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A note to the subs - 7/30/2005 10:32:27 AM

Superman42280

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It seems I've really upset people with the number of posts I've made so just a quick note that I'm sorry and in order to preserve the chance of being great friends with you all, I'll seriously pull back the number of threads that I start.

Thanks,

Superman

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RE: A note to the subs - 7/30/2005 11:11:24 AM

RosaB

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Superman,

Rosa <-----not sub, but, even though the postings were a bit over the top, some of us on the site know you meant well. You could have been a jerk and said some not so nice things in response to some of those that are calling the kettle black, if you know what I mean. You're a true gentleman, never loose that wonderful curious mind of yours.

Rosa

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RE: A note to the subs - 7/30/2005 11:17:23 AM

darkinshadows

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I agree with Rosa - you could have come back at people who have poked a little at your questions but you haven't and that shows alot of restraint(excuse the pun)

If I could offer a little advise - accept if you want - I know how hard it can be starting out... there is an intense urge to want to know the answer to everything - and the best ways is either via experience or from others perceptions. But sometimes it takes a huge step to slow down. Your questions are valid - but maybe ask a couple, then wait until the threads subside a bit so you can take in the replies of a few, and have more to ask... just a thought.

Peace and Love

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RE: A note to the subs - 7/30/2005 11:20:40 AM

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No doubt -- thanks for the great responses.

Bless you both.

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RE: A note to the subs - 7/30/2005 11:36:41 AM

greenie

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I agree that you probably did mean well and I hope that you truly did take all the "slow down" responses as constructive criticism and not as personal jabs at you.

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RE: A note to the subs - 7/30/2005 11:59:40 AM

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It's all good.

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RE: A note to the subs - 7/30/2005 12:54:30 PM

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In the spirit of constructive feedback, I will say that I was not sure whether you were asking these questions because you wanted information about BDSM in general, or to get people to respond with hot, horny, personal stories for your own enjoment.

For me, there is a huge difference between strangers asking me about sex and BDSM in general, and strangers asking me about my personal affairs and experiences.

I have no objection to people wanting to get some kicks that way, and many people enjoy sharing with strangers...which is why I felt no need to flame you about it. My choice in general was just not to participate in what felt to me like a game of truth or dare.

I believe you show great integrity in posting this, and looking for feedback. That shows courage and maturity. Keep striving to learn, curiousity and knowledge are wonderful things!

Cin

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RE: A note to the subs - 7/30/2005 1:03:55 PM

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I don't think your post are all that annoying. You just seem a little to happy or excited to be here. As if you are a puppy who just got bought and placed in the house. You just need to chill every now and then. Think about controll, reserve, and calmness. That will keep us from stocking up on Criptonite. After all, you can't be a dominant if you can't dominate yourself.

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RE: A note to the subs - 7/30/2005 2:43:57 PM

perfection20005

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I wouldn't stop asking Superman, just take your time. Try to go back over the previous threads, and make sure you're not repeating the same things. Don't let a few people get you down.

perfection

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RE: A note to the subs - 7/30/2005 3:48:07 PM

Superman42280

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thanks for all the wonderful responses and constructive feedback ;-)

means a lot ;-)

Superman

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RE: A note to the subs - 7/30/2005 3:51:42 PM

Vancouver_cinful

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You're welcome. I think you are going to do well in this lifestyle. Curiousity and manners...nice qualities in a dominant...or a submissive...or any human being for that manner. ::laughing::

Cin

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RE: A note to the subs - 7/30/2005 4:10:42 PM

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:)

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RE: A note to the subs - 7/30/2005 9:39:04 PM

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Ill dis-continue the constructive feedback as im one of the people that have gave my opinions in your posts.

Alot your posts seem to be about doing sexual deeds which if your new to the net makes people think your just after sexual thrills. You will dis-agree but to the people thats been around forumns etc for ahwile it is what it appears to be.

Also seems to me and mabe others your too lazy to search profiles so you just post these things so people come to you.

Stop asking these types of questions for a while or not as many and people will starting replying more to your threads with decent comments.

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RE: A note to the subs - 7/31/2005 6:26:19 AM

caitlyn

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Well, you can't do that Chris ... because you ask lots of questions some of us want to hear the answer to, but don't have the guts to post ... and take the backlash.

You are doing a public service.

Anyone that has read your profile probably knows where you are coming from.

New people have just as much right here as anyone else.

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RE: A note to the subs - 7/31/2005 8:08:03 AM

RiotGirl

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i wouldnt worry about it

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RE: A note to the subs - 7/31/2005 10:33:57 AM

KarbonCopy

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I just find it strange that you can keep it up. lol

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RE: A note to the subs - 7/31/2005 1:35:05 PM

Superman42280

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Thanks for the great comments ;-)

I'll still post what I'd like to know -- just won't do it all at once so the board gets cluttered. I'll space them out a bit ;-)

Who here would say they've been actually *helped* by my posts?

;-)

Superman aka Chris

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RE: A note to the subs - 7/31/2005 7:25:47 PM

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ORIGINAL: Superman42280

Who here would say they've been actually *helped* by my posts?

;-)

Superman aka Chris

I don't know if it was helpful, but sometimes is really nice to reply to posts as simple as yours. Specially when english is not my first language and it's impossible to me to talk about politics, law issues, munches, cyber relationships, scene parties, harem jelousy, and so many other things I can't experience, because I live in the southern catholic hemisfere of the world.

So...thanks to you from my part.

What makes me kinda mad is the fact that you are new to the site, and "twisted" already. I've been here a while and I'm still "kinky"!

< Message edited by gretchen -- 7/31/2005 7:28:17 PM >

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RE: A note to the subs - 7/31/2005 7:37:02 PM

fastlane

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you keep apologizing, but you keep doing it?

Personally, I think your fucking with us and I don't like it!

I do hope I'm wrong.

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RE: A note to the subs - 7/31/2005 7:46:32 PM

KarbonCopy

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He's superman, here to save us from misinformation!

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