Is there jealousy among some submissives/slaves?

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EbonyPhoenix68 -> Is there jealousy among some submissives/slaves? (10/18/2007 9:34:48 AM)
As I type this post, I was reading a journal entry from a BBW submissive who was being given a hard time by another sub who was disgusted by her profile picture and criticized her for that reason. After reading this wench's profile, I'm inclined to believe, in my humble observation, that she is full of herself and feels a need to put someone else down to build herself up. That said, I really have to wonder:Is there jealousy among some submissives/slaves?

stef -> RE: Is there jealousy among some submissives/slaves? (10/18/2007 9:40:02 AM)
Submissives and slaves are just people and people can get jealous. This shouldn't be a news flash. ~stef

toservez -> RE: Is there jealousy among some submissives/slaves? (10/18/2007 9:51:09 AM)
As stef wrote we are all human beings and jealously is going to be an issue for a percentage of people regardless of gender or roles. A message board is no different then the real world and people will bring their issues with them. For some jealously/insecurity manifests in needing to feel better then others and to broadcast it in a public manner. Whether it is a person they actually feel superior to or a person they feel lesser to in their own dysfunctional brain and feel the need to try to take down who knows and who cares.

RRafe -> RE: Is there jealousy among some submissives/slaves? (10/18/2007 9:52:19 AM)
Jealousy stems from fear and insecurity.

chellekitty -> RE: Is there jealousy among some submissives/slaves? (10/18/2007 10:00:09 AM)
the only time i feel jealous anymore (this is after a lot of growing and growing up...) is when i am insecure in my relationship and scared i am going to be replaced....most recently and unfortunately in more than one relationship, the activating action is a submissive-outside-the-relationship's, sexual and intimacy needs are being met before mine are... socially...do i get jealous of other submissives? not anymore, i have enough self confidence that i don't worry about anything like that...there are other fear based emotions i go through...but jealousy is not amongst them.... chelle

meticulousgirl -> RE: Is there jealousy among some submissives/slaves? (10/18/2007 10:04:25 AM)
of course it happens but that's why communication is so important. ~meticulous~

came4U -> RE: Is there jealousy among some submissives/slaves? (10/18/2007 10:07:12 AM)
quote: I was reading a journal entry from a BBW submissive who was being given a hard time by another sub who was disgusted by her profile picture and criticized her for that reason. In public? I assume it was an email?? I don't see that person as being jealous, I see that as just plain outright rude to write someone outright to insult them. Rude and classless is a person who initiates that kind of email.

Mercnbeth -> RE: Is there jealousy among some submissives/slaves? (10/18/2007 10:53:41 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: EbonyPhoenix68 ...Is there jealousy among some submissives/slaves? yes...and there are Doms/Masters who have cocks that get all hard over it, too...at least mentally, if not literally (gasp!) perpetuating jealousy is part of emotional masochism/Sadism---it exists and cause many great joy. for some...inducing or experiencing emotional suffering/misery IS a part of their happiness.

came4U -> RE: Is there jealousy among some submissives/slaves? (10/18/2007 11:00:55 AM)
quote: and there are Doms/Masters who have cocks that get all hard over it oh oh their Masters/Doms or men that just want to see catfights? or both? lol i now want to get that imagine out of my head aaaaak

chellekitty -> RE: Is there jealousy among some submissives/slaves? (10/18/2007 11:12:04 AM)
i just wanna see hard cocks.....damn....

came4U -> RE: Is there jealousy among some submissives/slaves? (10/18/2007 11:30:02 AM)
is it old cock? cuz thattts hawt. [sm=brush.gif]

DiurnalVampire -> RE: Is there jealousy among some submissives/slaves? (10/18/2007 11:34:03 AM)
While I do have an answer to your question from the OP, I am a little confused as to where it comes from. Nothing you said about the inspiration for your question lead me to think of jealousy. Rudeness and egos, yes, but not jealousy. There is always jealousy when you are dealing with people. I have 2 boys, and to an extent there is a little jealousy between them. It isnt an unnatural amount, and it doesnt get in the way, but it exists and Id be stupid not to think it was there. Its human nature. DV

xoxi -> RE: Is there jealousy among some submissives/slaves? (10/18/2007 1:23:08 PM)
Of course not. I don't know about the rest of you all but my master trained me to be parfait [8D] (don't you just love the newfound modesty he instilled as well?)

KnightofMists -> RE: Is there jealousy among some submissives/slaves? (10/18/2007 3:00:51 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: RRafe Jealousy stems from fear and insecurity. agree! However, The fear and insecurity maybe be externally or internally caused. Second... the fear and insecurity maybe illusionary and unjustified or could be very real and justified feelings.

SirEbonyPhoenix -> RE: Is there jealousy among some submissives/slaves? (10/18/2007 3:06:08 PM)
You make some very valid points, though I would like to say that it was not from a message board thread, but rather, an e-mail. :)

MrDiscipline44 -> RE: Is there jealousy among some submissives/slaves? (10/18/2007 3:10:04 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: xoxi Of course not. I don't know about the rest of you all but my master trained me to be parfait [8D] (don't you just love the newfound modesty he instilled as well?) He trained you to be a dessert of ice cream and fruit or ice cream and syrup in alternate layers, often topped with whipped cream and served in a tall, narrow, short-stemmed glass. Kewl.

SirEbonyPhoenix -> RE: Is there jealousy among some submissives/slaves? (10/18/2007 3:12:16 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth quote: ORIGINAL: EbonyPhoenix68 ...Is there jealousy among some submissives/slaves? yes...and there are Doms/Masters who have cocks that get all hard over it, too...at least mentally, if not literally (gasp!) perpetuating jealousy is part of emotional masochism/Sadism---it exists and cause many great joy. for some...inducing or experiencing emotional suffering/misery IS a part of their happiness. LMAO Since when does a Dom's/Master's cock have anything to do with jealousy? Oh, my bad, we're talking about jealous subs/slaves, not about anatomy! LMAO

xoxi -> RE: Is there jealousy among some submissives/slaves? (10/18/2007 8:47:43 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MrDiscipline44 quote: ORIGINAL: xoxi Of course not. I don't know about the rest of you all but my master trained me to be parfait [8D] (don't you just love the newfound modesty he instilled as well?) He trained you to be a dessert of ice cream and fruit or ice cream and syrup in alternate layers, often topped with whipped cream and served in a tall, narrow, short-stemmed glass. Kewl. Yes. Yes he did. I am both delicious and sweet [:D]

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Is there jealousy among some submissives/slaves? (10/18/2007 10:27:32 PM)
It's most fun when you're told "you're just jealous!" when you tell someone they might be going too fast in their relationship. I tend to make the most money on those bets.

iammachine -> RE: Is there jealousy among some submissives/slaves? (10/18/2007 11:49:31 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: EbonyPhoenix68 As I type this post, I was reading a journal entry from a BBW submissive who was being given a hard time by another sub who was disgusted by her profile picture and criticized her for that reason. After reading this wench's profile, I'm inclined to believe, in my humble observation, that she is full of herself and feels a need to put someone else down to build herself up. That said, I really have to wonder:Is there jealousy among some submissives/slaves? Silly, petty, humans. [;)] Are subs human? Then yes, they experience jealousy, just like any human. Jealous or not, though, some people are just asshats.

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