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RE: Best Way To Spot A Submissive - 8/1/2005 7:51:29 AM   
MrThorns


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ORIGINAL: tetheredkitty

I guess I'm a switch...but I'd rather sub. If I'm going to dom, I'd rather it be with a female than a male.


This is a lot like smilezz. She is extremely dominant with sadistic tendencies, but only towards other women. She is confident and arrogant at times, but she is not a switch.

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RE: Best Way To Spot A Submissive - 8/1/2005 1:14:34 PM   
HalloweenWhite


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ORIGINAL: Padriag

ROFLMAO!!! Thanks, I needed to laugh this hard.

Personally I just ask to see their official Submissives Union Card.


Semi-seriously, I forget where I read it but I seem to recall someone saying they could easily spot whether someone was dominant or submissive buy telling them to sit down on the couch. If they sat down right away they were submissive... if they hesitated for a moment and thought about it, they were dominant.



I read that in either "S/M 101" or "The loving Dominant".There again it could have been in "Screw the roses,send Me the thorns".Cant remember.

HalloweenWhite.

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RE: Best Way To Spot A Submissive - 8/1/2005 1:32:58 PM   
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I don't know about the rest of you subs out there, but I used to get nervous and clumsy around certain men. I have discovered that these were usually Dominant men... you know, the ones that when they look you in the eye... you look down..., away...., picking up on that Dominant trait. yum!...

I have been told that I was recognized as sub, a few times, by men I thought were vanilla...turns out they wern't!

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RE: Best Way To Spot A Submissive - 8/1/2005 1:39:07 PM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		this is in concert with you felineone.

In the old days when you had to go out and about to get your own, to press the flesh so to speak, rather than type your way into a mind and heart, this is the exact behavior that I used to call 'bumping 'em up a couple times' to find one.

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RE: Best Way To Spot A Submissive - 8/1/2005 1:49:21 PM   
Fawne


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I get the same way. Goofy! Glad to hear I'm not alone :)

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RE: Best Way To Spot A Submissive - 8/1/2005 1:55:54 PM   
sultryvoice


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Status: offline 		I have had very few say to me that I am submissive.. I always get the answer to I am submissive with No way..you are a Domme or at least a switch..I am a switch that prefers her submissive side. That is how I am and want to be..but I can go "Dom" in no time flat if pushed...lol!!! Then I suggest you leave fast!

I am not going to be sarcastic..I am not going to be sarcastic....at least not here!

Respectfully,
sultry

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RE: Best Way To Spot A Submissive - 8/2/2005 5:22:46 AM   
dommemagnet


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RE: Best Way To Spot A Submissive - 8/2/2005 11:45:52 AM   
Alexander


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Status: offline 		Proceed from the idea that all women are submissive in some degree. (accepting that some are submissive to such a tiny degree they dominate others.) Find some one you like and push her to where you want her regardless of how she "sees herself" If you're dominant you will be pushing her limits all the time anyway. They don't decide. You decide. Keep in mind, even deeply submissive women sometimes just wont like you.

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RE: Best Way To Spot A Submissive - 8/3/2005 3:02:12 AM   
DublinSwitch


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ORIGINAL: Alexander

Proceed from the idea that all women are submissive in some degree. (accepting that some are submissive to such a tiny degree they dominate others.) Find some one you like and push her to where you want her regardless of how she "sees herself" If you're dominant you will be pushing her limits all the time anyway. They don't decide. You decide. Keep in mind, even deeply submissive women sometimes just wont like you.



errr - well now all you Dommes know that you are really submissive, please form an orderly queue at the end of my flogger so's I can start pushing you to where I want you to be...

And what's this 'deeply submissive women sometimes just won't like you'? Every woman luuurves me, you must be doing something wrong.

Cheers

DS

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RE: Best Way To Spot A Submissive - 8/3/2005 3:18:52 AM   
Padriag


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Every woman luuurves me, you must be doing something wrong.

Ah, but that's just your natural Irish charm you see, the lasses can't get enough of it you know.

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RE: Best Way To Spot A Submissive - 8/3/2005 5:18:22 AM   
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Status: offline 		i am usualy polite, and act rather shy, this i guess i more becouse i am raised to be polite, and i am nervous around strangers and hate conflicts. If somone told me sit down or get me that or that, i would do it, but if that is becouse i am submissive, or if it is becouse i hate conflict, and am unsure of pepole, i do not know.

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RE: Best Way To Spot A Submissive - 8/3/2005 11:57:28 AM   
kittinSol


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Status: offline 		Your question made me recall the times when I would literally act up, just in the hope I might get the THREAT of a spanking! Now, of course, things are quite different for me, as I have discovered the full scale of my subbie power.

Spot the one that is thought-provoking, brattish, arrogant and sassy. That one is the untouched submissive that needs to be taken out of her/himself by YOU, SuperDom lol. You will turn that person into a thoughtful, devoted and loving subbie.

Good luck!

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RE: Best Way To Spot A Submissive - 8/3/2005 12:03:20 PM   
kittinSol


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< Message edited by kittinSol -- 8/3/2005 12:04:03 PM >

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RE: Best Way To Spot A Submissive - 8/3/2005 1:27:55 PM   
MstrHellsFury


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Status: offline 		I've waited several days before saying this...I'm getting up from the floor now...I do believe it's time to find my ass as I'm sure it's been laughed off and rolling around here somewhere...

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RE: Best Way To Spot A Submissive - 8/3/2005 10:53:02 PM   
kc692


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ORIGINAL: Alexander

Proceed from the idea that all women are submissive in some degree. (accepting that some are submissive to such a tiny degree they dominate others.) Find some one you like and push her to where you want her regardless of how she "sees herself" If you're dominant you will be pushing her limits all the time anyway. They don't decide. You decide. Keep in mind, even deeply submissive women sometimes just wont like you.


Proceed from that idea, and see how far it gets you with some...I would not think that would be a recommended course of action.

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RE: Best Way To Spot A Submissive - 8/4/2005 3:21:58 AM   
nella


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Status: offline 		No I have a feeling that kind of action could esaly get you a slap across the face, or a lawsuit Alexsander.

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RE: Best Way To Spot A Submissive - 8/4/2005 8:01:25 AM   
Carameldomme


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Status: offline 		How to spot a Domme..how bout looking for flogger earrings or a dickwhip hanging from her purse or waist?

Seriously.. I think it would just be a lot easier if we all committed to wearing these subtle signals of our positions...Who's coming with me?

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RE: Best Way To Spot A Submissive - 8/4/2005 8:06:15 AM   
domm4subf1970


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Status: offline 		Her eyes will tell you alot and so will body movement.

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RE: Best Way To Spot A Submissive - 8/5/2005 8:23:41 AM   
wbgbipolycpl


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Status: offline 		I so do not agree that you can't tell. If a Dom looks a (unknown) sub in the eyes, and when they look away, and the first motion of their eyes is down, then you are dealing - unequivocally - with a sub. If when they look away they look left or right or up, they could be anything, including bored vanilla; but if they look down first... Clear give away.

(Just my experience, your mileage may vary.)



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RE: Best Way To Spot A Submissive - 8/5/2005 12:57:19 PM   
zaynab


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Status: offline 		When I meet what I suspect is a Dom type man... my eyes meet his often and then I look away or look down.... I also smile at him a lot.... if we're talking and I laugh, I playfully and lightly smack him on the arm... kinda like how I did to dominmd in a different thread a few days ago... heh....

I didn't realize this was my submissive "come hither" signal, until after my past Dom's realized it themselves and forbid me to touch anyone else... ever. Interesting that by knowing me and observing me with outsiders, that they were able to translate what I was doing, when I myself didn't even realize it.

After they told me... I paid attention to it. When a few Doms pointed out exactly the same thing, I believed it.

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