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Online dominance et punishment. - 10/21/2007 5:50:26 AM   
OnyxDelphi


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Status: offline 		This is a rather random question that popped into my mind as of late.

Let's say for example that you have a dedicated slave via the internet (not to make fun of online M/s relationships at all. Approaching it with complete respect).

Now let's say that for whatever reason the slave needed to be punished, how would you go about doing so?

A mere list of examples would do as well.
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RE: Online dominance et punishment. - 10/21/2007 6:20:11 AM   
colouredin


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Status: offline 		Im not a Master so sorry, but when i was in a long distance sort of D/s relationship my worst punishment was having to send him an email every two hours saying why i was wrong etc etc and had to be at least 500 words long, he wouldnt talk to me at all in the period and didnt tell me how long it would last (it was about five days and honestly was harder than any physical punishment ive had)

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RE: Online dominance et punishment. - 10/21/2007 7:56:01 AM   
OnyxDelphi


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Status: offline 		Well...damn.

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RE: Online dominance et punishment. - 10/22/2007 6:07:09 AM   
Celeste43


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Status: offline 		Back when we were ldr we spent a lot of time online. Punishment was never part of it. Honest conversation was. Sometimes he would tell me to wear a pair of red panties the next day. If I got up and discovered they were unwashed and I had to wear blue instead he accepted that. He did not expect me to stay up all night to do laundry.

Other things? I have a long driveway so taking the garbage out requires driving it down a good quarter mile. If we were chatting when I remembered it was garbage night, I was told to do it right then and sign back in so he knew I was back safe. He did the same thing when I mentioned I had to drive over to the barn three miles away to drop stuff off for a horse show the next day in order to not have to carry it up the hill since parking during shows is far from the ring. I ran my errands, and then signed back in to say goodnight so he wouldn't worry.

We did cyber role play and I was expected to tell him when it wasn't working for me.

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RE: Online dominance et punishment. - 10/22/2007 8:56:17 AM   
LadyLynx


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Status: offline 		colouredin, that was pretty inventive, I think I will save that.

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RE: Online dominance et punishment. - 10/22/2007 9:01:27 AM   
Shawn1066


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Status: offline 		Not a Master myself...but I know several submissives and Mistresses. :-p

Three letters.

FOW.

Fond of Writing.  It's a writing program that's basically impossible to cheat on and you can make a slave sit and write on it for hours.  It tells you if they try to cheat too. :-D

It's quite evil

http://www.geocities.com/cedargmx/fow.htm

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RE: Online dominance et punishment. - 10/22/2007 1:43:18 PM   
colouredin


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyLynx

colouredin, that was pretty inventive, I think I will save that.



It was hard going, but it was great when it was over, he had read all the emails and commented on each or them and created a new email account for me where he had replied to them all, so it was like he had been in touch with me the whole time i just couldnt read it. It meant i could see how he was feeling too and it made us so much closer after that. It really helped too because i was just discovering my submissive side and kept questioning it, when i re read (i still do occasionally) all the mails it just totally solidified all my feelings. :D

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RE: Online dominance et punishment. - 10/22/2007 2:10:53 PM   
Celeste43


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Status: offline 		Hopefully you didn't have to do it from work and risk your job by sending personal emails. Or have them read and been in violation of a morality clause. Or stay up all night to do so, and then drive an hour each way on the freeway the next day.

But the part about him opening up a new email account and responding to each as he got them was sweet.

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RE: Online dominance et punishment. - 10/22/2007 2:25:40 PM   
colouredin


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Status: offline 		No i was a student at the time so i was at home and online a lot anyways lol and if i couldnt do it for any reason i had to send him a short text instead. He asked if i agreed to do it first and set out all the rules so i could question anything which was good, i stupidly thought i was getting off lightly lol

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RE: Online dominance et punishment. - 10/23/2007 3:56:33 AM   
lookingfordaddy2


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Status: offline 		when i had a online master a couple of years ago worst thing which i suggest as it hurt me was no contact for 24 hours and i wasnt allowed in any chat rooms

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RE: Online dominance et punishment. - 10/23/2007 3:59:17 AM   
divi


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Status: offline 		guess if I ever did have an online Master/Mistress.. would kinda of piss me off if they clicked me lol

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RE: Online dominance et punishment. - 10/23/2007 4:22:19 AM   
flag133


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Status: offline 		online dominance had been a bad time for me once as i was ordered to sent pics from me nude in humiliating position in my toilet. She ordered me then to go to a Pro an let my ass be streamed and sent photos to her otherwise she would sent former pics to my wife. So i did. One time she send me back to the Pro for whipping once more because the photo showed not enough "colour". So i went back asking the Pro to do her work again on me. The worse dominance should follow later then.

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RE: Online dominance et punishment. - 10/23/2007 5:00:21 AM   
eyeh8f8


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Status: offline 		To be not so serious, I would probably find a way to punish them by making them say stupid things on AIM conversations, and then post them on a forum.

To be serious. DO something inventive. If you have something like Skype, and don't want to give them your phone yet. FOrce them to listen to you yelling at them or something.. Use your mind and think of something to make them use their mind and challenge them. "Mind Fuck" them or something like that.

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RE: Online dominance et punishment. - 10/23/2007 10:22:26 AM   
adoracat


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Status: offline 		online dominance?  i'm supposed to write at least one email every day to let Daddy know how i'm doing physically if nothing else.  i've had essays to do. 

one person who thought he would end up my dominant was all about denying me his presence, for whatever infraction he thought i was guilty.  that got very distressing very quickly.  obviously, he and i didnt work out.

kitten

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RE: Online dominance et punishment. - 10/23/2007 6:28:43 PM   
brianne4U


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Status: offline 		Many years ago before this Master i was put in a corner. One time while he was on the phone. He had me get a wooden ruler. i had to bend over the bed, pull my panties down and whack myself as hard as i could with it 20 times. If he couldn't hear it from on the phone i had to repeat it until he heard the smack and my out cry clearly. i was punished this way three times. By the time i was finished my bottom was swollen and i was in tears. He would comfort me over the phone then i was to crawl into bed. He would kiss me goodnight and i would cry myself to sleep. The next day all was forgiven and although i had trouble sitting i was happy that my Master still loved me and cared enough for me to give me my punishments when i needed them .  

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RE: Online dominance et punishment. - 10/23/2007 7:22:23 PM   
RRafe


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quote:

ORIGINAL: OnyxDelphi

This is a rather random question that popped into my mind as of late.

Let's say for example that you have a dedicated slave via the internet (not to make fun of online M/s relationships at all. Approaching it with complete respect).

Now let's say that for whatever reason the slave needed to be punished, how would you go about doing so?

A mere list of examples would do as well.


You seem totally obsessed with this-were your parents cruel with you as a child, or what?

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