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RE: Need honest opinions please. - 10/16/2007 1:30:09 PM   
Lordandmaster


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Well, I'll be honest, in that picture, you do kinda look like a man in drag.  For one thing, that picture doesn't show anything except your face, and that's a little suspicious.  And your profile says you're six feet tall--maybe some people think that's unlikely.  I'd recommend getting a few other pictures showing clearly that you're 100% purebred female!

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RE: Need honest opinions please. - 10/16/2007 1:46:53 PM   
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Tsk! Some people, eh? You're actually very glam and feminine, so don't sweat it for a nanosecond. Love the intimidating look, too!

(EDIT: To clarify, I was referring to the people who messaged you out of the blue, not the folk who've been offering their honest opinions in the thread.)


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RE: Need honest opinions please. - 10/16/2007 1:53:11 PM   
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the answere is quite simple. one can have what is it- around 20 pics.    in a way it bogles the mind- all this demands of being "real" when nothing is whim-ier then online.

do your shopping in person- things work better this way. not too many are going to give up the successful life they built to go elsewhere- and if they do- it likely was going to end- or never that great to start with.

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RE: Need honest opinions please. - 10/16/2007 3:03:51 PM   
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Well Thank you to everyone for your honest opinions. I appreciate the feedback. Like I said, it didnt bother me so much that a couple people thought that or were nasty, what bothered me was thinking there were perfectly nice folks out there that thought it ALSO. I will try to get a new camera and get a different pic up. Thanks again for the honesty and love and support!

(Now I just need to shrink myself, and get new hair..... J/K!)

M. Daisy

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RE: Need honest opinions please. - 10/16/2007 4:27:13 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MistressDaisy73

Since joining this site, 2 persons have said to me via email that they think I am a man in drag. a CD or Trans. Now, there is nothing wrong with any of those things, but I am NOT one. When the first person emailed me, unsolicited ( a supposed female, btw) I thought they were just being mean or something. But now, a person (a male sub) I contacted, has replied that they think I am a guy in some form. Well, I am certainly not going to argue the point. And, of course, two people out of hundred means hardly anything. I would like to know, though, if any of you who look at my picture think I look like a guy in some form. Really, please be honest. Is it because a slightly cleft chin is more rare in females? I can not think of any other feature that looks particularly masculine. What do you guys think?


Nope, you're very pretty.

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RE: Need honest opinions please. - 10/16/2007 4:40:48 PM   
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I think your pretty, if you let your hair down or had it styled you could look just as pretty as slaveelle if not prettier.
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RE: Need honest opinions please. - 10/16/2007 11:45:51 PM   
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i surely wouldn't lose sleep over the verbal diarrhea of 2 obviously immature ninnies. You're very lovely :)

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RE: Need honest opinions please. - 10/17/2007 12:05:10 AM   
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I am with abdi... 2 morons who were either being cruel, or just plain jackasses should not turn you off to being here. You look fine. I have a decently angular face, and God's own Duddley Doright chin from hell. The last time someone called me a dude, I just said yup.. and my cock is bigger then yours buddy. ( well it is.. I have an enormous strap on ) Those idiots who feel the need to go and waste peoples time by messaging nasty things to folks simply will not be persuaded by something so complex as well, logic, or the truth. Thier heads are too firmly wedged up thier bums. I am with the others.. updated picts go a long way to a good profile. I had a seriously crappy pict up for the longest of time.. I dont know why in the hell folks emailed me. *chuckles* Being a Domme that stern look is a good one. ( got one on my profile meself! ) I would also reconmend a regular smile type as well.

Most people are visual lil boogers.

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RE: Need honest opinions please. - 10/17/2007 12:07:02 AM   
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I would have to say that based on the one photo in your profile, I would judge you to be a guy in drag, an almost convincing guy in drag, but.

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RE: Need honest opinions please. - 10/17/2007 12:54:35 AM   
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Nah, you look girly to me. I know this sounds a lil crazy, but trannies often have really high arched eyebrows. Could it be that? I can't see it, but maybe? Other than that, I think you have a very strong face, but still feminine.

I nearly fell over when I found out that Lady Ellen wasn't born a female. To me she looks absolutely girly, the facial structure, the neckline, the lot. I would never have picked it.

It's either a massive compliment for Miss Ellen, or I'm just really crap at picking out female and male characteristics, in which case, this post was useless

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RE: Need honest opinions please. - 10/17/2007 1:01:53 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: MissMagnolia

Nah, you look girly to me. I know this sounds a lil crazy, but trannies often have really high arched eyebrows. Could it be that? I can't see it, but maybe? Other than that, I think you have a very strong face, but still feminine.

I nearly fell over when I found out that Lady Ellen wasn't born a female. To me she looks absolutely girly, the facial structure, the neckline, the lot. I would never have picked it.

It's either a massive compliment for Miss Ellen, or I'm just really crap at picking out female and male characteristics, in which case, this post was useless


dont feel bad i was also surprised by  ladyellen there and im pretty goodat picking that up lol.

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RE: Need honest opinions please. - 10/17/2007 4:21:58 AM   
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quote:

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Get rid of the jockstrap hanging on the books.

They're probable just fishing for some nudie pics of proof.

People tell me all the time that I look like a "thing", I just shrug it off.

chia* (the pet)


chia you don't have a picture posted other than the cm av and um...you are a green "thing",  plantish, pet........but very funny.  I oddly find myself attracted to this green plantish "thing" just from your posts.

You don't look like a man to me.  Even if  you were a CD, (shrug) who cares?  Tell em to kiss off and block them.
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RE: Need honest opinions please. - 10/17/2007 7:01:28 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: laurell3

quote:

ORIGINAL: chiaThePet

Get rid of the jockstrap hanging on the books.

They're probable just fishing for some nudie pics of proof.

People tell me all the time that I look like a "thing", I just shrug it off.

chia* (the pet)


chia you don't have a picture posted other than the cm av and um...you are a green "thing",  plantish, pet........but very funny.  I oddly find myself attracted to this green plantish "thing" just from your posts.
l


Well I figured I'd use an old wedding photo as my av, to best show how well
I cleaned up, but I'm considering extensive pruning and root implants. Extreme
makeover, "thing" edition, triumph or tragedy, to boldy go where no plant has
gone before, the most anticipated arrival since hamburger helper.

Awww, I've got a "thing" for you too Miss Laurell, (get your minds out of the
gutter) this pet is sufficiently stroked. (I said get your minds out of the gutter)
But if you give me a bigger head, (gutter....minds) I'll tip over and thus be
forced to top from the bottom, causing a worldwide tidal wave of forum
posts dissecting the postitions and protocols of submissives everywhere.

xxxo chia* (the pet)

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RE: Need honest opinions please. - 10/17/2007 11:40:06 AM   
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nope nope nope....I in no way feel that Daisy looks masculine....course Im biased cause she called me cute once...

Im usually pretty good at picking out the T types...probably has something to do with working for years in a gay bar that put on several drag queen shows a night...but Lady E..really...wow..Im just floored....

and chia..I could never imagine you as anything other than..well...thingish....grins...

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RE: Need honest opinions please. - 10/17/2007 1:40:44 PM   
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My opinion?

Does it truly matter to you what some random knucklefucker thinks?  Whether you're genetically female or not doesn't matter.  The only people whose business what bits you have between your leg ( or had )  may be are you,  your lover/sub/pet/whatever and your doctor.

Myself?  I refer to people as the gender they portray themselves.






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RE: Need honest opinions please. - 10/17/2007 2:22:50 PM   
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I go along with RazerJAK.

I'm a TS female, a big one (arguably the biggest on the CM fora) but I know who I am, so does my doctors, so do the people in my life, 98% of the rest of the world aren't really bothered, so who cares?

What you've got to accept is that some people's perception of other people is skewed.

I'm British, but I often get mistaken for being Russian or Eastern European, and somebody recently even mistook me recently for being from Pakistan.

It must be something they add to breakfast cereal.

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RE: Need honest opinions please. - 10/17/2007 5:25:57 PM   
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I don't think you look like you're in drag, but I can see how someone else might think that.  You have strong features, and as others have pointed out, your hair, eyebrows and chin could be contributing to a few people's confusion.  Maybe it's also the way your shoulders are set in the picture.  Because one shoulder is coming forward, it makes your shoulders look broad.  The red lipstick is also a little strong, and I might pick a softer color when you take some new photos.    

Okay, now I feel like a bitch.  But, really, I wouldn't have even considered the possibility of you being a man if you hadn't started this thread. 

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RE: Need honest opinions please. - 10/17/2007 10:45:29 PM   
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If I look  staight at it. You look fine but if I kinda get the thought that you maybe one I might try to make you look that way in my mind. You are what you are. To me you look good but what I say and how you percieve yourself are different.  Like others have said know who you are and be yourself. You look pretty female to me but that's because I see you as one but in this world we seem to try to be whatever we feel like we are. My thoughts on that is be yourself, and don't worry about the people who look at you weird because hell, I am over wieght. I am not in the best of health, and I am only 19(which people are supposed to be in good physical shape right? lol) but the thing that matters  is that I am me and I do the best I can for myself.

I see a lot of people here posting "your pretty" and while you look good, if you don't like yourself or let people bother you about such things, you will never realize your full potential as a human being.

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RE: Need honest opinions please. - 10/18/2007 12:37:55 AM   
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They want more pics involving tits or ....   You could provide the wank fodder or ignore the jerkoffs.  JMO.   M

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RE: Need honest opinions please. - 10/18/2007 4:30:49 AM   
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In my book, you're     { B e a u t i f u l!}
 
First thing I checked for after I saw your pic was is she a sub? Local?
 
Oops..lol...

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