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RE: A NEWBIE QUESTION - DO DOMS GIVE ORAL? - 10/15/2007 5:14:26 AM   
Lashra


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Status: offline 		Thats true for your Master, it is NOT true for EVERY Master/Mistress. I own a submale and I do oral because it pleases ME to do so. If it did not please Me, no I would not do it.

~Lashra


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RE: A NEWBIE QUESTION - DO DOMS GIVE ORAL? - 10/15/2007 5:28:13 AM   
master218711


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Status: offline 		I have been in the life since 85.  In that time, I do not do oral.  I save it for the times when a slave has done a very good job and give it to her as a reward.  There has been a couple of times I have done it for myself.  since 85 I have done it about 10 times.  If a slave wants it that much then she can get it from another Dom I might let use her or another slave that might be joining us.  Of course if we have a slave joining us she is sure to get it since that would be one of the things that I made the two female slaves do.

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RE: A NEWBIE QUESTION - DO DOMS GIVE ORAL? - 10/15/2007 7:56:42 AM   
toservez


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lashra

Thats true for your Master, it is NOT true for EVERY Master/Mistress. I own a submale and I do oral because it pleases ME to do so. If it did not please Me, no I would not do it.

~Lashra



I just quoted this and agree but recognize many have said the same thing.

To the OP, it sounds like the dominant you are talking to just has a preference of not wanting to do oral and just then worked backwards and created a theory/rule that made it look to him like their was a better reason not to.

I am of the persuasion that I would never judge a Master by the amount of times, but he must show me he is comfortable being down there. Sexual compatibility is important and not shallow.



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RE: A NEWBIE QUESTION - DO DOMS GIVE ORAL? - 10/15/2007 12:24:29 PM   
AquaticSub


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Status: offline 		He's wrong.

Generally speaking, a dominant will do what they want to do. That includes oral sex, if they feel like it.

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RE: A NEWBIE QUESTION - DO DOMS GIVE ORAL? - 10/16/2007 7:21:40 AM   
littlebitxxx


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Status: offline 		Hell yeah, they do!  And better than most, I might add.

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RE: A NEWBIE QUESTION - DO DOMS GIVE ORAL? - 10/16/2007 8:35:11 AM   
mydomsabstrd


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Status: offline 		He does it to me as a  special reward for being a very good girl.  but it is a reward and not something that happens very often.  but oh when it does.........

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RE: A NEWBIE QUESTION - DO DOMS GIVE ORAL? - 10/16/2007 9:22:11 AM   
meticulousgirl


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Status: offline 		The answer to this question is honestly simple:

Some Dom's do and others do not.  Personally in five years of serving my Owner i've never had it done, i've never had it done period but if i dont know what it's like then i guess i'm not missing much right? (Trying to make myself feel better about it i guess).

It all depends on the person, what the person is like, how much attraction is there from the one giving to the one recieving etc....there are a multitude of reasons why a Dom would or wouldn't, to each their own, they all have their own opinion.

~meticulous~

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RE: A NEWBIE QUESTION - DO DOMS GIVE ORAL? - 10/16/2007 10:03:43 AM   
canupleaseme


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Status: offline 		I love doing it,my boy isnt bothered about it but has it done me because I love it

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RE: A NEWBIE QUESTION - DO DOMS GIVE ORAL? - 10/16/2007 10:04:46 AM   
daddysprop247


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Status: offline 		well as most have said, some Dominants do, and some do not. my Master will get an urge to give oral every once in a great while, with me he's done it maybe 2 or 3 times in 7 years. it's not something i enjoy or find comfortable, so that's more than fine with me. i could very happily live without it for the rest of my days on earth.

as for it being dominant or submissive, it all depends on the motivation behind the act. i personally tend to view a desire to give physical pleasure to another (and not for one's own ego, just for the pleasure of that other person) to be a submissive characteristic, so i probably wouldn't view a man as very Dominant if he gave oral with that intention. but that's just my lil old opinion.

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RE: A NEWBIE QUESTION - DO DOMS GIVE ORAL? - 10/17/2007 6:51:26 PM   
CelticPrince


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Status: offline 		Bobbie,

of course they do, but proably to satisfy themselves more then their "s".

CP

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RE: A NEWBIE QUESTION - DO DOMS GIVE ORAL? - 10/18/2007 8:44:25 AM   
Aubre


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Status: offline 		Hell yes! It's one of my favorite things to do, and one of the best ways to either tease or force orgasms. If anyone says that makes me "less domly", I say fuck 'em, and let me get back to eating at the Y!

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RE: A NEWBIE QUESTION - DO DOMS GIVE ORAL? - 10/18/2007 1:52:57 PM   
CreativeDominant


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DiurnalVampire

I like it, and so I do it. Denying myself something I enjoy for any reason doesnt seem to make sense.
After all, if my pets are there for me to enjoy, then why not do so completely?

DV



Nicely said, DV. 

I enjoy oral...both giving and receiving.  One I do at my choosing and the other I do at my control...both suit the dominant (the choosing and the control), the sadist ( how long...or how short...it lasts), the sensualist (gotta love the nerve endings stimulated by both endeavors) within me.

< Message edited by CreativeDominant -- 10/18/2007 2:13:00 PM >

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RE: A NEWBIE QUESTION - DO DOMS GIVE ORAL? - 10/18/2007 2:50:48 PM   
KnightofMists


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Bobbie9395
I was just told by a dom I very much respect that doms do NOT give oral.  Is this true? 


First... re-evaluate who you respect!

Second... Some don't and Some Do!

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Receiving Oral from your Dom is one thing..... But Receiving it from your Dom who also happens to be a Sadist...... well.... becareful what you ask for *G*

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RE: A NEWBIE QUESTION - DO DOMS GIVE ORAL? - 10/18/2007 6:22:33 PM   
servantheart


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quote:

ORIGINAL: celticlord2112

quote:

I was just told by a dom I very much respect that doms do NOT give oral. Is this true?


This dom most enthusiastically gives oral.  My slave is quite tasty!




(thank You, Sir...enthusiastic is definitely a good way of describing the gift You give to me)


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RE: A NEWBIE QUESTION - DO DOMS GIVE ORAL? - 10/18/2007 6:57:52 PM   
Redoubt


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Status: offline 		Its one of the best ways to tease a female submissive. Nuff Said?

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