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MasterR999 -> Hulimation (10/17/2007 12:47:44 AM)

I have just found a new slave who is really in hulimation and have come to a mental block so i was wondering what has been done and what people are you wanting to try




PryderiLoup -> RE: Hulimation (10/17/2007 3:16:58 AM)

Type BDSM Humiliation into google.

I really like making her do jumping jacks topless, beg like a puppy, little things that don't take a whole lot of prep. It really depends on the sub. I had one pontential tell me that crawling was the most humiliating thing she could imagine a dom could asking her to do. (Really, I don't think she had much imagination!)




LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Hulimation (10/17/2007 6:37:18 AM)

As I said yesterday on the same thread you started in Ask a Sub- if you have to go to an online forum to get ideas on humiliation, you have deeper problems than finding ideas on humiliation.




shellzbythesea -> RE: Hulimation (10/17/2007 6:49:58 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

As I said yesterday on the same thread you started in Ask a Sub- if you have to go to an online forum to get ideas on humiliation, you have deeper problems than finding ideas on humiliation.


i personally think the only stupid question is the one not asked.  A lot of us are new to the lifestyle than others.
 
Although i'm not a huge fan of humilition...i do often wonder what others get out of it.  i'll be reading this thread for insight into the minds of others.




IamJustMe2C -> RE: Hulimation (10/17/2007 7:12:28 AM)

I agree with shellybythe sea the only stupid question is the one not asked.   you have to find out what she find the most humilitating and play with that. For example the sub that hates to crawl. Well theres crawling in public or while you are dining or at the mall or movies or just out walking down town. It dosent have to be but a few feet its the fact that she did it and was humiliated for that time. My last sub loved to be humiliated and I found that she hated/loved when people watched her having sex or masterbated. that was a easy fix. she was humiliated all the time but nobody ever joined. In the end though you have to comunicate with her and find out what she hates/loves so she can feel the joy she desires 




Daddyskittin -> RE: Hulimation (10/17/2007 7:27:51 AM)

I honestly don't understand humiliation... I'm the chick that while standing in line to get into a club, and has to pee that will just squat down on the sidewalk... and then ask the closest total stranger to her if she can borrow their tongue because I've seem to forgotten my charmin.... lol and yes I've actually done that twice now... first time the doorman asked me and my group to leave lol... second time we were ushered in and a bouncer told me they figured they'd better let us in right away before I did anything else in line.

Back to the issue at hand... I'd have to say go with standard procedure.... Talk... talk... talk... talk and find out where exactly this blockage lies... devise a plan and set it in babystep motion.





Mercnbeth -> RE: Hulimation (10/17/2007 7:29:05 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterR999

I have just found a new slave who is really in hulimation and have come to a mental block so i was wondering what has been done and what people are you wanting to try

Don't know anything about 'Hulimation'.

However if you are referencing H-u-m-i-l-i-a-t-i-o-n...

Have her post the same question requesting wanking material in multiple threads and then have her read the replies out loud.




PryderiLoup -> RE: Hulimation (10/17/2007 8:21:45 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth

Don't know anything about 'Hulimation'.

However if you are referencing H-u-m-i-l-i-a-t-i-o-n...

Have her post the same question requesting wanking material in multiple threads and then have her read the replies out loud.



quote:

ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

As I said yesterday on the same thread you started in Ask a Sub- if you have to go to an online forum to get ideas on humiliation, you have deeper problems than finding ideas on humiliation.


Anyone see a problem here? I guess I need to put on my asbestos suit...

Look, this forum is for people to exchange ideas. It is for people to learn and grow. It is for new people, and experienced people to ask questions of each other.

I agree that there are a lot of wankers out there. But this guy only has 2 posts. Let's assume he is trying to learn, and not chase him off to do damage by being uninformed?

He paid the same amount as you for his membership.

Edit: And I know I probably spelled asbestos wrong.




Aileen68 -> RE: Hulimation (10/17/2007 8:30:06 AM)

It's against terms of service to start the same thread in multiple locations.




toservez -> RE: Hulimation (10/17/2007 8:42:32 AM)

People have already covered the spectrum of answers. How you phrase a thread is so critical to how you are going to get answers. Yeah it sucks people cannot get what everyone truly means what they write or do not go out of their way to believe the most positive thing possible but it is just called reality. ;)

People start topics all the time wanting specific examples and the fact is with no judgment people just do not go out and give lists. Whether out of not wanting to give wanking material or the question is too personal in nature to just flat out go writing it down people are obviously just not going to make lists for people.

Humiliation is a particular personal subject that would take a lot of words to describe something in the proper context. People are just not going to be motivated to share or put in the effort by just making a list because someone asks. We all have triggers that will get us to open up in detail about some things but for most just asking for examples will just not get it done.




RRafe -> RE: Hulimation (10/17/2007 8:47:03 AM)

And frankly,if I post an idea-it's only my idea. And may not work for your situation at all. You really need to do your own work.




mnottertail -> RE: Hulimation (10/17/2007 9:39:56 AM)

try felching or hulmination




Mercnbeth -> RE: Hulimation (10/17/2007 9:48:03 AM)

quote:

Anyone see a problem here? I guess I need to put on my asbestos suit...

Look, this forum is for people to exchange ideas. It is for people to learn and grow. It is for new people, and experienced people to ask questions of each other.
I agree that there are a lot of wankers out there. But this guy only has 2 posts. Let's assume he is trying to learn, and not chase him off to do damage by being uninformed?

He paid the same amount as you for his membership.

Edit: And I know I probably spelled asbestos wrong.

Pryder,
You thought my response was humiliating? The request for for examples and I was just trying to help. I expected thanks! Well just goes to show, you can't please some people by trying.

PS - Asbestos was spelled perfectly! Good Job!




HypnoticDan -> RE: Hulimation (10/17/2007 12:39:47 PM)

Buy her a telescope.  Oh, sorry, I thought you said Culmination.




PryderiLoup -> RE: Hulimation (10/17/2007 12:54:38 PM)

quote:

PS - Asbestos was spelled perfectly! Good Job!


LMAO, Here is my thanks!





LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Hulimation (10/17/2007 3:56:54 PM)

Asking to discuss a concept and how it works in a relationship is one thing.

Asking for us to do his homework on something so unique and individual shows either a fascinating level of laziness, and/or a complete lack of understanding of the dynamic completely in which case actually GIVING ideas could be fairly negligent.




PryderiLoup -> RE: Hulimation (10/17/2007 6:15:01 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

Asking to discuss a concept and how it works in a relationship is one thing.

Asking for us to do his homework on something so unique and individual shows either a fascinating level of laziness, and/or a complete lack of understanding of the dynamic completely in which case actually GIVING ideas could be fairly negligent.


I see your point, Lucky. And while I think it is a bit "worst case scenerio" (the negligent part) I also think we can scare people away pretty easily.

By the way, I read your profile and I am willing to bet you find a lot of things fascinating. (That is meant as a compliment, not a flame)




ManOfAdventures -> RE: Hulimation (10/17/2007 7:51:34 PM)

Are you talking public or private? One of the most outragous things I''ve seen done was giving a woman a facial and then havng her walk down the street / get food from a drive through / pay for gas at a gas station, etc. This one even makes porn stars blush...




laurell3 -> RE: Hulimation (10/17/2007 7:56:56 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: PryderiLoup

quote:

ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth

Don't know anything about 'Hulimation'.

However if you are referencing H-u-m-i-l-i-a-t-i-o-n...

Have her post the same question requesting wanking material in multiple threads and then have her read the replies out loud.



quote:

ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

As I said yesterday on the same thread you started in Ask a Sub- if you have to go to an online forum to get ideas on humiliation, you have deeper problems than finding ideas on humiliation.


Anyone see a problem here? I guess I need to put on my asbestos suit...

Look, this forum is for people to exchange ideas. It is for people to learn and grow. It is for new people, and experienced people to ask questions of each other.

I agree that there are a lot of wankers out there. But this guy only has 2 posts. Let's assume he is trying to learn, and not chase him off to do damage by being uninformed?

He paid the same amount as you for his membership.

Edit: And I know I probably spelled asbestos wrong.



Actually I think he gave a good example of humiliation [8D]

There's a ton of websites that give various examples and stories about humiliation, personally I'm not into it that much so I can't be much help.  I have found that it varies extremely for each individual.  I've had some tell me wearing a collar, kneeling or crawling are humiliating, to me that's just plain hot.




SmokingGun82 -> RE: Hulimation (10/17/2007 9:49:49 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: shellzbythesea

i personally think the only stupid question is the one not asked. 


You obviously haven't heard the same questions I have. There is definitely such a thing as a stupid question.




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