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Cumming but not feeling it? - 10/20/2007 2:17:36 PM   
grlneedstolearn


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Status: offline 		So i'm not sure exactly where i should post this question and i thought this would be a good place to start. But playing with my Dom the other day apparently i did cum and he felt it, but i did not. Yes i felt the orgasm, but not the cumming. Has anyone had this experience before and know what it is caused by, or why it happens sometimes?
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i will also post this in the safety section as well
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RE: Cumming but not feeling it? - 10/20/2007 4:46:37 PM   
adoracat


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Status: offline 		i'm not really sure what you're asking.  cumming=orgasm.  cumming does not equal ejaculation, as it does with a man.

some women do ejaculate, or squirt, but not all women do..some women ejaculate but not every time.  Daddy can see/feel when i do, but i cant always tell.

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RE: Cumming but not feeling it? - 10/20/2007 4:59:54 PM   
grlneedstolearn


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Status: offline 		Basically my question is this: Has anyone every cummed and not felt it? If so, do you know the cause of it or anything about not feeling yourself cum?

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RE: Cumming but not feeling it? - 10/20/2007 5:16:33 PM   
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Status: offline 		You said in the op you felt the orgasm, but you did not feel "the cumming".  I do not understand the question, even after your second post.

How can you seperate the orgasm from the "cumming"?

I do not think I have ever had an orgasm that i did not feel. To me orgasm and cumming are the same thing, but maybe I either don't understand your question or I don't understand the difference between having an orgasm and cumming. So for myself the basic answer is no, I have never either had an orgasm  or cum and not felt it/known it.  I cannot imagine that i could.  Even my "little ones" are hard.

I'll be interested to know more about how you differentiate between the two things, maybe I have been missing something all these years.  I'm always gald to learn something.
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RE: Cumming but not feeling it? - 10/20/2007 5:38:52 PM   
grlneedstolearn


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Status: offline 		i guess for me the difference between oragsming is feeling over excited and cumming is releasing that excitement. Where's LA when you need her???

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RE: Cumming but not feeling it? - 10/20/2007 6:22:10 PM   
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Status: offline 		Well we've had the orgasm vs cumming discussion before, but not specifically what to do when you experience one and not the other.

Generally the answer is- move on and forget about it?  If it becomes a regular thing then you should see a pattern and learn how it works, but a one off thing could be just about anything, women's orgasms/cumming is just too complicated to try to decipher from one instance and post.

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RE: Cumming but not feeling it? - 10/20/2007 6:55:09 PM   
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Status: offline 		I guess you're saying he felt it because you were having vaginal contractions?  That doesn't necessarily mean you were having an orgasm.

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RE: Cumming but not feeling it? - 10/20/2007 9:04:30 PM   
grlneedstolearn


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Status: offline 		It's really hard to explain. i felt the orgasm but i could not feel myself actually cumming. So i'm starting to think that because his hand was in me, that he might have blocked some of it to come out? i think i'm just making things worst by this post.

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RE: Cumming but not feeling it? - 10/20/2007 9:06:09 PM   
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Status: offline 		are you referring about wetness or fluid?  Women don't necessarily have that with orgasm.  It's a good idea to read up on your body hon to get a better idea.

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RE: Cumming but not feeling it? - 10/20/2007 9:24:23 PM   
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Status: offline 		I beleive she is refering to the excretion of fluids without out feeling it. When she has an orgasm normaly she can feel herself cum, but this time she could not feel the exceretion of the fluid but her Dom could. but being a male or female you can have a "dry orgasm" or be concentraiting on something else.

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RE: Cumming but not feeling it? - 10/20/2007 9:37:27 PM   
laurell3


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Status: offline 		well either way, I'm not a doctor, but fairly sure it's not a sign that anything's broken.

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RE: Cumming but not feeling it? - 10/21/2007 4:04:26 AM   
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Status: offline 		This is the sort of thing I can't think too much about because I have weird wiring. 

I can be physically aroused and not know it/feel it.  I can  orgasm without feeling it though I usually know it.  I've never before thought to differientiate between cumming and orgasm so I'm not sure if this helps.

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RE: Cumming but not feeling it? - 10/21/2007 11:54:48 AM   
HisBetaSub


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Status: offline 		Actually, I think I know exactly what you are talking about. Inoticed this happened the other day, which led me to realize it has happened many times before. I have not experienced an orgasm during sex, but there has been a level,  a high level, where it seems to top off and then the level goes away. It doesn't feel like an orgasm that I have experienced by other methods, with contractions and such, but the intensity is the same. I can't tell you what it is or why it is, but if you are able to have orgasms during sex, then count this as an extra. The other day, it was a matter of a certain spot being touched, worked. Hope that helps you out!!

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RE: Cumming but not feeling it? - 10/21/2007 12:31:08 PM   
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Status: offline 		i had this happen to me today and now i know why and that i'm not the only one

< Message edited by angelsub642 -- 10/21/2007 12:34:28 PM >

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RE: Cumming but not feeling it? - 10/21/2007 12:36:33 PM   
grlneedstolearn


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ORIGINAL: MasterDakota

I beleive she is refering to the excretion of fluids without out feeling it. When she has an orgasm normaly she can feel herself cum, but this time she could not feel the exceretion of the fluid but her Dom could. but being a male or female you can have a "dry orgasm" or be concentraiting on something else.



Thank you for your input on it. This is what i was looking for

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