Carrianna
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ORIGINAL: MsSonnetMarwood To the OP - dropping a Domme a one liner basically asking her to look at your profile isn't going to get you much of a response. I know I probably wouldn't bother. You don't have to send your life story, but you at least need to acknowledge you thoroughly read her profile and something about it prompted you to write to her, specifically. Think no fewer than 4-5 sentences with about 10 minutes on your part to write it. quote:
ORIGINAL: youngsubgeoff Ive noticed this alot too. You send someone an email, and you get nothing. Not even a, "not interested, thanks". It seems common courtesy is dying out in this world. Their lack of response is their "not interested, thanks", just not in so many words. Let me give you a common scenario exchange of emails: him: "Hi, nice pic. Let's get to know each other?" (or something of this nature) Her: "not interested, thanks" him: "y not? I have pics. wutz ur yahoo?" Her: "I'm just not interested. Good luck in your search." him: "oh pleeeeeeeeze I'd do ANYTHING you say! PLease dominate me!" Her: "You live 3000 miles away and my profile says I'm only looking for someone who lives locally. We're not compatable. Please move along." him: "I'll come visit! I'm into <insert pornographic list of sexual demands here>" and adds a penis pic for good measure. ....at this point, she stops responding.... him: "You <insert expletives here> Fake! Fake! Whore! You just want money!" Soooo while not all emails end like this, they frequently do. Sometimes if you're not interested, it's just easier to let that be known by not responding. I laughed out loud when I read this! I have found that if I do send a message back, it is not worth it, I know not everyone is the same, we are all different, but my time means a lot to me. Good luck sammyboy1980. Just post messages in the forums!
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