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rup4it -> anal sex (10/11/2007 12:11:58 PM)

is it a male subs total submissive act




MsLilac -> RE: anal sex (10/11/2007 2:20:09 PM)

 
I really hate to sound snarky, but I am not quite sure what it is you are saying. Perhaps elaborating might help.




laurell3 -> RE: anal sex (10/11/2007 3:23:38 PM)

I believe the OP is referring to the belief that submitting to anal penetration is the ultimate act of submission.
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rob425 -> RE: anal sex (10/11/2007 3:50:42 PM)

Sorry I feel it's a total dominant act for the submissive. [;)] Telling your Dominnatn to fuck you harder and deep/Fuck you like a slut.

Total Topping from the bottom if you ask me




laurell3 -> RE: anal sex (10/11/2007 3:52:36 PM)

that assumes you can actually speak during the act rob [;)]
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pinksissyPA -> RE: anal sex (10/11/2007 5:02:57 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: laurell3

that assumes you can actually speak during the act rob [;)]
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LOL Ms Laurell3.  Great point!




rup4it -> RE: anal sex (10/11/2007 5:13:13 PM)

i ment by your mistress taking and bending you over and fucking your butt hole. for a straight male like myself the thought of that happening just wouldnt happen.
a male would ever get anynear it at all
but your mistress doing it must be the ultimate act of submission for a male




Dari -> RE: anal sex (10/11/2007 5:20:53 PM)

Every sub has his or her own "ultimate act of submission."  To assume that every sub would have the same way of expressing their total obedience and submission is absolutely ridiculous.






Drifa -> RE: anal sex (10/11/2007 5:31:43 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: rup4it

i ment by your mistress taking and bending you over and fucking your butt hole. for a straight male like myself the thought of that happening just wouldnt happen.
a male would ever get anynear it at all
but your mistress doing it must be the ultimate act of submission for a male


Actually, anal sex can be enormously pleasurable for men or women. It doesn't have to be an act of submission at all, just another type of fun, stimulating nerves that cause your body to react with pleasure.

In *your* head though, it seems to have connotations and associations that the act lacks for me. For *you* it might well be "the ultimate act of submission".  For me, not even close.

If it feels submissive to you, and submission rocks your world, then ask your lady if she'd give it a whirl [;)]




MasterFireMaam -> RE: anal sex (10/11/2007 6:24:44 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: rup4it

is it a male subs total submissive act


In my world, no.

Master Fire




LadyHibiscus -> RE: anal sex (10/11/2007 8:18:18 PM)

A male's ultimate act of submission:  getting a blow job.

Yep.  Picture that delicate tube of flesh, in a mouth full of teeth that could chomp down at any second, certainly changing his life forever.  Wonder how many male dominants have thought about that?

YMMV, of course.  Lots of males find the anus a zone of terror, and of course it's fun to play with that idea.




laurell3 -> RE: anal sex (10/11/2007 9:09:22 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Dari

Every sub has his or her own "ultimate act of submission."  To assume that every sub would have the same way of expressing their total obedience and submission is absolutely ridiculous.





I wasn't implying anyone "had" to do anything, merely stating that I believe he is discussing what many say IS the ultimate act of submission.  For myself, finding someone that I have things in common with and a mental bond is more important than any one activity.
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rob425 -> RE: anal sex (10/11/2007 9:51:32 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: laurell3

that assumes you can actually speak during the act rob [;)]
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well the topic starter didn't mention anything about being gagged[;)]




AFlyInYourWeb -> RE: anal sex (10/11/2007 10:27:18 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Dari

Every sub has his or her own "ultimate act of submission." 


Housekeeping is my ultimate act of submission.

Anal sex is just good, clean fun.




laurell3 -> RE: anal sex (10/11/2007 10:40:34 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: rob425

quote:

ORIGINAL: laurell3

that assumes you can actually speak during the act rob [;)]
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well the topic starter didn't mention anything about being gagged[;)]


Nah I was just messing with ya.
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MissMagnolia -> RE: anal sex (10/11/2007 10:46:10 PM)

Behave laurell and don't tease people. Nah, just kiddin!!!![:D]

No, anal sex is pretty boring to me. Watching my sub get off isn't my idea of a good day out. Seeing his bare arse poking out of my stinking filthy oven whilst he cleans it, now THAT tickles my pickle!![8D]




laurell3 -> RE: anal sex (10/11/2007 11:08:28 PM)

Me? Behave? What fun would that be?
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MsLilac -> RE: anal sex (10/12/2007 1:29:25 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: laurell3

I believe the OP is referring to the belief that submitting to anal penetration is the ultimate act of submission.
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Hi Laurell [:)]

I kind of got the sense of what he was referring to, but it was written as a loaded statement, as opposed to a question. Wanted him to elaborate further, couldn’t figure out if he was trolling, or just initiating a good old fashioned poll taking regarding the submissive merits of bending over and taking an ass pounding like a crazed male slut, lol ;). Was just humouring him with proportional flippancy ;)

To the OP - seriously *puts on serious hat for a sec*, for some who don’t have a liking for it, then I suspect giving consent for it would be a test of ones submission. But if one actually liked it, then I do not see the ‘ultimate act of submission’ in it, in my book, that makes it an enjoyable act shared between 2 people.

As with all these things, depends on the individuals concerned.




LadyPact -> RE: anal sex (10/12/2007 5:31:53 AM)

For some it can be and for others it isn't.  It varies from person to person.  Anal sex is up there for a lot of folks, but so are things like m/m oral sex, cleaning, keeping one's mouth shut, or certain humiliations.  It just depends on who you ask.




BreakHim4Me -> RE: anal sex (10/12/2007 11:29:10 AM)

It also depends on whether he is seeking it as a sexual exercise (just another way of getting off) or is having it imposed on him (submitting to the intrusion as a way to please her desires).




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