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No luck... - 10/20/2007 12:38:46 PM   
AnimalMan22


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Status: offline 		Yeah i need hel bad...i have had no luck at all on this site.... i dont know what to do, i need some help from anyone..please.... What am i doing wrong or not doing at all?
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RE: No luck... - 10/20/2007 12:45:40 PM   
susie


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quote:

ORIGINAL: AnimalMan22

Yeah i need hel bad...i have had no luck at all on this site.... i dont know what to do, i need some help from anyone..please.... What am i doing wrong or not doing at all?


It takes a bit longer than a few days to get response from people. It should take you a few days to work your way through the profiles here and decide who you want to contact. Do not expect things to happen overnight.

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RE: No luck... - 10/20/2007 12:48:14 PM   
Sexynmentalinkc


Posts: 132
Joined: 4/14/2006
Status: offline 		Any such search is a marathon...not a dash.

If that's something that's hard to handle, just build your profile and spend a lil' bit o time on the forums - letting people know who and what you are, how your mind works and let them get a sense of "You".


Some will not answer emails back if they can't look into more about what's behind the profile.


Best o' luck!

*tips his hat*

- Mr. S

P.S. I've met some wonderful people here and look forward to meeting more, learning more, growing more and yes.....FREAKING a helluva lot more. :)


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RE: No luck... - 10/20/2007 1:00:33 PM   
lusciouslips19


Posts: 9792
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Status: offline 		I have been on Collar Me for about a month and a half. It has been a wonderful place. It has a wonderful community. Much different experience than ALT. It has given me the courage to venture out into the community. I have also met Dominants that are sincerly interested in my growth as a submissive and a person. I am currently under consideration of a wonderful Master. i havent even met him yet. We will be in person in a few weeks and if all goes well he will be moving back to my city. Life has many suprises in store for all of us. Take your time and get to know people here. they are worth the time.

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RE: No luck... - 10/20/2007 1:04:15 PM   
HutchGarahl


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quote:

ORIGINAL: AnimalMan22
Yeah i need hel bad...i have had no luck at all on this site.... i dont know what to do, i need some help from anyone..please.... What am i doing wrong or not doing at all?


Dear heart...i've been here for some time now and still yet to find a slave. Although I have had quite a lot of inquiries, and a few have gotten close to a visual with me, none of them have made it. They seem to disappear once a visual is mentioned. :P But, it's ok, i'll find one eventually. And you will to. Just have patience....roll through the profiles, send messages, answer those who message you, make yourself known on the boards. Someone will come eventually. Good luck to ya.

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RE: No luck... - 10/20/2007 1:21:03 PM   
TreasureKY


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From: Kentucky
Status: offline 		Susie is quite right, dear... it's going to take you a bit longer than a week or so to find someone.

I'd suggest a couple of things; your profile seems "open-minded, honest and caring", but it needs to have a bit more information than you've provided.  You might start with what you feel a Master/slave relationship should be like... what it is that you expect and what you can provide.

Here's a few threads that my own dominant started shortly after we met... I'd recommend you read them carefully, he's a wise man. 

How to succeed in your search...

How to succeed in your search - The "Numbers" Game...

How to succeed in your search - Hunting the femsub Part I

Good luck and have patience.

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RE: No luck... - 10/20/2007 1:25:49 PM   
freyjasdottir


Posts: 253
Joined: 8/29/2006
From: PA
Status: offline 		I realize that at your age a week or two feels forever but it isn't.  Good relationships take time to develop.

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RE: No luck... - 10/20/2007 1:28:42 PM   
littleone35


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Status: offline 		It Takes time you can't come on and find someone right away.  Wuls be nice but not relastic.  It took me a year to find my wonderful Master (actually he found me).  Just be patient i know it soumds like a line but its true just be patient.

Matt's littleone

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RE: No luck... - 10/20/2007 1:34:10 PM   
proudsub


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quote:

ORIGINAL: AnimalMan22

Yeah i need hel bad...i have had no luck at all on this site.... i dont know what to do, i need some help from anyone..please.... What am i doing wrong or not doing at all?


Are you sorting through profiles and contacting the ones that interest you in a polite respectful manner, directing your emails to the specific profile?  Also it might help to say a little more about yourself and what you are looking for.  Good luck in your search.

< Message edited by proudsub -- 10/20/2007 1:35:08 PM >

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RE: No luck... - 10/20/2007 1:37:21 PM   
arayofsunshine55


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From: San Francisco, CA
Status: offline 		How can we answer what you are edoing wrong or not doing without more information?  I have no idea what you're doing wother than that you posted a profile here and made this one post.  If you want better feedback on your actions you may need to share more of them.  For example, are you sitting back and witing for young gals to approach you?  Are you sending them short emails like "howya doin'?"  Maybe you are doing something which isn't going over very well but we wont know without more info.

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Is it not most transformative, most earthshaking, to pierce the veils of self-deception and illusion, and crack the eggshell of ignorance, to most intimately encounter oneself? Lama Surya Das

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RE: No luck... - 10/20/2007 2:30:11 PM   
grlneedstolearn


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Status: offline 		Congratulations with your new Master. Hope everything works out for the best of you

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RE: No luck... - 10/20/2007 3:13:06 PM   
came4U


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"older woman?"  .....They really, really blow.


yeah. Blowing rocks.

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RE: No luck... - 10/20/2007 3:20:05 PM   
lusciouslips19


Posts: 9792
Joined: 9/8/2007
Status: offline 		Thanks. I have already met lots of good people from here. It gace me the courage to go to my first Slosh and join a local BDSM club. Me a woman who is not officially owned. I have met more than one Dom that asks me to look inward. this is an important process as so many things from my past surfaces as we delve into these deeper crevices of out psyches. I havent reflected inward as much in a very long time.
Let the healing begin

karen

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RE: No luck... - 10/20/2007 4:56:42 PM   
TreasureKY


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From: Kentucky
Status: offline 		Fast reply:

lol... What is it with all the threads being moved to Polls and Random Stupidity today?

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RE: No luck... - 10/20/2007 5:08:28 PM   
came4U


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From: London, Ontario
Status: offline 		I have no idea but when I logged in to reply to a guy looking for money for a lawyer fund, it sent me to admin log-in LOL.

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