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how is a sub required to dress - 10/12/2007 9:21:52 PM

sweetcreeangel

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as the title sugests that is my question how is a sub required to dress at all times or does it matter?or is being naked all the time a good thing?*looks around confused*

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RE: how is a sub required to dress - 10/12/2007 9:46:28 PM

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i think that depends on the Dominant. Some might require nudity while others might require specific clothing or a certain outfit. *shrugs* It is as individual as the relationships, there isn't a right answer.

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RE: how is a sub required to dress - 10/12/2007 11:18:48 PM

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its up to you. do you want your sub naked all the time?

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RE: how is a sub required to dress - 10/13/2007 1:31:20 AM

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It really depends on the Dom.

But I prefer depends on the sub.

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RE: how is a sub required to dress - 10/13/2007 7:52:43 AM

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i dont have a sub i am a sub without an owner,that is why i am asking

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RE: how is a sub required to dress - 10/13/2007 8:34:14 AM

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And the answer was-You won't know until you have one-no hard and fast rules in this game-don't expect them. It's not that easy.

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RE: how is a sub required to dress - 10/14/2007 8:32:32 AM

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Naked all the time is wonderful, although it might create issues when you go down the frozen foods aisle....
Which is why I have instructed a girl to wear a simple dress, preferably one I bought for her, with sandals or sensible shoes.
Around the house- loose sweats while cleaning and doing chores, then a satin robe with collar and cuffs after the work is done and we are relaxing in front of the tv.

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RE: how is a sub required to dress - 10/15/2007 5:00:16 PM

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In Saskatchewan, I wouldn't think being naked year round would be a good thing... but as others have already said, it depends on the Dom.

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RE: how is a sub required to dress - 10/15/2007 7:48:13 PM

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if you work on making your insides shine out...it doesn't matter how you dress....cause, not trying to brag, actually complaining, i can be wearing my crappiest clothes and still get Domly types hitting on me...and i'm just trying to shop at walmart....

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RE: how is a sub required to dress - 10/15/2007 8:25:15 PM

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Do yourself a HUGE favor take a fashion trip to a consultant who really knows women's bodies get a consult on what, styles work on your body type, colors on your skin tone, etc.
Take the advice couple it with your personality and dress in the manner that shows you to be the person you are. The matters of making it suitable to an eventual Dominant partner is silly at best at this point. Because you can't know what they will like until you meet them at least.

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RE: how is a sub required to dress - 10/16/2007 3:34:44 PM

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Well it is up the Dom/me, it also depends on how how comfortable you want the sub to be? Is it for personal use only? Will it be on public display? Is it appropriate for public display? Other than that I would suggest that you follow what is in your heart and gut. Do what looks good and if you are in doubt get some professional help like Archer said. Above all else have fun with it. Make it as sexy, sultry or as nasty as you want.
Of course that implies that its only for playtime. Do you require your sub to dress according to your specifications for parties, dinner, work all of that. In cases where it involves professionalism as well you have to consider the aspect of who will they meet while in the public, what does the job entail? Is the outfit suitable for that kind of job. Obviously you are not going to send a teacher sub dressed in a leather cape and lacy crotchless panties without something to cover them with correct?
Then again there are those that require a sub to be available all the time and be naked in said fashion. So you have to consider what kind of "dress" are you referring to?
Is it for just the two of you, for everyone in the house, outdoors, playtime only, playtime with other people. Have fun though

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RE: how is a sub required to dress - 10/16/2007 3:49:45 PM

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i want a dom who wants me in depends what a dream come true

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RE: how is a sub required to dress - 10/18/2007 10:55:03 PM

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Personally, sometimes I wear clothes and sometimes I don't. It all depends on the company that is over at the time. I have the house to myself and I'm doing chours, then I'll defenitly get naked and turn the radio on while doing my chours, butt wiggling and everything, hehe. If someone happens to walk in however, well...they usually turn and run the other way for decency while I throw on a shirt or something.

It depends on you and your Dom though. You shouldn't even have to worry about such things until you're with a Dom, then it'll be discussed. I know that before I even met my Dom I always wore clothes, even to bed, but now it's different and I wouldn't have it any other way. Now I can't even stand to wear clothes, but public nudity would put me in jail...so I kinda have to wear some articles of clothing when I go out, hehe.

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RE: how is a sub required to dress - 10/19/2007 12:43:49 AM

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If we were in a situation that we lived alone then I would dress very different not just nude but more then likely sheer clothes such as haram pants something that just covers but leaves nothing to the imagine. Yes there would be times he required me to be naked but for day to day wear he leaves it up to me as i know what i look best in.

Party wear varies - At the moment my fav party outfit is a sheer skirt with fine chain belt, fishnets and a corset. I am planning on getting a red pvc mini dress soon.

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RE: how is a sub required to dress - 10/19/2007 12:54:59 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: TakenPet
Obviously you are not going to send a teacher sub dressed in a leather cape and lacy crotchless panties without something to cover them with correct?

Uh-oh...I hope she didn't leave for work yet.
'Scuze Me, I have to make a phone call.

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