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Aileen68 -> One Night Stands (10/13/2007 8:11:10 PM)

I'm a big advocate for one night stands.  I think everyone should have at least one in their lifetime.  There's just something about getting primal with a stranger.  I find it to be fucking hot.  Soooo....have you ever and did you enjoy it?




Sunao -> RE: One Night Stands (10/13/2007 8:18:13 PM)

never had a one night stand but it seems like it'd be really interesting. I really wouldn't know how to throw up that idea to a total stranger though.




SDFemDom4cuck -> RE: One Night Stands (10/13/2007 8:21:35 PM)

Many, and oh yes, very much.




divi -> RE: One Night Stands (10/13/2007 8:23:04 PM)

Yep!  Had a few... okay many.. lots of fun hehe




InkedMaster -> RE: One Night Stands (10/13/2007 8:37:49 PM)

Hell I even have a pic of my one night stand...
http://www.ethanallen.com/jsp/univers_prod.jsp?imageName=375436 




Aileen68 -> RE: One Night Stands (10/13/2007 8:38:30 PM)

heh heh heh




chiaThePet -> RE: One Night Stands (10/13/2007 8:45:55 PM)

Oh most definitely, though I'm usually not standing.

chia* (the pet)




Rushemery -> RE: One Night Stands (10/13/2007 8:56:40 PM)

Just remember to go to their house otherwise it may not just be one night your seeing them at the door




SugarMyChurro -> RE: One Night Stands (10/13/2007 8:57:42 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen68
I'm a big advocate for one night stands.  I think everyone should have at least one in their lifetime.  There's just something about getting primal with a stranger.  I find it to be fucking hot.  Soooo....have you ever and did you enjoy it?


Answer: yes, I have done it. And I agree that passions and the excitement of novelty can run high.

Now here's me reading way too much into this: that you like it so much is worrying. Do you have problems with intimacy? While I like the occasional one-nighter (esp. when I was younger), I find that nothing takes the place of longer term relationships. In longer term relationships the sex is better, I feel more at one with the other person, there is greater stability, and sloppy sex is on the table (because I am far more careful with strangers).

As a Master I must also point out that no one that just met me can properly serve my needs for companionship, sexual fulfillment, or my love of being served. It just won't happen.

So, from the standpoint of taking a sampler serving from someone's body I can see it. From the standpoint of why I even bother with human companionship in the first place, not so much.

I mean, if I just want alien company I already have the cat.





Aileen68 -> RE: One Night Stands (10/13/2007 9:03:21 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: SugarMyChurro

quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen68
I'm a big advocate for one night stands.  I think everyone should have at least one in their lifetime.  There's just something about getting primal with a stranger.  I find it to be fucking hot.  Soooo....have you ever and did you enjoy it?


Answer: yes, I have done it. And I agree that passions and the excitement of novelty can run high.

Now here's me reading way too much into this: that you like it so much is worrying. Do you have problems with intimacy? While I like the occasional one-nighter (esp. when I was younger), I find that nothing takes the place of longer term relationships. In longer term relationships the sex is better, I feel more at one with the other person, there is greater stability, and sloppy sex is on the table (because I am far more careful with strangers).

As a Master I must also point out that no one that just met me can properly serve my needs for companionship, sexual fulfillment, or my love of being served. It just won't happen.

So, from the standpoint of taking a sampler serving from someone's body I can see it. From the standpoint of why I even bother with human companionship in the first place, not so much.

I mean, if I just want alien company I already have the cat.




It's supposed to be women that overthink things.  Not men. 
I just started a simple thread about enjoying a nice, no strings anonymous fuck.
Certainly not advocating it to replace relationships.




divi -> RE: One Night Stands (10/13/2007 9:05:14 PM)

amen Aileen lol




Lordandmaster -> RE: One Night Stands (10/13/2007 9:05:51 PM)

Men tend to be quick to point out that they're not into one-night stands because they think that will score points for them with women.




BossyShoeBitch -> RE: One Night Stands (10/13/2007 9:07:31 PM)

Oh gosh.. I have had a bunch of one nighters! There were several where I hoped I would hear from them but didn't, [image]http://www.collarchat.com/micons/m17.gif[/image], a few that should have remained one nighters but I couldn't bring myself to blow them off, and more than a few that were just hot as hell!




Lordandmaster -> RE: One Night Stands (10/13/2007 9:14:29 PM)

Also...a bad one-night stand is a whole lot better than a bad long-term relationship!




Aileen68 -> RE: One Night Stands (10/13/2007 9:17:23 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster

Also...a bad one-night stand is a whole lot better than a bad long-term relationship!


Hahaha.  Understatement.




Rushemery -> RE: One Night Stands (10/13/2007 9:21:56 PM)

some are enjoyable some are not, depends on if you find someone who is compatable, sometimes they just cant keep up and you wish you would have stayed at the bar. I cant stand someone whos too drunk or just plain not agressive enough




FangsNfeet -> RE: One Night Stands (10/13/2007 9:24:28 PM)

Been there and done that more than a few times.

However, I'm glad that I was responsible enough to always leave a number or e-mail just incase pregnancy or a type of STD poped up. After all, there is still  responsiblity to take on for One Nighters.




CuriousLord -> RE: One Night Stands (10/13/2007 9:43:26 PM)

With strangers, they can be great.

I'm really picky about sexual partners.  Mostly, STD's.  Sleeping with random strangers would drive me nuts over worrying about STD's.  Too much to live for.

You know, it may be another subject.. but break-up sex.  I feel a lot like it's a one-night stand.. since you're already broken up, but you're sleeping together once, knowing it's definately not happening again.  And, it works pretty well for me, since I already know the girl's STD-free.

So, in a world where the one-night-stand aspect is mutual (both people know it's a one-time thing), and there's no STD's, that's great.  I tend to avoid them since this isn't that world.




SugarMyChurro -> RE: One Night Stands (10/13/2007 9:57:00 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster
Men tend to be quick to point out that they're not into one-night stands because they think that will score points for them with women.


Naw, I just like sloppy sex and hate condoms.

Sex with a condom is like loud music with the volume set at 3 instead of 11.




SugarMyChurro -> RE: One Night Stands (10/13/2007 10:00:35 PM)

BTW, anyone that claims that sex on a one night stand is better than sex after several years of knowing someone just isn't doing it right.

Knowledge is power, or in this case ecstasy.




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