DMFParadox
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ORIGINAL: pahunkboy A guy that is fun in bed- is often a terrible LTR. No commen ground other then bed fun NUTS to that, pardon the pun. This line is bullshit. I consider keeping my girl panting a major long-term-relationship skill. aside from the basics of food, sex, sleep, chores, places, and toys, I almost never have common ground with a girl--how many girls do YOU know that have 'particle collision physics' as a hobby? Or emergent systems behavior? Who can tell Pythagoras from Archimedes? Or can sit and listen to you explore male player seduction techniques without getting slightly green around the gills? Or chess, or advanced poker statistics, or web design/internet application design.... it takes a lot of effing effort to make those subjects poetic enough to draw female attention. But you keep her hot enough without giving away the farm, and she'll find reasons to be interested in anything you tell her to be interested in. I know for damned sure that if she isn't keeping me happy when I'm in the mood, she's in for a world of hurt... so I make sure that she's always wanting more. Less of a struggle that way, and it makes the days pass a lot more smoothly. Dude, being a good fuck is THE relationship skill. That, plus being able to keep the hassle of household chores, work schedules, and such to a minimum or find ways to make the boring day to day activities bonding and fun. But that's only a close second to good sex, IMHO.
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bloody hell, get me some aspirin and a whiskey straight "The role of gender in society is the most complicated thing I’ve ever spent a lot of time learning about, and I’ve spent a lot of time learning about quantum mechanics." - Randall Munroe
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