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Whats this ONLINE? - 10/15/2007 2:51:37 PM

redbeard71901

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Maybe I have just been away way too long, but I do not understand this want of Submissives wanting an ONLINE DOM/DADDY/MASTER. Can someone explain this to me.
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RE: Whats this ONLINE? - 10/15/2007 2:54:30 PM

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quote:

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Maybe I have just been away way too long, but I do not understand this want of Submissives wanting an ONLINE DOM/DADDY/MASTER. Can someone explain this to me.
RED

i cant tell ya the answer til ya feed me collards.....or something like that....maybe black eyed peas was it-hell i dunno

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RE: Whats this ONLINE? - 10/15/2007 2:58:29 PM

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I dunno, seems like a waste of typing to me. I would need 'hands on' interaction. Typing sexual positions or Dominant-like words just woudn't cut it.

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RE: Whats this ONLINE? - 10/15/2007 3:05:27 PM

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You are lucky if you have the freedom to explore this world. Some people are married or committed to others but have the same cravings you do. I know people that talk endlessly online and have known one another for years but only occasionally meeting. The most valuable BDSM resource is the mind, don’t forget that. Although I don’t role-play etc. online I can see the benefit of it in terms of exploring ideas.

It is all good.

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RE: Whats this ONLINE? - 10/15/2007 5:24:44 PM

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Perhaps that is just their way of "living out" a fantasy or exploring.

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RE: Whats this ONLINE? - 10/15/2007 5:25:56 PM

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ORIGINAL: redbeard71901

Maybe I have just been away way too long, but I do not understand this want of Submissives wanting an ONLINE DOM/DADDY/MASTER. Can someone explain this to me.
RED

It's fairly simple - just means that they are unable or unwilling to commit to a real life relationship. They might be married or otherwise in a dedicated vanilla one, seeking something that is missing from their normal lives by engaging just their fantasty. They might be young and inexperienced and want to play with it first before taking it into a real life setting and making mistakes they might regret. Lots of reasons.

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RE: Whats this ONLINE? - 10/15/2007 7:15:20 PM

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Does it matter why they want it? They do and you don't. Just say that you aren't compatible.

They could be dipping a toe in the water, they could have crippling disease and not able to interact physically, they could be keeping their marriage vows while still getting their needs met in the only way they can find. Dozens of different needs, none of which need to be justified to you.

Thanks but no thanks is the most you owe when offered something you don't want.

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RE: Whats this ONLINE? - 10/15/2007 7:18:15 PM

KatyLied

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It's like having a penpal. But instead of stationary and pens, you use chat/email.

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