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More on collars - 10/20/2007 4:24:22 PM

sammiebabygirl

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What do people think of collars of consideration. I am sure this has been discussed in the past, but what I want to know specifically is;

Who do YOU believe is the one under consideration.

I have accepted a collar of consideration once and to me, we were BOTH under consideration. In the end, I was the one who opted out of the relationship.

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RE: More on collars - 10/20/2007 4:30:45 PM

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sammi,

In my view that type of collar is more like a dinner reservation. another consideration is that it is a pretend collar with benefits. If one cannot spend a year getting to know and understand the other side of the spash it is destined in most cases to fail.

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RE: More on collars - 10/20/2007 4:32:31 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: sammiebabygirl

What do people think of collars of consideration. I am sure this has been discussed in the past, but what I want to know specifically is;

Who do YOU believe is the one under consideration.

I have accepted a collar of consideration once and to me, we were BOTH under consideration. In the end, I was the one who opted out of the relationship.

jen

Both.

While I don't hold with them much personally, I view them as like engagement rings. Either person can call off the wedding at any time.

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RE: More on collars - 10/20/2007 4:39:00 PM

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I think going steady is cool. I had my boyfriend's class ring when I was in high school.

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RE: More on collars - 10/20/2007 4:45:20 PM

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I think of them as just another chatizm that was learned....nothing more.

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