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grlneedstolearn -> Breaking toys? (10/28/2007 7:17:19 PM)
How many of you had broken your fav toy that your Dom/Domme gave you? Did you replace it right away and hope they don't notice? Or did you replace it and tell them? Was your Dom/Domme angry or thought it was funny that you used to too much?

ownedgirlie -> RE: Breaking toys? (10/28/2007 7:20:50 PM)
Mine broke. More like, used so much it ran its shelf life out, lol. I told him and replaced it. Why wouldn't I tell him? He laughed that I had worn it out. I have since gone through several of them, and keep a few on hand now :)

BitaTruble -> RE: Breaking toys? (10/28/2007 7:43:19 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: grlneedstolearn How many of you had broken your fav toy that your Dom/Domme gave you? Did you replace it right away and hope they don't notice? Or did you replace it and tell them? Was your Dom/Domme angry or thought it was funny that you used to too much? Any toy which has broken has done so because he was using it on me at the time. I don't use toys outside his presence, so the rest of the questions are moot in my case. That said, 'if' I did break a toy, yes, I would tell him then it would be up to him whether or not it got replaced. I can't imagine he would get angry over something which would have been accidental as I would never intentionally break a toy! Celeste

grlneedstolearn -> RE: Breaking toys? (10/28/2007 8:18:42 PM)
ownedgirlie, when i was asking about not telling him, i meant out of shame or guilt. Intentionally breaking a toy is not good.

ownedgirlie -> RE: Breaking toys? (10/28/2007 8:49:31 PM)
I understand, grlneedstolearn, but nothing, even shame and guilt, keeps me from telling him things. I haven't intentionally broken anything he has given me. I cherish everything he gives me. Now I did threaten to hide his wartenburg wheel....heh...but that's a different story :)

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Breaking toys? (10/28/2007 9:11:54 PM)
Agreed- not telling and/or trying to cover it up is just never good. Anger is pretty useless- I'm a klutz and tend to break things on a fairly regular basis anyway so it would be something else to add to the pile and laugh about.

stormgirl -> RE: Breaking toys? (10/28/2007 10:16:29 PM)
i did this a coupla times. he laughed about . . .it . . . for quite a while . .enthusiasm indeed :)

slave4urneeds -> RE: Breaking toys? (10/28/2007 10:34:24 PM)
Regardless of the situation honesty is always the best policy, especially when it comes to telling your Dom/me something. Unless of course you are a brat and that is another story all together now isnt it. Shit happens, toys break, things wear out after a certain amount of use, it is no big deal. Even at the play parties that i attend. There are toys, restrains and other items that can be borrowed if you don't have something that you would like to try for a certain scene. The one thing that they state at the begining of every party, the toys are there for you to use and if you break them please please just let us know. That way we can replace it before the next party and everyone can keep on having fun. Nothing like going to the toy bag and thinking you are going to use something and finding it broken.

Driver1961 -> RE: Breaking toys? (10/29/2007 12:55:32 AM)
He dips to all, Ummmm, it's a tad difficult to tell your man that his expensive vibrating gift required a quick warm up your immediate self use- but not in the microwave! Not good on electrical wires n things. I laughed, told her to buy another and to warm it in a glass of water like I did.

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