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ORIGINAL: mistoferin As a dominant, do you file away little tidbits that get shared through the normal course of conversation? Things that make you go AHA!, I'm going to remember that! Heck, I'm not a dominant and I do that. When we first started talking, FirmhandKY would off-handedly mention some piece of information that revealed a preference during a conversation, and I made a mental note. Things like what kind of beer he drinks, what kind of soap he likes... anything that I felt might be useful to know in order to make his life more comfortable... I have in a file. I pretty much know his preferences now or can give a good guess, so my "radar" is always on the lookout for things I can do to please him or gifts ideas. It's made it easy to decide what to get him for Christmas. Plus it thrills me to surprise him and put a smile on his face. But shhhhh... don't tell him. To whom it may concern, I like milk and cookies. Especially homemade peanut butter cookies. Mmmm..... ^_^
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