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going crazy - 10/30/2007 5:17:31 AM

feetslave1000

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hi for all , i really need an advice .
I know this mistress from about six months , at first she was telling me after you finish your exams we will talk and meet , but after i finished she told me she got engaged and till now we chat and she refuses to meet me or send me a voice message on messenger , on the other hand i always send her pictures of me and voice messages .
i really hate this situation , and when i ask her she begins humiliating me and telling me she is afraid cause i am stupid and may do wrong things . She always say that she does not know what will happen and she may takes me for real , but when ........ (no one knows )
my question is : is there any chance for me with her ? or what should i do ? i really think she is good and make me do good things and after talking with a lot of mistresses i think she is the best for me.
am sorry for talking a lot , but am trying to give you a full idea .
thank you

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RE: going crazy - 10/30/2007 5:28:40 AM

LotusSong

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She has chosen another as her primary relationship. I suggest you move on. You are young. You have plenty of time to find another. Sometimes you have to be a friend instead of a slave. Unfortunantly, in some cases you can't be both.

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RE: going crazy - 10/30/2007 5:50:50 AM

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I suspect that she is not who she pretends to be. Perhaps she is male, perhaps she is married, perhaps...

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RE: going crazy - 10/30/2007 6:08:10 AM

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At the best, it sounds like her life carried on while waiting for your life to become free. These things happen, timings for people are mismatched. She may never have the right time for you.

At the worst, she isn't honest or just doesn't know what she wants.

In either case, I think you really need to accept that this isn't the person for you right now and move on in your search for a mistress.

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RE: going crazy - 10/30/2007 6:45:40 AM

chiaThePet

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Ah yes, the dreaded ACT's. (Academic Submissive Test)

Perhaps you scored in the lower percential range.

This teacher clearly doesn't want your apple.

Hit the books, consider changing your major, and move on.

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RE: going crazy - 10/30/2007 7:34:33 AM

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Just a hunch, but I'm going with Rule on this one. The OP is a little vague as to whether or not you've ever heard her voice to verify that she's female. Also not mentioned was whether or not you've seen updated pictures of her in those past six months. Was there ever any evidence that supported the fact that this person is a female?

Let's give 'her' the benefit of doubt and say she is who she says she is. She told you in six months that she would give you the opportunity to meet when your studies were finished. Instead, she got engaged to someone else, and seems to have withdrawn that opportunity. She moved on. So should you.

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RE: going crazy - 10/30/2007 8:19:07 AM

rubberpet

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Count your losses and move on. It may hurt now, but it will hurt a lot more later on if you keep investing more of yourself in this. Whatever the reason, she is dodging you and based on what you say, she seems to be hiding something. If she was worth the time and effort, she would have found a way to give things a shot. She's probably a fake and a game player. You're young and you have plenty of time to find someone better. She's out there, just be persistent and go find her!

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RE: going crazy - 10/30/2007 8:21:41 AM

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She's playing games with you. Move along.

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RE: going crazy - 10/30/2007 8:24:28 AM

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I would thank her for her time and wish her well with her engagement, and move on.

The actions sound shady to me. In my opinion you should be wary of this person and stick with the decision to move on even if this person tries to warm up after seeing that you are moving on.

Cheers,

Sea

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RE: going crazy - 10/30/2007 8:25:06 AM

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I have really enjoyed jerking off to your pics....I'm sorry if you feel hurt or betrayed...You are a very nice sweet boy...I wish you well in your future endeavors.

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RE: going crazy - 10/30/2007 8:27:57 AM

Kana

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If she won't meet, move on. Shes not good, shes full of shit.

In vanilla I have never had anyone miss a first date but its amazing how many people on the net have parents die, or grave family disasters on the day they are supposed to meet some one for the first time. Its because they are liars, period, now its one shot and gone. If they can't show the first time, I never talk to them again.Sounds harsh, but its the way of the web.

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RE: going crazy - 10/30/2007 8:32:10 AM

slaveelle

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I have to agree with whats been posted here. It seems your usefulness to her is now not needed. She's had her fun with you and is now moving on. Unfortunately there will always be people like her, the best thingto do is put an end to her games and move forward.

Best of luck

elle

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RE: going crazy - 10/30/2007 1:57:44 PM

feetslave1000

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wow , thank you very much for answering .
i did not think will get this amount of responses , well why i think she is a female is that she is always on a chat site in the same name and i want to ask
is there any chance that a guy have playing this with me for 6 months ?? by the way we chat usually two to three hours a day .
well, i think i should move on , but am thinking of proceed in this without making high expectations .
thanks again for being kind and wish all the best in your lives

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RE: going crazy - 10/30/2007 5:06:13 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: feetslave1000

hi for all , i really need an advice .
I know this mistress from about six months , at first she was telling me after you finish your exams we will talk and meet , but after i finished she told me she got engaged and till now we chat and she refuses to meet me or send me a voice message on messenger , on the other hand i always send her pictures of me and voice messages .
i really hate this situation , and when i ask her she begins humiliating me and telling me she is afraid cause i am stupid and may do wrong things . She always say that she does not know what will happen and she may takes me for real , but when ........ (no one knows )
my question is : is there any chance for me with her ? or what should i do ? i really think she is good and make me do good things and after talking with a lot of mistresses i think she is the best for me.
am sorry for talking a lot , but am trying to give you a full idea .
thank you

Yeah... I think it's about time you cut your losses and moved on. There are more fish in the sea, to use a cliche... It's a true cliche, though.

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RE: going crazy - 10/30/2007 8:19:55 PM

BeautifulRacket

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quote:

ORIGINAL: feetslave1000

wow , thank you very much for answering .
i did not think will get this amount of responses , well why i think she is a female is that she is always on a chat site in the same name and i want to ask
is there any chance that a guy have playing this with me for 6 months ?? by the way we chat usually two to three hours a day .
well, i think i should move on , but am thinking of proceed in this without making high expectations .
thanks again for being kind and wish all the best in your lives

You are a guy, are you not?
You probably sign on a chat site with the same name, do you not?
You spend several hours a day chatting, and have done so for 6 months, correct?

Why would you suspect another guy wouldn't do the same thing, only pretending he's a female dominant?

Don't consider proceeding. You'll be wasting your time. That's time that you could spend trying to find a real, honest woman who is willing to meet you in person without waiting 6+ months.

Of course, if you don't mind spending your time chatting with someone who's likely another guy, unwilling to verify their identity, and meet you in real life in a reasonable amount of time (for me, that's under a month; I'm not going to waste my time with someone I may not get along with in person because I actually want a real relationship), by all means, go right ahead and keep spending hours a day chatting with this persona, hoping that one day it will turn out to be a female dominant.

Your choice. Good luck with whatever you decide.

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RE: going crazy - 10/30/2007 9:00:59 PM

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Such a short time here...
Much to discover and learn,
Dommes for money,
Dommes for relationship love.

Being here dosen't garantee you either.....
Hang in or cry your eyes out .

Missy.

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RE: going crazy - 10/30/2007 9:04:02 PM

CollegeConundrum

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So many red flags to choose from.

The first one should have sent you packing.

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RE: going crazy - 10/30/2007 10:11:23 PM

MasterFireMaam

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My mother's advice: Ask yourself two questions. 1) Would you miss her if she were gone? 2) Is being in the relationship healthy for you? If the answer is no to either one, you need to reevaluate the relationship and think about ending it.

You already know the answer...you're just wanting someone to give you permission to end it. You don't need anyone's permission to stand up for yourself.

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