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RE: Do you take subs under your protection? - 10/21/2007 8:04:19 PM

AllforFun

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Ermmmm... never encountered this before.

I have always thought that a male sub should offer protection to his Mistress. This has always been my belief anyway. I think I was asked by a Domme one time that were she attacked, would I expect her to defend me and of course I told her no. In fact, I told her I would most likely defend her.(once we met she realized that I was more than capable of it too, lol)

Anyway, I think this guy is emotionally insecure and needs to lay his kink aside for awhile and do some real soul searching.

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RE: Do you take subs under your protection? - 10/21/2007 9:01:24 PM

LadyHibiscus

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ORIGINAL: AllforFun

Ermmmm... never encountered this before.

I have always thought that a male sub should offer protection to his Mistress. This has always been my belief anyway. I think I was asked by a Domme one time that were she attacked, would I expect her to defend me and of course I told her no. In fact, I told her I would most likely defend her.(once we met she realized that I was more than capable of it too, lol)

Anyway, I think this guy is emotionally insecure and needs to lay his kink aside for awhile and do some real soul searching.

I think we are going less for "bodyguard" and more for the moral support kind of protection. And I would just go to protect my own sub automatically, just because it's how I am, though BONUS if he is bigger and faster!

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RE: Do you take subs under your protection? - 10/22/2007 2:09:11 PM

MistressFaye1

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Maam Jay,

To Me, You hit it on the head, for that is what I find Myself doing also. Too many have been lead down the wrong path and are clueless. I'd like to think My willingness to help others explore themselves, in a non-harmful way, leads to more balanced submissives, that clearly understand and accept who they are.

I applaud You!

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RE: Do you take subs under your protection? - 10/22/2007 3:02:02 PM

MistresssAria

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I have a good female friend who is submissive and is also a cutter, so she has found a couple very abusive Doms. I've done my best to offer her help in finding her a Dom, screening him, meeting him in public, interviewing him, calling her when she's alone with him for safety, etc.........but unfortunately, she won't let me help. She's doing better nonw at least.

If a sub I really care about needs help, I'll be there, just as I would if a friend or familly member needed it, because they're special to me as well.

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