thanks for the advice. I'll get that changed... lol, I didn't think of it like that.
I guess we're just really open to trying new things but, yea... I def see your point. I'll change that now and see if anything comes of it.

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RE: Couple Subs (sub/sub) - 10/10/2007 9:38:25 PM

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awesome. message refined. i think it's better now.
reading our profile now, would that make you think better of us?

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RE: Couple Subs (sub/sub) - 10/10/2007 10:27:26 PM

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You may be just looking for something 'not real' yourself, that is, on-line interactions. If you really were interested in meeting people (perhaps a Domme), you might see if there are local groups in your area. That's a great way to meet like-minded folks.

Or you could see if anyone local is interested in you , and you, them.

Being young that may be more exposure than you want, however.

Real life is infinitely more exciting and satisfying than on-line, in my opinion.

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RE: Couple Subs (sub/sub) - 10/10/2007 11:19:19 PM

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I sent you a message on the other side.

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RE: Couple Subs (sub/sub) - 10/11/2007 4:40:14 AM

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Hi! I agree with what was said before about your profile. It still looks like you both want to do online bdsm instead of real life to me. The other thing I wanted to mention: The background color is not easy to read. It looks kind of drab on my end.

I have a sub/sub couple who are good friends of mine. Nothing is better, in my opinion. We are not sexual, but they are into shibari and we are exploring all kinds of fun things. He is a pain slut and she is a marvelous cook. He also has a foot fetish, so we tie him up and torture him with foot teasing. What a blast!

Have fun!
Irish

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