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a brief intro - 8/3/2005 4:47:23 AM

daddysprop247

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greetings to all...as it states in my profile, i am a very happily owned slave to my Master and Daddy of the past 5 years. yes, He is my Daddy, but He is not a "DaddyDom." He is 43, i am 24, and we are both african-american. we live in the DC metro area and are somewhat active in the local scene. for us, Dominance and submission is not a lifestyle choice, but more the natural order of things. hopefully this site and this board will provide an opportunity to respectfully exchance ideas about the lifestyle, have a bit of fun, and maybe even get to know others of like-mind offline. toodles. :)

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RE: a brief intro - 8/3/2005 5:48:10 AM

masie

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hello

welcome to the boards from a newbie myself, although not to the lifestyle have been a slave to Master for 7 years, and like yourself we view it as a natural order, wish you both well

respectfully
masie

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RE: a brief intro - 8/3/2005 7:45:52 AM

imtempting

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Hopefully this is just becasue im tired but he is your daddy? Is that just a bdsm wording or is he your actual biological father?

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RE: a brief intro - 8/3/2005 8:21:52 AM

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Imtempting, run a search of 'daddydom' and you will find many threads which touch upon this style of relationship, including one that was active yesterday titled: Daddydoms and babygirls...

Daddysprop247, welcome to Collarme. You will find plenty of like-minded people on the message boards, so I encourage you to read them at your leisure and maybe join in the conversations.

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RE: a brief intro - 8/3/2005 6:21:31 PM

imtempting

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the line. He is my daddy not a daddy/dom throws me off abit.

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RE: a brief intro - 8/3/2005 6:58:53 PM

onceburned

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Yes, I misread it. I apologize.

daddysprop247, would you be willing to explain what you mean that he is your Daddy but not a Daddydom?

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RE: a brief intro - 8/8/2005 5:41:05 PM

daddysprop247

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thanks all for the warm welcome. :)

as to how my Master is my Daddy and yet not a "DaddyDom", it's a bit difficult to explain and largely personal. however suffice it to say that the fact that He is my Dad has absolutely nothing to do with the lifestyle.

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RE: a brief intro - 8/8/2005 6:19:00 PM

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Hi Daddysprop, and welcome to the group. I never heard about the Daddy/litle Girl thing before, but it does facinate me. I LOVE to dress up, and wonder if that is part of the Daddy/Litttle girl thing, or is it just a hyped up thing, thought up by guys? I would love to have a Mommy...to dress me as a little boy and such, but not sure if that is a real scenerio or just something from my imagination....and I have a pretty good one to...LMCLAO

Anyhow, welcome to the group and maybe we can hear from Your Daddy too sometime. Please don't get offended about the "Dressing" up part, I just don't really know anything about this, except what I seen in other ODD sites, not this great one.

Still behaving (Yeah, Right!), BalletBob

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RE: a brief intro - 8/9/2005 9:34:47 AM

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quote:

...welcome to the group and maybe we can hear from Your Daddy too sometime...

Hello all,
I'm prop's Daddy, among other things. And she's clarified it as much as I allow her to. I don't allow her to get into those details too deeply simply because she has been misunderstood and attacked in the past. So I prefer that she not get into it too deeply.

I, on the other hand, will briefly try to shed just a little light on this one aspect of our union. Because we are more than this one aspect. In discussing this I am not saying that what we share is like or unlike any other relationship where the Master is also referred to as Daddy. My comments are just about us. Period. To each his/her own.

To answer the questioned asked earlier...No, I am not her biological Daddy. As she stated in the original post, I have only been her Daddy and Master for 5 years. she's 24.

In our society (vanilla or not) there are many people who's father or the person that they look to as there real "father" or "daddy" is not their father or daddy in a biological sense. I came into my slave's life when she was young (legal, but young still) and still blossoming in many ways, and in every since of the word, as far as our lives are concerned, I became her Daddy. This is not a role that I pick up and put down as some do in expressing a kink, but something that I became in every sense of the word as far as we are concerned. I became responsible for every aspect of her life. Not simply controlliing her life, but being there as a young girl's Daddy to nurture and provide for every single emotional, financial, physical (non-sexual) and practical need, and help her deal with the maze of life and life's challenges in general. Yes, she was a natural submissive when I met her. But what developed was much more than a traditional M/s relationship. The M/s thing took time. What I became first was Daddy. Would I have become her "real" Daddy had her biological father's life not been cut short? Who knows. But the reason is not the point I'm discussing here. The point is life happened the way it did, and I became her Daddy. Not because I was looking to be someone's Daddy in such a real sense. It just happened.

I've been in this lifestyle 17 years. And the other two slaves I owned long-term were older than myself. My union with prop just unfolded differently. Very differently. And as far as how we grasped what was happening, I naturally became her Daddy in a real sense. Some may say I'm just her Master who is also her father figure. So be it. I've been around this lifestyle long enough to understand why some would see it that way. As for how we feel about it, what we have is much more. And that's all I can say about it.

Hope that sheds a little light on that aspect of our union. If I only confused you more, or you disagree? Fine.

Be well,
Poppi

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RE: a brief intro - 8/9/2005 2:41:02 PM

imtempting

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Cheers it just freaked me out to think her biological dad was her master:|

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