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BlackSakura -> RE: A concern regarding my domination (10/24/2007 11:30:03 AM)

Yay! Thank you all for your replies. All very good things to take into consideration. As a side note, W/we had out first discipline session. It went extremely well; didn't feel like a “bitch” doing it either. =)




BlackSakura -> RE: A concern regarding my domination (7/12/2008 8:07:13 PM)

This is just an update:  I left that fucking loser.  ^_^




slavelet -> RE: A concern regarding my domination (7/12/2008 8:24:32 PM)

i cannot  help myself... but ask... why?

i just read the whole thread, and as i was going, i was actually making note of things i would like to consider and discuss with my own Master ( i am a rather curious sort...)

Why now, so many months later, is he a loser? What portion of this broke down?

slavelet




SurrenderForMe -> RE: A concern regarding my domination (7/13/2008 1:38:30 AM)

Talk to your sub.  You seem to have discussed things previously.  The sub may have concerns you don't know about on his part.  This gives you a chance to feel things out and get feedback.

I am not telling you to bottom from the top.  Just explore his mind.




BlackSakura -> RE: A concern regarding my domination (7/17/2008 7:21:08 PM)

The reason I called him a loser is because he wasn't an actual submissive, just a kinky bottom.  Oh, and the fact that he beat the shit out of me one night.  He's a fucking loser. 




Misstoyou -> RE: A concern regarding my domination (7/17/2008 7:48:29 PM)


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ORIGINAL: BlackSakura

... Oh, and the fact that he beat the shit out of me one night.  He's a fucking loser. 


Sounds accurate to me. Sorry to hear.




LPslittleclip -> RE: A concern regarding my domination (7/17/2008 8:33:39 PM)

I'm very sorry to hear you had a bad experience i wish you all the best in your next experience. also it sounds like your former sub has other issues to deal with before delving into a 24/7 relationship.
now  to the op should you find another to try it with, from a submissives point of view start slow and build up in steps. both of you are learning each other. next have a time/place/method of communicating with each other openly without fear or reprisals, i have a journal and if i feel the need i may request to converse on the subject. my M'Lady and i do this often during online chat or while driving to events. i have not yet gotten to a 24/7 as i am in the military and have a vanilla wife, i have spent several days at a time serving and each time i get better and learn more as does my M'Lady.

i do wish you to find joy and happiness in your life




MissEnchanted -> RE: A concern regarding my domination (7/19/2008 12:08:11 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: BlackSakura

The reason I called him a loser is because he wasn't an actual submissive, just a kinky bottom.  Oh, and the fact that he beat the shit out of me one night.  He's a fucking loser. 

I sent you a private on the other side.

Hope your heart and mind heals even faster than your body,

ME




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