slavegirljoy
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Sure, kicking and punching sounds brutal and makes some cringe at the sound of it. But, so does cutting and burning and biting and choking and whipping and flogging and fisting and......, etc. Like all SM activities, it can be very brutal but, it doesn't have to be. For me, it all depends on who is doing it and why. If someone decides to bite me and i don't know them or i don't have an intimate, sexual relationship with them, being bitten by them is not going to be enjoyable. But, if my Master decides to bite me, i'm going to get instantly sexually aroused. Same thing with any SM activity, including heavy slapping, punching, kicking, and all the rest. It's all a matter of the context in which it's being done. When my Master slaps my face and head hard it sends me into orbit and i love it. If some guy were to walk up to me and start slapping me, i wouldn't enjoy it and i would do whatever i could to safely get him to stop or to get away from him. Knifeplay is another example. How many people would raise their hand to have someone use a knife on them? Someone pulling a knife on me and cutting me isn't something i would consider to be an enjoyable activity. But, my Master loves to use a knife on me. He doesn't cut deep and He doesn't just pull out a knife and start slashing me. It is always done with a very deliberate and, almost choreographed sensitivity and finesse. It's seeing the gleam in my Master's eyes when He walks up to me with a knife in His hands. The way He handles the knife, while smiling at me. The feel of the cold steel blade against my skin that send chills through my body and then the way He pushes the blade gently and with graduated pressure into my skin, not drawing any blood. The way He runs the blade along my skin, pushing it hard against my skin. It's all done with a purpose in mind and with an outcome that's meaningful to Him and i. The purpose of it is to create a heightened sexual arousal in both Him and i, which it does. It's the same with kicking and punching. i have been kicked and punched, not by a sadistic Dom but, by a simple man who was in a fit of uncontrolled rage. He made sure not to punch my face. It was all body shots, especially in my sides, gut, and crotch. i had no serious damage from it but, i was very tender and sore for a solid 2 weeks afterward. He didn't do it for any meaningful purpose. He did it because He was a weak, little man, who couldn't handle his anger and let his rage take control of him. i felt sorry for him, actually and, knew right then that it would be the only time he would ever hit me or touch me in any way and, it was. Now, my Master hasn't shown any interest in punching me or kicking me. But, i have no doubt that, if He did, He would do it with the same sort of finesse and style that He does all of His other pleasure-pain activities. He has pushed the bottom of His foot hard against my pussy and i liked that. i could see that leading up to an actual kick, perhaps, especially with the heel of His foot. With Him, i know i would enjoy it. He also doesn't punch me but, He open-palm slaps me silly and, i wouldn't have a problem if He decided to close His hand and punch me. He just happens to prefer to use His closed fist to ram it up inside me, rather than socking me. But, again, when He started fisting me, He didn't just attack my pussy with His fist. He worked up to it, gradually and very sensually. i believe that, with the right person and in the right setting, any act of brutality can be made into a sensual pleasure. Then again, with the wrong person, in the wrong setting, any sensual act can be made into a brutal attack. Take hugging, for example. It's usually nice to get a hug from someone, who you care about or at least like and when it's done in a caring manner. But, then again, someone mean or vicious can literally squeeze the life out of someone, with a hug. It's all a matter of what the intended outcome is that makes the act either pleasurable or hurtful. When my Master is enjoying His sadistic pleasures with me, it's not to damage me, it's to gives Uus both a good feeling. When He uses a knife on me, has no desire to mutilate me, it's only to manipulate me. When He bites me, flogs me, pulls my hair, chokes my throat, etc., it's not to take out His anger on me, it's to bring out the sexual excitement in me and in Him. So, kicking and punching would just be two more ways in which He could accomplish that, if He wanted to add them to what He already uses. slave joyOwned property of Master David
< Message edited by slavegirljoy -- 10/12/2007 10:38:13 PM >
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Canes and crops were ok, but there was never alot of pain for me so they were always just 'ho-hum"; paddles were always a good thing, right up there with being cut
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