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controlled orgasms...for male and female - 10/27/2007 7:17:51 PM

kittybri

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curious...i have a friend that can cum on command...her Master trained her to whenever He says one word...i'm curious if there is any males out there that can do the same thing..a Dom/Domme says one word and you cum right there....anyone?

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RE: controlled orgasms...for male and female - 10/27/2007 7:29:34 PM

Muninn

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Probably. My former Domme was starting something like this, training me into controlling my erection, orgasm control, chastity.

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RE: controlled orgasms...for male and female - 10/27/2007 8:19:33 PM

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We've had a few threads about this. Everyone always seems to say that it must be possible for men too, but I've never seen a male poster claim that his orgasms were controlled by his master or mistress.

And there's always someone who points out that orgasm and ejaculation aren't the same thing.

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RE: controlled orgasms...for male and female - 10/27/2007 11:06:56 PM

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And there's always someone who points out that orgasm and ejaculation aren't the same thing.

I'm reading a book called "The Multi Orgasmic Man", by Mantak Chia and Douglas Abrams. It's a short and easy read, about Taoist practices of both prolonged and multi orgasms, and the difference in intensity they are as compared to ejaculatory orgasms. Both are orgasms; just different kinds, it seems. It's interesting, actually. I have another book called "The Sexual Teachings of the Jade Dragon: Taoist Methods for Male Sexual Revalization" by Hsi Lai, which also teaches ampliphying the intensity of the male orgasm, and channeling such energy for health benefits. I haven't begun that book yet, but it looks interesting and on my top five list of books to finish this year.

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RE: controlled orgasms...for male and female - 10/28/2007 5:09:38 AM

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I seen a porn movie years ago where a guy told himself to cum and he did there wasn't hardly any sex involved, the women all had really long and strait hair so Im thinking it must have been a 70s flick,

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RE: controlled orgasms...for male and female - 10/28/2007 5:18:43 AM

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ORIGINAL: Rushemery

I seen a porn movie years ago where a guy told himself to cum and he did there wasn't hardly any sex involved, the women all had really long and strait hair so Im thinking it must have been a 70s flick,

It's important to remember that all porn is real, real-time documentaries and never ever just movies.....

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RE: controlled orgasms...for male and female - 10/28/2007 5:21:28 AM

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lol, I didnt think of it that way, lol---- I dont watch a lot of porn

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RE: controlled orgasms...for male and female - 10/28/2007 5:54:52 AM

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I've got a guy to come without touching him, but it wasn't as straightforward as commanding a woman to cum.

So, for you, does that 'count', and would you like to know more?

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RE: controlled orgasms...for male and female - 10/28/2007 6:50:50 AM

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Hi ownedgirlie,

I'm going to be looking up those books. "The Sexual Teachings of the Jade Dragon" sounds very interesting. Thank you.

Kat

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RE: controlled orgasms...for male and female - 10/28/2007 11:37:23 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster

We've had a few threads about this. Everyone always seems to say that it must be possible for men too, but I've never seen a male poster claim that his orgasms were controlled by his master or mistress.

And there's always someone who points out that orgasm and ejaculation aren't the same thing.

I was trained by a previous Mistress to cum on command only, but it was a long process and we were living together so She had frequent access to me and used it in Her training. I hope you don't disallow what I'm saying because I'm a switch as my submission is very deep to the the right persona and She was the right person.

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RE: controlled orgasms...for male and female - 10/28/2007 2:31:13 PM

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Hi ownedgirlie,

I'm going to be looking up those books. "The Sexual Teachings of the Jade Dragon" sounds very interesting. Thank you.

Kat

You're welcome, Kat. I figured he makes me feel so good, I want to do the same for him, so I bought these books to learn about enhancing male pleasure. I haven't put it to practice yet though. I was always skeptical of the idea of ejaculation and orgasm being separate, but I am learning more about what is behind each, and what makes them different - they are both orgasms, but pleasure can be enhanced without ejaculating. It's got me curious!

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RE: controlled orgasms...for male and female - 10/28/2007 2:43:25 PM

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I'd love to be able to do this. I have decent control, and in the past have been able to orgasm/ejaculate on a sensory trigger (my wife's feet placed on my face) but not from a word just yet. I've had decent luck on my own separating orgasm from ejaculation as well. It's just the matter of putting it all together now.

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RE: controlled orgasms...for male and female - 10/28/2007 7:35:31 PM

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Here's what I posted

We were able to get one submissive getleman to a touchless orgasm. I think he was a pretty amazing, intense and driven person. The process was exhausting. With women, it's always been a lot easier.
The focus I think is pretty obvious, orgasm denial and teasing. Combination of a cock cage, and cuckold. He enjoyed watching other's play and have sex with his wife while he was in a CB 2000. He would watch, and we'd push his mental buttons. For example, I'd ask who fucks her best, and she'd reply, "You Master!," which he loved. That sort of thing. The only phisical participation he'd be allowed was putting my condom on and cleaning us up after we were finished.

With women I could rely on conditioning with hypnosis, and the things I said to the guy during the process were similar. For men, I suspect the mental/hypnotic stuff is just icing, but I wanted to try everything I could to help the process along. I'd pace what was going on in his body, ( describing it to him as it was happening to him ) and occasionally lead, verbally anticipating the next feeling he was going to have, and near the end begin to suggest what was possible, that if I'd allow him to have an orgam, maybe he could.

In other scenes, I'd ruin his orgasms and I think this also played a role. ( In his case, while an attractive gal would masturbate him to near orgasm, I'd reach over the moment he was about to ejaculate, and hold his penis' head and a bit below firmly, 'ruining' the ejaculation and in his case, killing the orgasm. )

In the touchless orgasm scenes, I'd verbally get him close to cumming, then make it look like I was about to reach over and ruin the orgasm, then I'd explain to him this time, he would be allowed to come, that just maybe he could come, that good things could happen to him if he could come, if he didn't come, well, he didn't want to know what would happpen....

On two occasions he exploded in orgasm, the only touching being the removal of the cock cage.

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