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AAkasha -> Coaching (co-topping) nervous femdom beginners via webcam (10/26/2007 9:12:49 AM)
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I've had a few opportunities in the flesh to co-top submissives with women who were brand new or relatively new to domination. Even way back when, when I was still learning myself, I used to enjoy tying up guys for other women and trying to point out to them what was so damned hot about it - and then telling them what to do to the poor guy - this, of course, was more about fun and games. But the real "teaching" type sessions I have done were incredibly fun. It gives me a chance to enjoy the experience one-step-removed and from the outside looking in, and it takes the pressure off the new femdom because she doesn't have to be thinking on her feet the entire time. And for the sub? Well, what does a sub have to complain about when two women are ganging up on him?
Seriously, though, the best part is *pointing out* to the new woman what turns me on, and seeing if it works for her -- sometimes we hit gold, other times just a little, and there are times that some things do fall flat. But at the end, she generally has found a lot to build on. It also gives me a chance to keep overly-eager subs in check, correcting their bad behaviors when I see them, and managing any problems that might be in his style - and that shows the newer femdom how to keep him in check also.
Sadly, I have not done this in a couple of years. I got to thinking, though, that technology actually is common enough now that would allow this kind of "femdom remote learning" to occur. Why not have the submissive and new femdom on cam, and the femdom on the telephone, as the experienced domina gives her suggestions, helps her with the right talk, and tells her how to correct the submissive? I think it could be really interesting. And hot, of course.
Has anyone done this sort of thing?
Akasha
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