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unusual habits - 7/28/2005 6:41:37 PM

nikkilynn

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Anybody develop any unusual habits after getting involved with a new Dom/me? just curious because i find myself doing things that i have not done before?

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RE: unusual habits - 7/28/2005 6:58:11 PM

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Define "unusual habits"? Do you find yourself craving to chew on fresh mown grass at 2 am on a full moon?

Or do you find yourself attracted to and wanting to do things that your dominant is interested in which you never would have thought would happen?

If it's the latter, it's normal and happens in every type of relationship. As we get to know people, we want to become part of their lives and share more of their world. As submissives we'd also like to be pleasing and of service in those areas.

If it's like the former...I'm not sure of the cause there.

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RE: unusual habits - 7/28/2005 7:02:24 PM

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unusual habits as in i find myself when i am sitting on a wooden kitchen chair when i am reading or doing other things my hands go back behind my back and clasp together. never caught myself doing that before. i find it unusual

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RE: unusual habits - 7/28/2005 7:08:20 PM

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I had always slept on my tummy but then found myself falling asleep on my back with my wrists crossed.

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RE: unusual habits - 7/28/2005 7:14:04 PM

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I began sitting on the toilet way more than I need to, only because I like to read there, plus I like to draw and color on the toilet paper.

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RE: unusual habits - 7/28/2005 7:37:09 PM

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thank you fastlane smartass! comment is noted on my torture this person list hehe

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RE: unusual habits - 7/28/2005 7:40:23 PM

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ORIGINAL: fastlane

I began sitting on the toilet way more than I need to, only because I like to read there, plus I like to draw and color on the toilet paper.

Nobody likes a smartass.........at least in the vanilla world that is. Here is wonderful, llok at my last post under the forum nazi thread, I am a real smartass there.

And I prefer superglue on the toilet seats, but I will give you some crayons.

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RE: unusual habits - 7/28/2005 7:53:14 PM

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how about after i tear you off the seat i pour some nice lemon juice on it

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RE: unusual habits - 7/28/2005 7:55:14 PM

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hey dom, how do you suppose we torture fastlane?

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RE: unusual habits - 7/28/2005 8:41:59 PM

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I always try to start doing new things whenever I begin a new relationship. I like to think that I do this because I want to start something fresh.

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RE: unusual habits - 7/28/2005 9:18:50 PM

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Before leaping into BDSM and not knowing exactly what it consisted of...I recruited a trainer with 20+ years experience. He always placed a beautiful fur-lined leather collar around my neck during a session. At first it frightened me. I feared He would use it as a dog collar and that was not of interest to me. He used the collar as a reminder that I was in a submissive role. I'm no longer in training, but I do sleep in my collar, it gives me a sense of who I am and hope that some day I'll be worthy of a 24/7 relationship with a great and wonderful Master.

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RE: unusual habits - 7/28/2005 9:21:33 PM

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ORIGINAL: EmeraldSlave2

Define "unusual habits"? Do you find yourself craving to chew on fresh mown grass at 2 am on a full moon?

Or do you find yourself attracted to and wanting to do things that your dominant is interested in which you never would have thought would happen?

If it's the latter, it's normal and happens in every type of relationship. As we get to know people, we want to become part of their lives and share more of their world. As submissives we'd also like to be pleasing and of service in those areas.

If it's like the former...I'm not sure of the cause there.

ROTFL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

HAHAHA. yes, as submissives we take on characteristics of those we are starting to love and absolutely, we want to please them. Now about the grass thing, I can't help you there either... wink

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RE: unusual habits - 7/29/2005 6:53:21 AM

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Hello There,
I just found my kink 5 months ago. My habits have completely changed.
Unless I'm dealing with my mensus I only wear thongs, I didn't even own one before. I also wear short skirts and mini dresses now. I never wore them before. I also crave bondage and spankings way more than I use to crave getting laid. I guess you could say being bound and spanked is one of my new habits.
I think overall my thought processes are changing too. I use to volunteer at my church, soup kitchens and homeless shelters 3-4 days a wkke. Now I volunteer in these capacities way less as my weekly social, my weekly trip to my local public dungeon with my Master, and caring for his kids are my main priorities.

Lot's changed, but I'm still mostly the same me.
Sincerely,
sub suzanne

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RE: unusual habits - 7/29/2005 1:54:52 PM

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*edited* Feeling a rather aching need for privacy now, so i changed my mind about sharing.

< Message edited by softandshy -- 8/13/2005 7:12:20 AM >

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RE: unusual habits - 8/11/2005 11:00:00 PM

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ORIGINAL: nikkilynn

Anybody develop any unusual habits after getting involved with a new Dom/me? just curious because i find myself doing things that i have not done before?

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RE: unusual habits - 8/12/2005 10:09:41 AM

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Over the year's I have been told I have become much more childlike than I have ever been. Gradually it gets worse.
Yet more adult like in other facets of my life.

So, I'm finally well balanced. Which is how it should be.

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RE: unusual habits - 8/12/2005 6:33:33 PM

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Torture Fastlane <perk>? My speciality is cbt and I can have great fun in his fastlane! Dern, this is getting me all worked up! I have gotta find someone to torture!...hehehe....

Respectfully, as always,
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