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when is he a Dom or Master? - 10/12/2007 8:52:11 PM   
Jennie13093


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Status: offline 		When do you consider a Sir a Dom or your Master? Does he become Master when he owns a sub/slave. And when is he considered a Dom? To the rest of the D/s community?
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RE: when is he a Dom or Master? - 10/12/2007 8:58:43 PM   
sweetcreeangel


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Status: offline 		it all depends on what He wishes You to call Him allow there are differences between a Dom and Master (from my understanding)and He is always a Dom within the community regradless of where He goes that is His title of respect.....just like we would get the respect of our role within the community...i hope this makes sense to you
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RE: when is he a Dom or Master? - 10/12/2007 9:07:06 PM   
laurell3


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Status: offline 		There are a whole truck load of threads on labels and definitions and what I've found from reading them is people differ rather widely in their approach and opinons on it. 

In my mind, a Master is someone that has a slave, a Dom is someone with a submissive.  Generally in the community we take people at face value for the titles they chose for themselves, although I never refer to someone as Master or Dom (or even Sir for that matter) unless they are mine personally.

Clear as mud?  I'm sure it will get more convulted or maybe someone will pull up the old threads on this for you so you can get the ideas of the variance.  Really all that matters is what YOUR Dom or Master wants.
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RE: when is he a Dom or Master? - 10/12/2007 9:11:21 PM   
Kellendra


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Status: offline 		Not that it is overly related....but will add my 30 cents anyways......
I personally find it fascinating what people (Dom's specifically I suppose)  want to be called..but then I am a curious child.
He was a Dom (is just what he is), always Sir when answering him, but He was my Master.....

It is likely not exactly what you were asking, but I have found everyone has their own perception on these things.






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RE: when is he a Dom or Master? - 10/12/2007 9:26:24 PM   
gentlestarZR


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Status: offline 		hmm i never thought of this .. i think being a Dominant is a personality trait that one can be .. being a Master is a title earned i feel .. some people may be dominants but i dont think make good masters at all .. bullys , people that emotionally abuse one they may be dominant but sure arnt supportive and nurturing like a Master i feel should be ... and no i dont mean all dominants are bullys .. i just mean the title Master is earned .. one cannot be a Master if he hasnt done anything to deserve it ..


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RE: when is he a Dom or Master? - 10/12/2007 10:37:31 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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ORIGINAL: Jennie13093
When do you consider a Sir a Dom or your Master?

Whern you decide it's appropriate.
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 Does he become Master when he owns a sub/slave.

For some yes, for some no.

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And when is he considered a Dom? To the rest of the D/s community?

There's no universal standard.  Stop looking for them.  Who's to say you can't be BOTH a dom and a top and a master and a slave?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_605383/mpage_1/key_master%252Cdom/tm.htm#606932
Ms vs Ds

http://www.collarchat.com/m_794045/mpage_2/key_kinky/tm.htm#794460
Ds vs bdsm

http://www.collarchat.com/m_486719/mpage_1/key_master%252Cdom/tm.htm#486891
from dom to master

http://www.collarchat.com/m_271859/mpage_2/key_master%252Cdom/tm.htm#272880
dom or master

Master vs Dom


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RE: when is he a Dom or Master? - 10/13/2007 8:47:40 AM   
Celeste43


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Status: offline 		You don't go out to a dungeon and have them vote on what to call you. In fact, if you're in a good relationship what the others think shouldn't matter at all.

It's up to the two of you as to what you prefer to think of your relationship and what names to call each other. Just as it is what rituals or protocols if any you adopt and what rules you have.

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RE: when is he a Dom or Master? - 10/13/2007 8:53:37 AM   
pseudopsychotic


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Status: offline 		Hmm, I think like all those that posted before me.
It's all very situational.
Now allow me to turn this around a bit.
When is a sub/slave considered a sub/slave?

I think you'll find the answer quite the same.


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RE: when is he a Dom or Master? - 10/13/2007 9:22:50 AM   
sambamanslilgirl


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Status: offline 		Daddy has many titles but merely depends on the moment which one i use.  some days He's just Daddy ...other times He's Sir or My Love

the same will be said with my SO however for now i call him by his first name or his nickname SpookSir


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