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Stupid Sissy at Work - 10/19/2007 9:34:31 AM

DiannaVesta

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This is an actual conversation with a guy that called me. He's at work and tells me he's dressed. He then transfers me to a co-worker. Its really funny.

And for legal reasons - Yes I do have a special line people call and know they are being recorded when they call. Not all my calls are recorded. Only this line that is used for interviews and conversations. If you'd like to talk to me just email me here.

I have listened to this over and over trying to figure out if he just changed his voice when he claims he transferred me over to a co-worker. I can seem to figure this one out. maybe you can tell.

http://www.diannavesta.com/2007/10/19/podcast-conversation-sissy-calling-from-work/

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RE: Stupid Sissy at Work - 10/19/2007 10:44:21 AM

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That he might have changed his voice seems possible. I hope he did because otherwise I think what happened is uncool. The supposed colleague did not seem to be offended but I think it is inappropriate to involve colleagues or call colleagues to offer a blow job, and I think what he did hurts the broader image of BDSM. If he did indeed transfer the call to a colleague it is unwise for I think he puts his job at risk even if he works for a third party.

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RE: Stupid Sissy at Work - 10/19/2007 10:53:41 AM

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That he might have changed his voice seems possible. I hope he did because otherwise I think what happened is uncool. The supposed colleague did not seem to be offended but I think it is inappropriate to involve colleagues or call colleagues to offer a blow job, and I think what he did hurts the broader image of BDSM. If he did indeed transfer the call to a colleague it is unwise for I think he puts his job at risk even if he works for a third party.

Cheers,

Sea

Oh come on! They're all adults and as the coworker stated they know all about him. I think its him changing his voice but even if its not I still think its damn funny. I've heard far worse prank calls.

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RE: Stupid Sissy at Work - 10/19/2007 11:06:46 AM

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Yeah, I'm voting voice-alterring.... The voices were quite similar and conversationally the first thing that struck me was that the "co-worker" didn't know who would do such a thing at first, then within the next minute or so admits that this supposed first person has a past of this at work that he knows about. Other similar slips here and there by the "co-worker" and the "first guy" where just one might not mean anything, but added up...

On a different angle of voice: Dianna! You sound so different than what I'd expected! haha!

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RE: Stupid Sissy at Work - 10/19/2007 11:24:26 AM

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ORIGINAL: RumpusParable

Yeah, I'm voting voice-alterring.... The voices were quite similar and conversationally the first thing that struck me was that the "co-worker" didn't know who would do such a thing at first, then within the next minute or so admits that this supposed first person has a past of this at work that he knows about. Other similar slips here and there by the "co-worker" and the "first guy" where just one might not mean anything, but added up...

On a different angle of voice: Dianna! You sound so different than what I'd expected! haha!

Different? How should I sound? On that same site is a mp3 podcast interview of me as well as others. You should let me do one with you.

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RE: Stupid Sissy at Work - 10/19/2007 11:41:43 AM

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I am curious how you would feel if you were at work at a company and a male colleague called and offered oral sex to you? Regardless of how you feel, I imagine most people would find the proposition inappropriate.

A call about BDSM related fun is not inappropriate to you because you are comfortable with BDSM. I am trying to imagine how a third party might feel by imagining what if someone called me to joke about an activity with which I am not comfortable (chidren, etc). In this case the colleague did not seem offended. However, I think he was not given a choice had it been offensive to him. The world will not end but I think it is respectful and courteous to others to not spring upon them our private lives and include them on humiliation play for the benefit of the two engaging in the humiliation play. Everybody has their own comfort zone with such matters and I am describing that mine.

I think the behavior by the man in question is inappropriate at a work place. It is not so much a prank as sexual play. Even if it appears as a prank to third parties, this behavior is grounds for trouble and termination. Can you imagine reading a story about such a conversation in the paper where the receptionist was a woman? While I am not personally offended by content of the discussion, I think most employers and most vanilla people would treat it as grounds for sexual harrassment and termination. Regardless of our own boundaries, I think it is wise to be practical and be respectful of boundaries of others.

Coming out in a positive way helps the overall image of BDSM, like it did for homosexuality. In my opinion, his behavior undermines such an effect.

I suppose the humor value I see in this call is outweighed by what I consider risks to the man, and intrusions upon his colleagues. Between the three of you, it would be easiest for you to see the humor because you are free of those risks and intrusions.

Cheers,

Sea

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RE: Stupid Sissy at Work - 10/19/2007 12:14:38 PM

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Work is a place you should not have to be subject to overt sexuality, sexual advances from co-workers or being nonconsensually involved in other people's sexual expression. The workplace is for work.

Some groups of co-workers do end up coming to a level of understanding where none of them are made uncomfortable by jokes, innuendo or sexual sharing. Which is fine, but tensions can occur and a workplace environment can become really unpleasant if a new person is introduced into the existing dynamic and they aren't okay with it.

This isn't a really appropriate thing to involve your co-worker in, especially not on company time. If I was the boss I would fire or at least seriously reprimand both of them, and then tell them where the local BDSM play parties were so they could enjoy these activities freely with consenting partners in an appropriate time and place. Work is not that place. Unless you're working in the adult industry, you are being paid for keeping your attention on activities other than kink and behaving in an appropriate professional manner (at least where other people can see) in your workplace. It's no more appropriate to bother your co-workers with your kink than it is to jack off in the middle of the office.

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RE: Stupid Sissy at Work - 10/19/2007 12:42:09 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: DiannaVesta

quote:

ORIGINAL: RumpusParable

Yeah, I'm voting voice-alterring.... The voices were quite similar and conversationally the first thing that struck me was that the "co-worker" didn't know who would do such a thing at first, then within the next minute or so admits that this supposed first person has a past of this at work that he knows about. Other similar slips here and there by the "co-worker" and the "first guy" where just one might not mean anything, but added up...

On a different angle of voice: Dianna! You sound so different than what I'd expected! haha!

Different? How should I sound? On that same site is a mp3 podcast interview of me as well as others. You should let me do one with you.

It seems I've always just "heard" your voice a slight bit lower and at a different pacing, is all.

I'd be willing, but I do have to laugh at the idea of what my own voice sounds like... well, admittedly it varies greatly by situation, but I'm thinking of my chatty tone that would likely be natural in our speaking together for me. I'm a bit nasal and young sounding haha.

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RE: Stupid Sissy at Work - 10/19/2007 12:59:50 PM

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Not to pile on here...

but I have to agree with undergroundsea on this one.

If someone is at work, they are usually using somebody else's telephone and somebody else's time.
And then there's the complication that the employer himself/herself is legally responsible for the working environment at their jobsite.

When things go wrong employees only get fired... bosses get sued.
I certainly don't think that DiannaVesta is at fault. It's was just a bit thoughtless of the caller.

LAsub

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RE: Stupid Sissy at Work - 10/19/2007 2:02:52 PM

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Look everyone... I have no doubt (if you listen closely) that its the same guy. I just thought it was funny & thought you'd all get a kick out of it.

RumpusParable drop me a line. We'd have a great time.

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RE: Stupid Sissy at Work - 10/19/2007 5:48:55 PM

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It's absolutely the same guy. I used to do voiceover work, and there are a lot of similar patterns in his voice once he gets over the first 30-45 seconds of trying to sound "butch" -- when you ask "can you transfer me back to him" and he says "I caaannn...what did he tell you" - he has the upward voice pattern as caller #1. There's several other parts where he does the same thing: the word "sometimes", the way he trails off on "we leave things on his desk...".

And it's total BS that you can't fire a third-party contractor.

Same guy. Very funny.

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RE: Stupid Sissy at Work - 10/19/2007 6:22:37 PM

DiannaVesta

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ORIGINAL: LaMistressa

It's absolutely the same guy. I used to do voiceover work, and there are a lot of similar patterns in his voice once he gets over the first 30-45 seconds of trying to sound "butch" -- when you ask "can you transfer me back to him" and he says "I caaannn...what did he tell you" - he has the upward voice pattern as caller #1. There's several other parts where he does the same thing: the word "sometimes", the way he trails off on "we leave things on his desk...".

And it's total BS that you can't fire a third-party contractor.

Same guy. Very funny.

Yeah I think so too. Still very funny stuff

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RE: Stupid Sissy at Work - 10/19/2007 6:36:44 PM

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Listening to it now. I can't really tell the difference. (though have to say I liked his "co-worker" voice alot better. the 1st one sounds so whiny.) blah

This is pretty funny, thanks for sharing.

BTW, you have a very sexy voice, Dianna.

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RE: Stupid Sissy at Work - 10/20/2007 4:14:50 AM

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MsDianna's voice is very sultry and sexy. I have been listening over and over......

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RE: Stupid Sissy at Work - 10/20/2007 7:34:10 AM

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ORIGINAL: DiannaVesta

Look everyone... I have no doubt (if you listen closely) that its the same guy. I just thought it was funny & thought you'd all get a kick out of it.

RumpusParable drop me a line. We'd have a great time.

Will do some time! :)

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RE: Stupid Sissy at Work - 10/20/2007 7:47:12 AM

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ORIGINAL: LadyLynx

Listening to it now. I can't really tell the difference. (though have to say I liked his "co-worker" voice alot better. the 1st one sounds so whiny.) blah

This is pretty funny, thanks for sharing.

BTW, you have a very sexy voice, Dianna.

Oh thank you! Its not my best one. When he called I knew right away who he was because he's called before. It took a little while to get dialed in. I love my job, trust me. Sure I get some dick weeds but I also have a lot of fun. Its amazing what I can make a man on the other side of the world do for me AND get paid! Oh yeah

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RE: Stupid Sissy at Work - 10/20/2007 7:50:55 AM

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ORIGINAL: frz411

MsDianna's voice is very sultry and sexy. I have been listening over and over......

Well I hope you at least downloaded it and not playing it over and over from my server! lol- Be careful because it will lock your IP and prevent you from the site requesting the same file over and over. Its best to download audios you think you want to listen to again.

Tomorrow I am doing an interview with a man that is a lifestyle masochist that will share some of the spiritual elements of a male offering his body to his Domina. It won’t be live. I can’t seem to get that one going but it will be podcast at Femsupreme under conversations or interviews.

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