unforegvn -> RE: a dichotomy (12/31/2007 3:47:48 PM)
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ORIGINAL: Baroque A fine evening and a question. I am not new to SM. I find a dichotomy in practitoners of BDSM here. Question: Fem submissives crow they are hot stuff, beautiful, independant, hard working, educated, gainfully employed, parents, and mentally stable. Pillers of their communities! Some of the same submissives claim: broken bones, whip scars that show, bruised faces, and permanent damage are thrilling and orgasmic. You are so gorgeous hon. Male dominants: claim they seek pure fresh meat. Hot, sexy, pretty sweet faces and tight holes. So: what is the reality? edit to add: there is no reality. Can any answer the question? Thank you. Are you wanting us to answer your question about the submissives or your question about what is reality? You apparently have trouble with the complex nature of humans in general they do tend to contradict themselves don't they! Your question about reality - for me reality encompasses contradictions within the moment they are shared with another. Reality is your interpetation of facts, truths and events that affect your mind. Do you believe in Aliens, A pot of gold at the end of a rainbow, ir that the sun rises in the East, reality is what you believe not what others believe. So in reality - yes submissives are pillars in their community and yes submissive like to have their asses beaten to a pulp that is their reality 1 + 1 doesn't = 3 or does it?
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