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Would'ja believe... - 7/1/2004 2:10:02 PM

LadyBeckett

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I've been here on collarme for a little while, and during my time here I've received my fair share of email. Some of that email has been from dominant males. Of that email, the majority of it has been polite, conversational, interesting, and I have thoroughly enjoyed the exchange, and the resulting associations.

A very small percentage of it has been rude, insulting, unintelligible, profane, etc., and therefore deleted, and in some cases the sender has been blocked for repeated efforts.

However, in four cases now, I have received email from "subs" (in the latest case a "slave") who also had seperate profiles listing themselves as "Doms". Interesting, isn't it?

After informing the "slave" that I would not be speaking to him any longer due to obvious incompatibility and wishing him success in his search, he sent me an email. I am going to include the email in this post:

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I am far more Dominant than you could ever hope to be.

Check out my real profile on collarme.com and have a nice life.

What I imaged in my mind was a little boy standing there with his face all red and his fists clenched, mad as hell. Which didn't bother me at all. His inability to be forthright one way or the other, or having a "slave" profile and a "Dom" profile has no bearing on how dominant I am, however I am curious as to the why of that? What's up with that? Can someone shed any light on this?

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RE: Would'ja believe... - 7/1/2004 2:22:40 PM

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I might be able to.

I like sex. Doms get to have it on their greener grass.

No woman will ever tell me "please, take me!" in response to my "on your knees Bitch."

(And every sub male knows how succesful that line must be to be repeated so often.

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RE: Would'ja believe... - 7/1/2004 2:44:52 PM

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Hi LB,

Can't say for sure, but one guess could be in his mind all women want to submit to a strong man, and he finds it a challange to *turn* those females that claim to be dominant. Of course, he doesn't get that the way he is doing it shows he doesn't even get the basics. I know domiants (both male and female) who believe that the opposite sex will always submit when they are *persuaded* by the right person. But at least they are always themselves, and even though I don't believe they are right, they are honest and truthful in the way they approach it...

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RE: Would'ja believe... - 7/1/2004 2:56:50 PM

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quote:

After informing the "slave" that I would not be speaking to him any longer due to obvious incompatibility and wishing him success in his search, he sent me an email. I am going to include the email in this post:

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I am far more Dominant than you could ever hope to be.

Check out my real profile on collarme.com and have a nice life.

I'm guessing he's a switch but doesn't want that label.

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RE: Would'ja believe... - 7/1/2004 3:01:02 PM

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I realize we may be getting into an issue of ethics here, but wouldn't being a "switch" be preferable to being a "liar"?

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RE: Would'ja believe... - 7/1/2004 3:11:34 PM

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Hiya Sandy!

I saw your post after I had replied to proudsub (who I think really rocks, by the way!), so that covers the honesty part of the response.

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one guess could be in his mind all women want to submit to a strong man, and he finds it a challange to *turn* those females that claim to be dominant

Sometimes that is true, but not always. I have some really really good friends that are dominant men, and the relationships are strictly platonic and always have been. I suppose there's always been that understanding that to go any further would probably damage the relationship. I'm not "one of the guys", they treat me like the woman I am. However one of those relationships started here on collarme, and started out with him approaching me thinking he could "turn me around", so to speak. lol He'll probably read this and blush, lol. It didn't happen quite like that. lol We're the best of friends these days.

My problem is with people who seem to have a problem saying what they are!

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RE: Would'ja believe... - 7/1/2004 3:18:20 PM

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My problem is with people who seem to have a problem saying what they are!

::Winks:: boy you want a lot LB. Next thing you will be saying is that people should take responsibility for their own actions. or to admit that perhaps it wasn't *all* the other person. ::Laughing:: Ahhh,, if people could only be held accountable to the standards they hold others too... it's nice to talk to people who actually say what the mean, mean what they say, and stand behind their veiws without having to resort to name calling and such! (BTW, you are definitely in the catagory of those who say what they mean and mean what they say, AND live up to the standards they expect in others from what I have seen).

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RE: Would'ja believe... - 7/1/2004 3:47:24 PM

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Sounds to me like he wants sex. Whether it comes in the form of cyber or real life it doesn't really matter.
Are'nt most men that way?

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RE: Would'ja believe... - 7/1/2004 5:20:00 PM

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Honesty is hard to come by. I'm not sure why people believe being dishonest gives them some kind of advantage. Perhaps they watch too many soap operas or too much reality t.v.

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RE: Would'ja believe... - 7/1/2004 5:24:07 PM

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Honesty is hard to come by. I'm not sure why people believe being dishonest gives them some kind of advantage. Perhaps they watch too many soap operas or too much reality t.v.

The line which runs through my mind oftentimes is to think:

"Either they are lying to me, or they are lying to themself."

So I just smile, cough up a dead relative whose funeral I have to go to, or ring a fake front doorbell, and move on...

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RE: Would'ja believe... - 7/12/2004 4:49:29 PM

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This is my first time on Collarme chat, i find it very interesting, the guy that had his profile as a dom an slave is a nut.

To send this i guess in click on the arrow. nope that did not do it

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RE: Would'ja believe... - 7/12/2004 5:34:11 PM

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ORIGINAL: sub4hire

Sounds to me like he wants sex. Whether it comes in the form of cyber or real life it doesn't really matter.
Are'nt most men that way?

Shhhh! Ya not supposed to tell that! ;)

What's that quote that keeps popping up? A man just needs a place?

Speaking of real profiles..
Heh.. did a girlie nick one time just to see how the other half lives.. by last count.. 2 out of 100 looked ok (were more than half a sentence) and one of those two looked like a form letter.. Dunno how you put up with it. And you don't really realize just how bad it is till you see it for yourself. Really opened my eyes.

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