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Receiving Oral, and accidental urine - 8/1/2005 12:45:08 AM   
MtPleasantsubAsh


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Status: offline 		So..i've been involved with a Dom for over a month, and I haven't recieved oral sex from him, although i've given it..I'm not sure how to broach the subject, being that I'm rather shy, any help?

The last time i spent the night I accidentally urinated while he was using a new hitachi wand on me...I'd never done that before, and didn't know what to say....what do i do?

please any advise would help..i'm soo embarassed
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RE: Receiving Oral, and accidental urine - 8/1/2005 12:47:34 AM   
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Status: offline 		Are you sure it was urine? I know that seems like a stupid question, but sometimes g-spot orgasms can cause someone to feel like they have urinated, but it's actually fluids from glands along the urethra (the female version of the prostate gland and other glands) and not from the bladder. There is a thread talking about female ejaculation around here somewhere ... I'm sure that someone will post the link - if they don't, I'll try to dig it out.

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RE: Receiving Oral, and accidental urine - 8/1/2005 12:58:39 AM   
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Status: offline 		It all depends on what your Doms reaction was of if he even noticed. However, SweetDommes is right. It is true that hitting the G Spot can make a lady feel that they are peeing or have to pee when they infact are not peeing at all.

Anyways, urine or not, it all has to do with what your Dom did. If he's still down there enjoying himself, then go with the flow. There is nothing to be embarassed about if he's still happy. As for now, don't do anything but continue the relationship and stay happy with one another.

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RE: Receiving Oral, and accidental urine - 8/1/2005 12:59:51 AM   
oceanprincess


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Status: offline 		I do the same thing when my Dom uses a vibrating bullet directly on my clit. It feels really good, and he's not embarrased if I pee, although sometimes, I still am, and we have been together for over a year. First, I make sure that I go to the bathroom before we play, which helps.

(We got the idea from a friend to try using the baby pads that don't leak through when we play.) Then, my Dom puts one of the pads long wise under my behind. Then we can play, and I don't have to worry about accidentally peeing, and if I do, then it's not a huge deal. We can fold the pad up and wash it the next day. We bought white ones so that we can bleach them too if need be.

Here's a link to Target, that's where we bought ours, they are actually called "crib pads", and we were amazed that they work. It's around $10 bucks for a three pack. I hope this helps.

http://www.target.com/gp/detail.html/ref=br_1_2/601-8020202-3416900?%5Fencoding=UTF8&frombrowse=1&asin=B0001YIAIO

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RE: Receiving Oral, and accidental urine - 8/1/2005 4:55:33 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: MtPleasantsubAsh

So..i've been involved with a Dom for over a month, and I haven't recieved oral sex from him, although i've given it..I'm not sure how to broach the subject, being that I'm rather shy, any help?

The last time i spent the night I accidentally urinated while he was using a new hitachi wand on me...I'd never done that before, and didn't know what to say....what do i do?

please any advise would help..i'm soo embarassed



I love that wand... le sigh.. Master makes me squirt with it now all the time. Well, at least when he uses it. If the wand comes out I am guarentee'd to be squirting that night. I was just like you the first time it happen. I was embarassed, I wanted to crawl off and die, I thought I pee'd all over him. But, instead, he comforted me, told me what a good girl I was and that I had done just what he wanted. le sigh... I love it now. I start giggling and grinning when he brings out the play blanket.

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RE: Receiving Oral, and accidental urine - 8/1/2005 5:28:22 PM   
MtPleasantsubAsh


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Status: offline 		thanks everyone...I know it was urine....and i'll try to sujjest the pads.... I'm still mortified though...it was only the second time i stayed the night....


oh..and no suggestions on how to ask for oral?


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RE: Receiving Oral, and accidental urine - 8/1/2005 5:48:17 PM   
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I know it was urine


Don't be so sure...the fluid produced from a G spot orgasm comes from the urethra....and actually may in part be urine....but you are not peeing. If that is what is happening don't be embarassed. There are many women who try very hard for that to happen and can't. I would really recommend this web site.

http://www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/ejacula.htm

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RE: Receiving Oral, and accidental urine - 8/1/2005 11:28:33 PM   
Tormentius


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Status: offline 		Kegel exercises can also help with control (and doing them has other benefits as well).

< Message edited by Tormentius -- 8/1/2005 11:29:40 PM >

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RE: Receiving Oral, and accidental urine - 8/2/2005 5:39:31 AM   
tinkJH


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MtPleasantsubAsh

thanks everyone...I know it was urine....and i'll try to sujjest the pads.... I'm still mortified though...it was only the second time i stayed the night....


oh..and no suggestions on how to ask for oral?





You can always do it again. This time grab a cup and see if its yellow or if it smells like urine. Master, the night before last, because I am always teasing when he brings out the wand "Oh! I get to poee on you tonight!" (I love the thing). Well, he made me drink two bottles of water so my bladder was full, then wait a half hour just to be sure, had me go to the bathroom. Then he started. I still squirted - twice that night - enough to almost fill a 36oz glass, Yes - He caught most of it into a glass so that I could see and smell it. It was a milky white/sorta clear, and it had only just the faintest of a urine smell to it - Me, being brave (right) even tastes it. Really didnt have a taste, wasnt a urine taste at all. Yes, It does come out of the Uretha, no way around that. It took me a while to be able to relax enough and to just.. let go and allow it to happen.

I would say google Female Ejaculation and read all you can. Its not a bad thing, if your still embrassed and worried about it happening again - ask and talk to him about it. It might have been exactly what he wanted.

On a side note: Kegals are great things to do just because you can.



As for asking for Oral? Well... You pretty much answered it. Just ask. Be open about what you would like, He being Dom however, will decide if you get it.

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RE: Receiving Oral, and accidental urine - 8/2/2005 10:04:14 AM   
MtPleasantsubAsh


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Status: offline 		thank you, thank you all....i do remember it smelling like urine..but i'm not sure he noticed even although there was alot..i felt it under me...

GOD i love that wand...he used it on me again and I didn't release...but he was using an attachment in my cunt not on my clit.....amazing..i reccomend it.

As for ejaculating...i definatly have a new view..thanks...

I hope to talk to him about it....OH..and tomorrow I am going to have my first experience with a woman...any pointers?

I'm nervous as hell

btw...I do keigles....:D



seriously..get a wand..its awesome.
biggest grins

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RE: Receiving Oral, and accidental urine - 8/2/2005 10:50:28 AM   
FelinePersuasion


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Status: offline 		I could kick all the stupid guys I've encountered, who thinks a girl has pissed on herself or when when she eqaculates and makes a big gross ewewew deal out of it. Its like saying he wa spissing on us when he sparyed his cum. It's not piss. it's not gross it's beautifull, and it's no more grosser or unreasonable than when a guy ejaculates. nobody* well mostly* nobody makes a big deal about the sexual liquids that come from men, so why do they do it if a woman is leaky or messy, nobody runs about saying eww gross ewww gross you men ejaculated. ewww ewww sperm is nasty, so the poeple that do it cause a woman was messy shouldn't do that to the women either lol


There's a few guys who're grossed out by it, but most love to see that a girl can it's hot. And girls that can are lucky. I can but rarely.

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RE: Receiving Oral, and accidental urine - 8/2/2005 12:43:09 PM   
MtPleasantsubAsh


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Status: offline 		Lol...I hope he's the latter group...sighs..if not
well...we'll see about it.
I just hope i can talk to him about it w/o being too embarassed..
lol
thanks

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RE: Receiving Oral, and accidental urine - 8/2/2005 4:56:53 PM   
Hissweetshiv


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Status: offline 		I thought it was accidental urination too. Don't feel bad. Master was THRILLED the first time i ejaculated for Him, so don't worry too much about broaching the subject.
As for asking Him to give you oral sex, a simple "Please, Master (Sir, what ever He prefers) will you...." is the best way to go about it. There's no misunderstanding of hints that way, and i'm betting He'll be pleased that you felt comfortable enough to ask directly.

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RE: Receiving Oral, and accidental urine - 8/2/2005 5:19:48 PM   
MtPleasantsubAsh


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Status: offline 		Lol...thanks...
I'm nervous, but nothign doing..gotta buck up, thanks.

lol@you little sayings...chocolate..lol

i think i just need to tell him
but an ex'sub of his...he never gave oral to, so...maybe he dosent like it


oh well..can't hurt to ask..can it?
lol

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RE: Receiving Oral, and accidental urine - 8/2/2005 8:38:51 PM   
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quote:

i think i just need to tell him
but an ex'sub of his...he never gave oral to, so...maybe he dosent like it


oh well..can't hurt to ask..can it?


What strikes me about what you are saying is that you don't know if he likes oral or not yet you are in a relationship with him? If this is something that you wanted, did you not communicate your need to him? Are you afraid to ask him questions?

You will find it over and over in this forum and most all the others ... communication is the key to any good relationship. Don't be timid, talking to him about something like this shouldn't get you in trouble.

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RE: Receiving Oral, and accidental urine - 8/2/2005 10:47:17 PM   
MtPleasantsubAsh


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Status: offline 		I didn't think i would be in trouble..I'm just painfully shy...and no..i'd know alot, but hadn't know if he liked to give a woman head...i forgot to ask i guess...


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RE: Receiving Oral, and accidental urine - 8/3/2005 11:07:30 PM   
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Status: offline 		Seems you are in good training.

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RE: Receiving Oral, and accidental urine - 8/4/2005 3:50:48 PM   
MtPleasantsubAsh


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Status: offline 		thank you...I hope so.

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