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Mercurialdame -> RE: Newbie kidnapped (10/30/2007 3:26:07 PM)
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Yes, i too have this fantasy. Im in a very loving relationship that is long term, and yes, we do play this fantasy out.
Unlike toservez suggests, i dont find the fact, that i KNOW who's doing the abducting, i know im never going to be hurt, but there is enough sensory dep, and silence to have my adrenalin pumping all the same. In real life, i am worried for my safety, being taken out to the bush, and thrown on the dirt floor, were there are deadly spiders/snakes and dreadful critters waiting to devour me alive, that's fear factor substitution enough thanks! It works for us, as does all kinds of knife play, of course he's not going to cut my throat open, it doesnt stop me reacting as if he might though! Im a jumpy bitch around those knives, i KNOW how sharp they really are, and if i move, im gonna get cut.
There is always the thought of a 'accident' that keeps it real for me.
Theatre has to be created. A lot of thought goes into kidnapping or any other such headfuck scenes. I like that effort personally. We gain a lot from such play. Though toservz is not the only person ive heard say that headfucks wouldnt work, as they know they would be safe. That's such a shame i think.
md
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