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RE: Doms checklist? - 10/22/2007 5:55:04 AM   
Celeste43


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Status: offline 		I prefer to read about these things in a profile so I know beforehand if there's basic compatibility or not. I'm into bondage, not pain so I automatically read profiles before responding to emails and sent back thanks but no thanks at the most to sadists who emailed me. Bondage tops though got more consideration since I already knew our kinks matched.

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RE: Doms checklist? - 10/22/2007 6:49:53 AM   
RRafe


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ORIGINAL: laurell3

now there's a picture.....Rrafe in a dolly parton wig....


LOL...horrible thought eh? I'm always good for a mind fuck.

But you get the idea..............just like Celeste said, better to know in advance.

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RE: Doms checklist? - 10/22/2007 8:05:59 AM   
Lordandmaster


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ORIGINAL: chellekitty

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ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster
When I'm alone I enjoy masturbating.


yes, but what kind of porn do you watch? or what kind of fantasies are going through your mind? inquiring minds want to know....

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RE: Doms checklist? - 10/22/2007 8:06:59 AM   
Lordandmaster


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Are you shaved?

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RE: Doms checklist? - 10/22/2007 10:46:15 AM   
DarkDaddyZ


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I am wondering if its appropriate to ask a Dom for a checklist of their interests? To me it gives me insight into their specific likes and dislikes. Should i ask for one?

Yes I believe it is, as well as discussing it in person and/or via the phone.

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RE: Doms checklist? - 10/22/2007 12:49:06 PM   
fire6brand


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Status: offline 		I hope my posting here isn't inappropriate, as it's a "Ask a Master" & I'm very much a submissive creative bottom. If it is inappropriate, please forgive me.

If we meet on a BDSM site, I find it highly appropriate and not at all putting the cart before the horse. Granted, first I like to find out if we are compatible intellectually and in the vanilla world, cause I'm not here just for the beating & f**king donchaknow. If it seems that we are compatible, then I think discussing kink compatibility is very important. I mean, hate to find out too much later that my hard limits are His be all/end alls & visa versa.

Also, I find that sitting and discussing/sharing our checklists with my new friend is a very pleasurable/humiliating (good kind) experience.


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RE: Doms checklist? - 10/22/2007 3:30:56 PM   
windchymes


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ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster

No, darling, au naturel.  Call me Samson.

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ORIGINAL: windchymes

Are you shaved?



Good.  If I wanted a hairless, I'd get a chihuahua. 

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RE: Doms checklist? - 10/22/2007 4:54:53 PM   
grlneedstolearn


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Status: offline 		If they didn't fill one out on here, assuming you met him on here, then i don't see why not. Hmmm, maybe i should ask my Dom for his checklist

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RE: Doms checklist? - 10/22/2007 5:53:36 PM   
ehlovindom


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ORIGINAL: latexbarbiets

I am wondering if its appropriate to ask a Dom for a checklist of their interests? To me it gives me insight into their specific likes and dislikes. Should i ask for one?


You could ask for one or you could also just..............................talk face to face?

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RE: Doms checklist? - 10/22/2007 6:02:32 PM   
Lordandmaster


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ORIGINAL: windchymes

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ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster

No, darling, au naturel.  Call me Samson.

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ORIGINAL: windchymes

Are you shaved?



Good.  If I wanted a hairless, I'd get a chihuahua. 

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RE: Doms checklist? - 10/23/2007 3:44:27 AM   
PerversLove


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Status: offline 		I'm very much in favour of checklists. I think they are a good  way of establishing basic compatibility before taking things further. I normally send my checklist so that sub/slave can check that she is ok with it.  I also prefer her to fill in one too, although if she is  inexperienced and doesn't know her limits it is not always possible.

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RE: Doms checklist? - 10/23/2007 5:07:17 AM   
eyeh8f8


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Status: offline 		If I am talking with someone the main thing I would do would be not to force anything but at the same time get them to think to change the pace a little.

But the question I have is "What are you wearing" and that is probably the most boring question to ask. But meh, it get's answers.

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