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LadyHugs -> RE: RespectOf Domms (10/22/2007 11:10:12 PM)
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Dear Master Reese, Ladies and Gentlemen,
First, welcome to the Collarme.com's forums. Secondly, there will always be an adjustment to language due to the many English speaking countries participating as well as those who's second language is English. So, at times there might be a need to explain a bit as to give another view of what was being expressed.
Third point, is that chat rooms are often as full of variety of individuals, level of experiences and or manners, education/knowledge as the forums. There is a buffet` of personalities and one has to choose how to respond in a way as to carry on a chat. It is a different world in chat then there is in person.
Fourth point, is that we, in a general sense cannot control another person, especially on-line and or in Internet chats and such. However, we (in a general sense) can control our own conduct and thus, are responsible for our own reputation, our own spirit of intent and how we (in general) package ourselves for public consumption and or presentation. It is a reflection of the person that matters however, it is more important that our own personal reflection is maintained to a standard to which can inspire others to change--not from a demand/command.
I do not know which chat room you visited however, we often have men who come through in a Female Dominant room and some are extremely kind and wonderful gentlemen and some who just wish to cause insults, disrupt the room and have the need to be domineering when it is not a room designed for the pleasure of male Dominants. There are other rooms designed for Male Dominants and for Gay and Lesbians as well. It just requires looking up on the menu or going to the Lobby and gaining direction of where they may be in the chat forums.
I do not recall you being in the room of which I am given "Op" status but, as a Lady who is a Dominant, I am sad to hear that you were exposed to some individuals that behaved badly.
Just some thoughts,
Lady Hugs
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