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BlackSakura -> BDSM Checklist suggestions (10/12/2007 1:21:34 AM)

Can A/anyone suggest a good BDSM checklist.  I want to print one out for my sub.  Just wanted to know if A/anyone has come across a "really good" one or one T/they prefered.
Thank you,
Miss Erica[8D]



iammachine -> RE: BDSM Checklist suggestions (10/12/2007 2:24:46 AM)

Once upon a time I had one that I liked....

then I lost it.

These days I just use the one on b.com.



MzticStormz -> RE: BDSM Checklist suggestions (10/12/2007 6:49:22 AM)

This site has a huge limits questionaire, but also many other helpful links.

http://www.dungeonmagic.com/cgi-bin/dungeonmagic.cgi?p=limits



Bondagenexus -> RE: BDSM Checklist suggestions (10/12/2007 11:29:14 AM)

My girlfriend made her other bf fill out the one on Alt.  It took their relationship to a new level... after shaking them both up quite a bit.



ScottishRose -> RE: BDSM Checklist suggestions (10/12/2007 2:29:47 PM)

try these http://www.bdsm-education.com/checklist.html  ,  http://ms.ha.md.us/~tammad/over21/bondage/sub-checklist.html 



Bearlee -> RE: BDSM Checklist suggestions (10/12/2007 2:56:49 PM)

 
I like the one at www.bondage.com the best...   
 
 
but yanno, they're easy to copy and edit, too!



laurell3 -> RE: BDSM Checklist suggestions (10/12/2007 3:20:19 PM)

I'm not sure this site is actually maintained that well anymore, but it has a good list with alot more choices of what you want, whether you will just do it because the other desires, etc, the full list is 200 questions and covers alot of ground and you can compare answers.

http://www.soulshaven.f2s.com/nchk_main.php3

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OnyxDelphi -> RE: BDSM Checklist suggestions (10/13/2007 4:06:16 AM)

I suggest http://darkwhisper.com/Submissive%20BDSM%20Play%20Partner%20Check%20List.htm



LadyLynx -> RE: BDSM Checklist suggestions (10/13/2007 7:45:49 AM)

the last time I went checklist hunting, I didn't particularily care for any of them, because they seemed to be incomplete so been considering making one of my own, that way I can include ALL the elements that are important to me.  though i suspect the final result will be a couple pages long



RRafe -> RE: BDSM Checklist suggestions (10/13/2007 8:00:35 AM)

They forgot the favorite male sub item "Acting like a jerk,then whining and crying about how no one wants me"

It's a FIVE!!!!!![:D]



ocilla -> RE: BDSM Checklist suggestions (10/14/2007 6:19:29 PM)

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ORIGINAL: ScottishRose

try these http://www.bdsm-education.com/checklist.html  ,  http://ms.ha.md.us/~tammad/over21/bondage/sub-checklist.html 


I like the one from the second site (tammad's).  I use that one but have modified it.  It is very intense though and I must admit that I've not had a fellow follow through with it to date.  I add in there some of the q's maam jay has on her profile I think it is....and then I also encourage them to ask me questions...if they would like to get the same info from me I would likely do that after we had discussed it...only reason I would be hesistant is that sometimes the boy not knowing what may be coming is half the excitment and fun.  But eventually you will know each others buttons anyway.

As to fella's following through...this goes back to a thread Action started - my expectations are getting pretty low and with my expectations being lowered my desire to find a fella is burns lower...I can be quite hapy without a fella and I hate wasting my time and going on meaningless chases.  So fellas tend to do the homework they like...and in fact will suggest often that perhaps they should be edging and holding back their orgasms till I give them permission. when they do not do things like follow through with my request for a checklist things often peter out between us.



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