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IrishMist -> RE: Pussy Busting (10/12/2007 9:54:48 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sambamanslilgirl think of it as a woman consenting to have sex and then later reporting it as rape it wouldn't matter if there's consent, it's abusive to me and i'm SO glad my Doms don't need to hurt me to get off like that. good for you then [8\|]

IrishMist -> RE: Pussy Busting (10/12/2007 9:55:57 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: bipolarber Kicking and punching just strike me (no pun intended) as being a lazy sadist's trick: far better, I think, to use slow torture, building the sensation up to the point the sub/maso can no longer tollerate it. Much more satisfying for both, and far less dangerous to the sub's physical well being. Clamps, weights, pins, gentle slapping and/or flogging.. UV wands, hot wax... etc., etc... Sure, you can just beat the crap out of someone... but it shows an utter lack of finesse. LOL no offense... but I would be bored within 5 seconds

BeingChewsie -> RE: Pussy Busting (10/12/2007 10:17:11 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: IrishMist quote: ORIGINAL: bipolarber Kicking and punching just strike me (no pun intended) as being a lazy sadist's trick: far better, I think, to use slow torture, building the sensation up to the point the sub/maso can no longer tollerate it. Much more satisfying for both, and far less dangerous to the sub's physical well being. Clamps, weights, pins, gentle slapping and/or flogging.. UV wands, hot wax... etc., etc... Sure, you can just beat the crap out of someone... but it shows an utter lack of finesse. LOL no offense... but I would be bored within 5 seconds I agree! R is into kicking, kneeing and punching as his primary form of sadistic pleasure.

pleasureforck -> RE: Pussy Busting (10/12/2007 10:28:08 AM)
This made me cringe. [sm=ugh.gif] So glad my Sir wouldn't want to do that. "Sighs in relief while looking for new subject to take mind off of this."

captainblack -> RE: Pussy Busting (10/12/2007 10:46:29 AM)
Well I have used various whips, belts, and my open hand on a girl's pussy. Never for pleasure always for punishment. I find that even a pain slut will not get off when her pussy is properly whipped. That being said I did once hit a girl in the pussy with a cane. It sure less of an impression on her than one may have thought. I was in a crowd on the street. She was a butch girl dressed so that she looked like a teen boy. Her little hand went into my bag in an attempt to take something out. Boom up came the stick between her legs. I saw a shocked look on her face, but she did not back off. I then hit her in the chest with the end of my walking stick much as if it was a pool cue. That knocked the wind out of her and got her hand out of my bag and also let me know she was a female when she started to scream about the crazy white dude beating a poor black girl with a stick! So based on that one very unscientific test I suspect the amount of pain a strike like that can cause a female is far less than such a strike would cause a man. Now mustard on the clit......or ginger peels laid between the inner labia.....that would be pussy torture. CB

CreativeDominant -> RE: Pussy Busting (10/12/2007 12:04:33 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SixFootMaster The CBT/BB thread got me thinking - seems theres quite a 'market' for women who enjoy kicking and crushing and abusing the male genetalia - and I have to admit that I do enjoy inflicting a share of pain against a girl's sensitive sex organs - however it has never been interesting to me to kick her hard in the pussy, or to consider piercing (particularly large bar piercings) her labia or clit (though I know many girls do like that). My question is, how many Doms/Masters are into this kind of thing, and how many subs/slaves love it? I have no problem with spanking a pussy, cropping a pussy, using my belt on a pussy, cropping a pussy, using my Serpent's Bite on a pussy. Something about the cringing, the moaning, the begging...either to stop or to give more. ~wicked grin~ Goes well with that other subject on another thread...denying/delaying of the female orgasm. However, having learned a long time ago in college just how much damage a kick can do to male genitals, I have always looked on it as something too dangerous for me to use on a female and I've always cautioned those of my friends that are of the female dominant persuasion against kicking either their male or female play partners directly in the genital area. That's my mileage...YMMV.

sambamanslilgirl -> RE: Pussy Busting (10/12/2007 1:25:21 PM)
then you also know there are those who do get off abusing someone while the other person might not

sambamanslilgirl -> RE: Pussy Busting (10/12/2007 1:41:08 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: IrishMist quote: ORIGINAL: sambamanslilgirl think of it as a woman consenting to have sex and then later reporting it as rape it wouldn't matter if there's consent, it's abusive to me and i'm SO glad my Doms don't need to hurt me to get off like that. good for you then [8\|] well EXCUSE me for having a sound opinion in this matter

marieToo -> RE: Pussy Busting (10/12/2007 2:11:23 PM)
My own personal association with kicking is one of violence. Therefore, if someone ever tried to kick me, I would lay them out before their foot even had a chance to make contact with my body. If a dominant partner ever kicked me, I'd most likely recoil and totally disconnect from him.

laurell3 -> RE: Pussy Busting (10/12/2007 2:23:20 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LaTigresse Oddly, I have been approached by one or two submissives that required they be used in this way. Since it is not at all an interest of mine I. cringed and crossed my legs and said, "HELL NO!" Personally, I agree that the possible health and safety ramifications of this type of play for either sex are too much for me to gain much satisfaction from them. l

MrDiscipline44 -> RE: Pussy Busting (10/12/2007 2:56:25 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sambamanslilgirl quote: ORIGINAL: IrishMist quote: ORIGINAL: sambamanslilgirl think of it as a woman consenting to have sex and then later reporting it as rape it wouldn't matter if there's consent, it's abusive to me and i'm SO glad my Doms don't need to hurt me to get off like that. good for you then [8\|] well EXCUSE me for having a sound opinion in this matter An opinion, yes I think we can all agree you have an opinion. It being a sound opinion is another thing entirely. Personally, I say that anyone who call rape after they've fucked someone that they fucked willingly is a bunch of bullshit an sure sign of a stupid cunt that deserves to be kicked in their junk.

SixFootMaster -> RE: Pussy Busting (10/12/2007 3:00:42 PM)
FR I want to thank all of you for such open and honest replies. It has been quite a mind opener - this is just something I could and would never do, not just for the physicality of it but because it would be a step away from who I am. I'm not a person who kicks people. Likewise, I do recall that impacts in that area have the potential to do permanent and severe damage, which would cross it off my list if it weren't already crossed off. I feel similiarly about kicking males in the groin or punching them or whatever. Some kinks are just not worth the risk even if they were interesting. So, yeah, no way in hell.

DiurnalVampire -> RE: Pussy Busting (10/12/2007 3:10:42 PM)
OK weighing in on someone who has done this... I am a trained martial artist, and so I trust myself to not nly properly place punches and kicks, but also be able to control their impact. LOTS of years of training before Id even have considered it, and it is still far too risky for me to enjoy much. I was begged, and so I gave in and did so, once time. I did not cosider it abuse. It was beyond consent. Consent is you saying yes to my idea. This was by request, I did so becasue SHE wanted it. The area for safe (well, under the circumstances safe is the wrong term, but still you get the point) contact is very very minimal. You can do way too much damage, far more than the same type of behavior on a man. Why? Men have free hanging and easier to target bits than girls do. You are not actualy hitting the body full force, you are hitting the dangling parts and they pad between your stiking appendage (foot or fist) and the body. For a girl, no padding. She enjoyed it, the extreme pain and the extreme trust to allow me to do it. I did not, I was far too concerned with doing harm and far too concentrated on exactly here I had to strike to actually enjoy reactions or the feeling of impact. Not something I would consider doing again, but I dont regret the experience once. I dont like to have something I WONT do on principle, at least this I have legit reasons for not enjoying. DV

IrishMist -> RE: Pussy Busting (10/12/2007 3:49:47 PM)
quote: Personally, I say that anyone who call rape after they've fucked someone that they fucked willingly is a bunch of bullshit an sure sign of a stupid cunt that deserves to be kicked in their junk. Exactly

IrishMist -> RE: Pussy Busting (10/12/2007 3:54:01 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DiurnalVampire OK weighing in on someone who has done this... I am a trained martial artist, and so I trust myself to not nly properly place punches and kicks, but also be able to control their impact. LOTS of years of training before Id even have considered it, and it is still far too risky for me to enjoy much. I was begged, and so I gave in and did so, once time. I did not cosider it abuse. It was beyond consent. Consent is you saying yes to my idea. This was by request, I did so becasue SHE wanted it. The area for safe (well, under the circumstances safe is the wrong term, but still you get the point) contact is very very minimal. You can do way too much damage, far more than the same type of behavior on a man. Why? Men have free hanging and easier to target bits than girls do. You are not actualy hitting the body full force, you are hitting the dangling parts and they pad between your stiking appendage (foot or fist) and the body. For a girl, no padding. She enjoyed it, the extreme pain and the extreme trust to allow me to do it. I did not, I was far too concerned with doing harm and far too concentrated on exactly here I had to strike to actually enjoy reactions or the feeling of impact. Not something I would consider doing again, but I dont regret the experience once. I dont like to have something I WONT do on principle, at least this I have legit reasons for not enjoying. DV Nice post DiurnalVampire The bolded area can not be stressed enough; even for someone who has gone through this repeatedly in the past; I would still very, very heavily discourage most from ever doing something like this unless they were extremely trained in placing impact hits.

sambamanslilgirl -> RE: Pussy Busting (10/12/2007 4:46:27 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MrDiscipline44 quote: ORIGINAL: sambamanslilgirl quote: ORIGINAL: IrishMist quote: ORIGINAL: sambamanslilgirl think of it as a woman consenting to have sex and then later reporting it as rape it wouldn't matter if there's consent, it's abusive to me and i'm SO glad my Doms don't need to hurt me to get off like that. good for you then [8\|] well EXCUSE me for having a sound opinion in this matter An opinion, yes I think we can all agree you have an opinion. It being a sound opinion is another thing entirely. Personally, I say that anyone who call rape after they've fucked someone that they fucked willingly is a bunch of bullshit an sure sign of a stupid cunt that deserves to be kicked in their junk. at least i'm not afraid expressing it against the commonality norm that runs rampant here. yes, it's sound according to my Doms - whatever you think it may or not doesn't matter to us

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Pussy Busting (10/12/2007 6:07:40 PM)
I love punching, kicking, hard hitting, but all those guys that want the heavy ballbusting get ignored. If you BREAK your toy, you don't get to play with it any more. Edge play is way fun, but the area of safety is so small, I wouldn't even try it on someone that I hadn't played with in less dangerous ways first.

CuriousLord -> RE: Pussy Busting (10/12/2007 6:13:34 PM)
It can be fun at times. No particular love for it. Yeah, it does seem like genital abuse is more Domme w/ male sub than Dom w/ female sub. I'd make some guesses as to why, but I suppose it'd be better to figure out if that's true or not first.

jadedserendipity -> RE: Pussy Busting (10/12/2007 6:38:33 PM)
[sm=hair.gif] Okay so I admit that I can be highly masochistic at times, but I must say the thought of this made me cringe a bit and fight the urge to hightail it right back out the door I came in.... I mean do not get me wrong I enjoy rough play and pain quite a bit, however for me this seems more extreme than I can swallow... I am sure it is for some but I suppose I am just not one of them. Hope that helped a bit. ~jadedserendipity~

laurell3 -> RE: Pussy Busting (10/12/2007 8:45:12 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sambamanslilgirl quote: ORIGINAL: MrDiscipline44 quote: ORIGINAL: sambamanslilgirl quote: ORIGINAL: IrishMist quote: ORIGINAL: sambamanslilgirl think of it as a woman consenting to have sex and then later reporting it as rape it wouldn't matter if there's consent, it's abusive to me and i'm SO glad my Doms don't need to hurt me to get off like that. good for you then [8\|] well EXCUSE me for having a sound opinion in this matter An opinion, yes I think we can all agree you have an opinion. It being a sound opinion is another thing entirely. Personally, I say that anyone who call rape after they've fucked someone that they fucked willingly is a bunch of bullshit an sure sign of a stupid cunt that deserves to be kicked in their junk. at least i'm not afraid expressing it against the commonality norm that runs rampant here. yes, it's sound according to my Doms - whatever you think it may or not doesn't matter to us Honestly I'm not sure there is a norm at all on these forums other than respect and being nonjudgmental. But hell, if someone wants to refer to intense kinksters as "normal", lol I guess I would take that as a compliment. Just for clarification purposes, were you actually suggesting it's ok to have sex then call rape? I'm unclear on this. l

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