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slaveluci -> RE: A NEWBIE QUESTION - DO DOMS GIVE ORAL? (10/13/2007 4:06:54 PM)

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ORIGINAL: DiurnalVampire

I like it, and so I do it. Denying myself something I enjoy for any reason doesnt seem to make sense.
After all, if my pets are there for me to enjoy, then why not do so completely?

DV


DV,
That's exactly what Master says.  He loves it and won't deprive Himself of it.  Enjoying His property in any way He pleases - including oral sex - is His perogative.  How "domly" is it to not do something to your slave that you enjoy simply because others may think it's a "submissive" thing to do?  He couldn't possibly care any less how "domly" someone else thinks it is.  If a dom/owner/master is too insecure to do it for that reason, I pity them frankly.  (I know some just don't enjoy it and that's cool.  I'm talking about those who DO enjoy it but won't do it because they'll "look submissive" over it).  And, btw, He never has better/more physical control over me than when I'm at His mercy with His face in the place[;)].  Master will never give up that particular pleasure................luci 




laurell3 -> RE: A NEWBIE QUESTION - DO DOMS GIVE ORAL? (10/13/2007 4:57:20 PM)

There are no rules.  Dom/mes are human beings, not just roles.  Besides, what's a better way to tease and deny than oral?
l




KiandPhoenix -> RE: A NEWBIE QUESTION - DO DOMS GIVE ORAL? (10/13/2007 5:46:26 PM)

I LOVE giving oral. My ex still still tells everyone I am "The God of oral". I have yet to find a girl who does not enjoy it, but I know they exist. So as long as my subs enjoy it, I will love giving it.

~Ki




beargonewild -> RE: A NEWBIE QUESTION - DO DOMS GIVE ORAL? (10/13/2007 5:51:55 PM)

Yes there are Doms who refuse to give oral. Though many do give oral and enjoy doing so. My former owner was one who enjoyed giving ral and it was mostly because it gave him pleasure to do so.
  This Dom isn't right nor is he wrong. It is something which he believes period. By general consensus, because a Dom gives oral it doesn'y mean they are less of a Dom. This act is simply a personal preference in my opinion.




adoracat -> RE: A NEWBIE QUESTION - DO DOMS GIVE ORAL? (10/13/2007 6:23:55 PM)

i have mixed feelings about recieving oral, because it was one of the ways in which i was abused.

but Daddy loves to do it, and who am i to deny him his wishes?  my vanilla husband has NEVER done it, never shown an interest in it, our whole marriage.  *shrugs*

kitten




TemptingNviceSub -> RE: A NEWBIE QUESTION - DO DOMS GIVE ORAL? (10/13/2007 8:15:42 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Level

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ORIGINAL: Bobbie9395

Good morning, sirs.  Please excuse the ignorance of a newbie, one who has not even begun training yet, but I have a question that's very important to me.  I have not seen it here recently, and hope I'm not being repetitive. 

I was just told by a dom I very much respect that doms do NOT give oral.  Is this true?  Receiving oral is one of my favorite things, not something I think I could do without for the rest of my life, and I AM seeking a 24/7-type relationship.  I very much respect him, but hope he's wrong.  I will anxiously be awaiting your responses and thank you in advance.



The answer is "yes".
 
Nice avatar.
Are you saying yes that Dominants DO NOT give oral..??..Say it isnt sooooo..~feeling wanker fantasy balloon pop!~...Tempting




LeMiz -> RE: A NEWBIE QUESTION - DO DOMS GIVE ORAL? (10/13/2007 10:55:36 PM)

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A NEWBIE QUESTION - DO DOMS GIVE ORAL?
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ORIGINAL: TemptingNviceSub

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ORIGINAL: Level

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ORIGINAL: Bobbie9395

Good morning, sirs.  Please excuse the ignorance of a newbie, one who has not even begun training yet, but I have a question that's very important to me.  I have not seen it here recently, and hope I'm not being repetitive. 

I was just told by a dom I very much respect that doms do NOT give oral.  Is this true?  Receiving oral is one of my favorite things, not something I think I could do without for the rest of my life, and I AM seeking a 24/7-type relationship.  I very much respect him, but hope he's wrong.  I will anxiously be awaiting your responses and thank you in advance.



The answer is "yes".
 
Nice avatar.
Are you saying yes that Dominants DO NOT give oral..??..Say it isnt sooooo..~feeling wanker fantasy balloon pop!~...Tempting


I think THIS is the question he answered yes to,
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A NEWBIE QUESTION - DO DOMS GIVE ORAL?
  [;)]




defiantbadgirl -> RE: A NEWBIE QUESTION - DO DOMS GIVE ORAL? (10/13/2007 11:48:42 PM)

I can understand if anyone, dom or sub, has an aversion to unprotected oral. HIV is spread through unprotected sex, both oral and intercourse. . Now protected oral is an entirely different matter.




obis -> RE: A NEWBIE QUESTION - DO DOMS GIVE ORAL? (10/14/2007 12:03:46 AM)

No! unless it's a Tuesday.




KatyLied -> RE: A NEWBIE QUESTION - DO DOMS GIVE ORAL? (10/14/2007 6:11:38 AM)

There are doms who do and doms who don't.  Who do you think are the better doms?

[;)]




Level -> RE: A NEWBIE QUESTION - DO DOMS GIVE ORAL? (10/14/2007 6:19:32 AM)

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ORIGINAL: TemptingNviceSub

quote:

ORIGINAL: Level

quote:

ORIGINAL: Bobbie9395

Good morning, sirs.  Please excuse the ignorance of a newbie, one who has not even begun training yet, but I have a question that's very important to me.  I have not seen it here recently, and hope I'm not being repetitive. 

I was just told by a dom I very much respect that doms do NOT give oral.  Is this true?  Receiving oral is one of my favorite things, not something I think I could do without for the rest of my life, and I AM seeking a 24/7-type relationship.  I very much respect him, but hope he's wrong.  I will anxiously be awaiting your responses and thank you in advance.



The answer is "yes".
 
Nice avatar.
Are you saying yes that Dominants DO NOT give oral..??..Say it isnt sooooo..~feeling wanker fantasy balloon pop!~...Tempting


No, I'm not [:D]
 
I'm saying that "yes, some dominants, including me, do give oral, enjoy it, think it's spiffy, etc". Now, feel free to wank on, gorgeous. [X(]




Level -> RE: A NEWBIE QUESTION - DO DOMS GIVE ORAL? (10/14/2007 6:21:10 AM)

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ORIGINAL: LeMiz

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A NEWBIE QUESTION - DO DOMS GIVE ORAL?
quote:

ORIGINAL: TemptingNviceSub

quote:

ORIGINAL: Level

quote:

ORIGINAL: Bobbie9395

Good morning, sirs.  Please excuse the ignorance of a newbie, one who has not even begun training yet, but I have a question that's very important to me.  I have not seen it here recently, and hope I'm not being repetitive. 

I was just told by a dom I very much respect that doms do NOT give oral.  Is this true?  Receiving oral is one of my favorite things, not something I think I could do without for the rest of my life, and I AM seeking a 24/7-type relationship.  I very much respect him, but hope he's wrong.  I will anxiously be awaiting your responses and thank you in advance.



The answer is "yes".
 
Nice avatar.
Are you saying yes that Dominants DO NOT give oral..??..Say it isnt sooooo..~feeling wanker fantasy balloon pop!~...Tempting


I think THIS is the question he answered yes to,
quote:

A NEWBIE QUESTION - DO DOMS GIVE ORAL?
  [;)]



Correct, missy. [;)]




Tacs -> RE: A NEWBIE QUESTION - DO DOMS GIVE ORAL? (10/14/2007 8:13:34 AM)

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Some people associate any sort of "giving" to be a submissive act


I'd like to run with the above quote from the dominant perspective. I've heard this school of thought in the past as well, and to me, such an argument is weak at best, especially if you follow through on such logic.

To those that subscribe to such ideas (not meaning the person I quoted), I suggest this argument.

There are plenty of things we "give" as doms that bring our subs pleasure. They love to serve, we give them that opportunity to do so. They love to be dominated, we give that to them. They love to be spanked, we give them spankings. They love to be tied up, we give them a bondage session. And the list goes on. (and no I don't mean these things from the persepevtive of topping from the bottom).

So, if giving is a sign of submission, then those dominants that subscribe to the above mentioned notion while at the same time take part in my examples, suggests, through their own ideas and actions, that they must now view themselves as submissive rather then dominant.





celticlord2112 -> RE: A NEWBIE QUESTION - DO DOMS GIVE ORAL? (10/14/2007 8:36:03 AM)

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I was just told by a dom I very much respect that doms do NOT give oral. Is this true?


This dom most enthusiastically gives oral.  My slave is quite tasty![;)]




subfromnj -> RE: A NEWBIE QUESTION - DO DOMS GIVE ORAL? (10/14/2007 9:40:45 AM)

[:)] I have had my first dom give me oral he was great (no longer with him presently) but there was once catch I had to be stripped..tied to bed all fours..and only he could say when I was done receiving it...I loved it enjoyed it while it lasted and still miss him and everything to date..it's has been several years..[image]http://www.collarchat.com/image/s7.gif[/image]




Jacobthm -> RE: A NEWBIE QUESTION - DO DOMS GIVE ORAL? (10/14/2007 7:15:49 PM)

It depend on the Dom I imagine. I do.




PryderiLoup -> RE: A NEWBIE QUESTION - DO DOMS GIVE ORAL? (10/14/2007 8:21:40 PM)

It is funny. I have seen doms cook for their subs,  brush their hair, bath them, even heard of one that painted his subs toenails.

All of these doms were men that I respected and tried to learn from. I think that the best don't worry about what seems domly or submissive. They do what they want, because they want to, or the sub needs help. That was the painting toenails thing! From these guys I learned that if you can get over the stigma of whether something is "domly" or not, things go much easier, and are much more fun! [:D]




TemptingNviceSub -> RE: A NEWBIE QUESTION - DO DOMS GIVE ORAL? (10/14/2007 8:22:36 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Level

quote:

ORIGINAL: TemptingNviceSub

quote:

ORIGINAL: Level

quote:

ORIGINAL: Bobbie9395

Good morning, sirs.  Please excuse the ignorance of a newbie, one who has not even begun training yet, but I have a question that's very important to me.  I have not seen it here recently, and hope I'm not being repetitive. 

I was just told by a dom I very much respect that doms do NOT give oral.  Is this true?  Receiving oral is one of my favorite things, not something I think I could do without for the rest of my life, and I AM seeking a 24/7-type relationship.  I very much respect him, but hope he's wrong.  I will anxiously be awaiting your responses and thank you in advance.



The answer is "yes".
 
Nice avatar.
Are you saying yes that Dominants DO NOT give oral..??..Say it isnt sooooo..~feeling wanker fantasy balloon pop!~...Tempting


No, I'm not [:D]
 
I'm saying that "yes, some dominants, including me, do give oral, enjoy it, think it's spiffy, etc". Now, feel free to wank on, gorgeous. [X(]
Ahhh, sighs of relief eminating as I type....!!!!....Tempting




cyberian11 -> RE: A NEWBIE QUESTION - DO DOMS GIVE ORAL? (10/14/2007 9:02:11 PM)

As a proponent of Orgasm Control, why would I want to give up one of the best ways to control a sub's orgasm?  I say, Lick on!




Estring -> RE: A NEWBIE QUESTION - DO DOMS GIVE ORAL? (10/14/2007 11:13:16 PM)

Love to lick my slave. I never understood how sticking your tongue in a slave's pussy would be considered any less Domly than sticking your penis in her. Seems so silly to worry about it. 




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